Now that storms and elections are over, let's celebrate the return to normalcy with a Monday question. This new mother is looking for advice:
As a first time mom I am coming across a host of new issues and wanted to write to you to gain some baby insight. When dining at a restaurant with my baby who is actively eating dinner or lunch as well, how do I handle the mess that she makes? I travel with surface wipes and always try to clean the table off before and afterwards but there is inevitably a pile of food that lands on the floor beneath the high chair. Should I crawl under the table to clean it up or is it understood that babies simply miss their mouths while learning to eat? We avoid going out during peak dining times (typically around 5:30 or 6pm) and frequent restaurants that we deem more "baby friendly" yet always feel a little badly leaving a mess for the waiter. There is also the logistical challenge at times of holding a squirming baby while trying to clean up.
What have you got, dear commenters? Advice from parents, waitstaff, and restaurant managers is especially welcome. I'll summarize your advice on Friday.
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