Gracie Girl, I did a search over at theknot.com for disc jockey Tom Hawkins and found this reviews( http://community.theknot.com/cs/ks/user/page.aspx?username=Beansie )

I would also meet with your DJ to see if you click and, also ask over at the knot ( http://talk.theknot.com/boards/main_frame.aspx?page=ShowForum.aspx?ForumID=89 )