
Addressing eruptions over overeager busboys, plus mooching in-laws
I was recently at a restaurant with eight people. When half of us had finished eating, the waiter and busboy began clearing away the dirty plates. One person became upset and stated this was “unacceptable,” even demanding to see the manager. I was the only person at the table who didn’t seem bothered -- I appreciate sitting for a bit ...
Laid off, lying low
Do you have to visit your old office? Plus bothersome roomies and discounted tips.
The pregnant puffer
Can I tell an expectant woman to stop smoking? Plus saying no to pet-sitting requests.
Creepy come-ons
When customers profess love, plus skipping destination weddings.
His name is Elmer?!
When grandparents-to-be hate the chosen baby names, plus movie theater and travel how-tos.
Bride says zip it
She's heard enough from inquiring minds, plus "mortifying" party invitations.
An employee's lament
Are co-workers jealous of a short workweek? Plus party guests who ruin food plans.
Brother, spare a seat
Seven months pregnant and riding the T, plus gifts for adult children and simple weddings.
Not that kind of friend
How to turn down Facebook requests from co-workers, plus confessing to better deals.
The fog of war
When you're caught in the middle of feuding friends, plus the necessity of e-mail subject lines.
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