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Monday question: Not your 7-11

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"Be prepared," the Boy Scouts say. "Sponge off those who are," say everyone else. What say you to today's dilemma?

I work in a busy environment where people are sitting near in close cubicle in constant communication w/ each other and on the telephone with customers. I keep my cubicle stocked with things I need for the day (forks, napkins, Tylenol) to avoid getting away my desk multiple times during the day as we are typically very busy. I work w/ many other co workers that are aware of this and constantly ask for things- multiple times during the day, "can I get a napkin?," "do you have a snack?," "do you have extra plastic wear?" I used to never mind but the constant interruption and obvious reason that they can go down to the café to pick up most of these things is distracting. I?m finding myself more annoyed as people ask me but I feel silly hiding my stash of forks. Is there a polite way to avoid all of these interruptions?

I'll post my advice on Friday, and a conversational topic on Wednesday. And, as always, you can check out my personal blog for musings about all kinds of other topics. (You can also follow me on Twitter -- robinabrahams.)

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