BET’s homage to Jackson had its moments but failed to stir

The annual BET ceremony, which honors black singers, actors, and athletes, happened to fall a few days after Jackson’s death, So the stage was set for an emotional tribute to the man without whose video work BET arguably might not exist. But hopes for an impromptu, deeply felt night faded as the show teetered awkwardly between the usual overcrowded and self-promotional awards-show fare and too many knee-jerk nods to Jackson. Even the presence in the audience of the singer’s father, Joe, failed to stir a palpable sense of heartbreak at the Shrine Auditorium in Los Angeles.

There were moments, to be sure, at the beginning and the end, when the almost four-hour event promised to do justice to Jackson. Host Jamie Foxx began with a good-humored reenactment of Jackson’s moves from the “Beat It’’ video, dressed in a red-leather jacket and a white glove. Throughout the night, he and other performers sampled Jackson’s iconic clothing - an ongoing series of fashion winks. And Foxx’s early words about Jackson were clearly from the heart: “We want to celebrate this black man. He belongs to us and we shared him with everybody else.’’

New Edition brought potential to the opening of the show, too, with an enjoyably sloppy Jackson 5 medley. They didn’t make magic of “ABC’’ and “The Love You Save,’’ but they suggested that the night would be loose enough to allow genuine moments to sneak into the cavernous hall. Much later, Janet Jackson’s appearance onstage before the finale was powerful. “To you, Michael is an icon,’’ she said in her brief remarks. “To us, Michael is family. He will forever live in all of our hearts. On behalf of my family and myself, thank you for all of your love.’’ After she left the stage, Foxx and Ne-Yo sang a sweet duet of “I’ll Be There.’’

But BET didn’t have enough time to perfect the balance between the homage and the already planned ceremony during most of the night. The thanks and appreciation for Jackson from almost all the winners sat awkwardly with performances such as “God in Me’’ by Mary Mary and “Ave Maria’’ and “Angel’’ by a wind-blown Beyonce.

Without a doubt, though, the musicians who want to more thoroughly celebrate Jackson will have many more opportunities in the coming weeks, months, years, and decades.