how soon for attraction?

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    Fun, do most of your dates hold the motel door open for you? I would hope so.
     
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    Well, I think there are two kinds of attraction. There's the physical, which I believe can be instant. Then there is the deeper, more emotional attraction. That comes with time. I don't think there's an "estimated" time for any kind of attraction. This varies from person to person. If there is an initial, mutual "physical" attraction, then most likely it will lead to date #2.
     
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    15 minutes tops !
     
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    you are over analyzing this, you have got to be in to win. Get in there and let the chips fall where they may
     
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    I think the personality stuff can take longer

    It absolutely takes longer. You can be sitting across from the hottest guy/girl and you can be mutually attracted to each other, but if you don't have that "click" so to speak, it's just physical. And frankly, that won't last long.

     
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    Jess, this is still the only picture I have of you from our date, sorry I had to leave but it seems like you got home ok. Love the boots.
     
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    Calm, you always seem to leave me "hanging". This is why I wander...
     
  8. You have chosen to ignore posts from liljess. Show liljess's posts

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    15 minutes?? Tru, don't you give them a chance?

     
  9. You have chosen to ignore posts from trublusu. Show trublusu's posts

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    Well, maybe 1/2 an hour. Seriously, I think men can know in a few minutes if they are attracted or not since they are so visual. Women on the other hand look for personality and looks so we are more willing to "wait it out" so to speak and see what might occur. I have met many a good looking man who opens his mouth and poof - attraction gone. And vice versa.
     
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    I am changing my name to Jezebel. Love it !!
     
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    have a couple of drinks and let the clothes fly......best way to get to "KNOW" somebody, hard to have any pretense then, the real person tends to come out
     
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    Oh, believe me - I have learned my lesson with the ugly guy. Nobody fools me anymore.
     
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    With me it's not a "looks" thing. It's always how they make me feel. Are they interesting, are they funny, are they outgoing? Those are the qualities that seem to interest me.
     
  14. You have chosen to ignore posts from trublusu. Show trublusu's posts

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    This so true - if you feel comfortable around someone and they make you feel good that makes a huge impact. When they talk too much about themselves, their jobs or ex-girlfriends / wives, it's more like a competitive thing, which is uncomfortable.
     
  15. You have chosen to ignore posts from trublusu. Show trublusu's posts

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    That's a guy thing. What a surprise you popped up.
     
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    Tru, this guy can be funny but he mostly has a good heart, do you want his number.
     
  17. You have chosen to ignore posts from trublusu. Show trublusu's posts

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    Yes, BO is a turn off
     
  18. You have chosen to ignore posts from trublusu. Show trublusu's posts

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    Friend of yours?
     
  19. You have chosen to ignore posts from trublusu. Show trublusu's posts

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    It's an ego thing to them queen. Once their ego is high and mighty since they got a pretty girl the challenge is gone. Then they go back to dating their own kind.ha,ha
     
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    Tru, don't start sister. Your type seems to follow the money.
     
  21. You have chosen to ignore posts from trublusu. Show trublusu's posts

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    People can have alot of money and still be cheap. I don't like cheap.
     
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    Tru, I mean, come on!!! You and all of your lady friends here can go on your dates and call the guys cheap even though you brought 3 dollars. Cheap is bad. Just say what you really mean, guys who do not spend alot on you are bad (while you sit and bat your eyebrows)
     
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    Queen, I couldn't agree with you more. I have been dating a guy since November and have yet to tell him how I 'feel". He brought it up once and I asked him "Are you happy with the way things are? If so, why ruin it".
     
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    Jess - how did he "bring it up?" I'm just curious. I'm afraid to say how I feel as queen said - they go a runnin. It's a real shame that telling someone how you feel ruins things - it shouldn't be that way.
     
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    That's not true, well maye a little
     
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