My mother passed when I was 25 and I haven't celebrated this holiday since that time. I recently got married(6 weeks ago) and now have a MIL. My hubby and I live out of state from his parents. My Hubby will be taking his mother out for Brunch on Friday (I have to work) but I do get along quite well with my MIL and I would like to acknowledge this holiday celebrating my MIL. Would it be weird for me to send something to the MIL since I will be unable to attend the brunch with my hubby?