My boyfriend and i just broke up about a couple weeks ago. During this couple of weeks i have been crashing at a friends place, but things are not working out with my friend as i hoped. My boyfriend, now ex, and i got an apartment together a few months ago and we ran into some financial situation where we bother lose our jobs (thank god for a landlord who is very understanding and was not planning on kicking us out) which caused our relationship to go down hill. He says still loves me and i still love him, we both agreed after we get out life back on track with working and school we would get back together and get married, but right now is just not the right time to be worrying about a relationship. We both are on the lease and i just found out that there is no way i can get off the lease because he is not qualified to be on it by himself. So i sent him an email last night giving him the facts that the apartment is rightfully mine as it is his and that the living situation with my friend is not working out. He emailed me back today saying " if this is how u want to do this then fine. but remember we are not together anymore. i will come get you tomorrow so have your stuff together!" i am not sure how to take that response so i am just going with the flow and hoping that this living situation works out. While i am there i am not sure what to do, like do i talk to him like nothing is going on and we are just friends or just focus on myself school and work. We want to get back together eventually, i am just not sure how to act when i moved back into the apartment. I/we worked very hard for that apartment and we don't want to just give up and and i don't want him to "walk all over me" he has his moms to go stay with, unlike me i have no one, all my so call friends have bailed on me and my dad will not let me move in with him. What should i do about this whole situation?
Might i add, when we were together, he was the one who paid all the bills. and after he responded to my email he started joining these dating websites after telling me he is not interested in being in a relationship or anything. Should i talk to him and see whats going on or just focus on me and live out this lease as best as we can?
Something deep down is telling me to be patient, things will work out fine we both just need time. But my head is elling me to freak out and second guesss everytrhing. i want to just think that with him working a lot now he joined thoes sites to just make friends. We both are trying to find ourselves in the lord, but i am not so sure if he really trying or its just satan tempting him. HELP ME PLEASE!!! I wants some advice before he comes and get me in the morning.