[Quote]Oh, she's the MOH - sorry I missed that. Yes, of course, that could be the reason for the different style dress.[/Quote]
Not the MOH.
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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[Quote]The dress is GORGEOUS. However, I cannot see it working on anyone who's pregnant and showing at all. :([/Quote]
Well, it's her call. She can either go with that dress or go with a different style. The other style is a two piece so probably more comfortable and easier to get altered for someone who is pregnant. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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Wouldn't people just think it was because she's MOH? Or, at least, couldn't she say that?
I am with Missy, though - it would help to see the dress.[/Quote]
No she would not say she is the MOH. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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[Quote]It's a nice idea, but if you go with that, how about choosing different styles for all the girls - same color/dress manufacturer. If you single her out and she doesn't become pregnant, how terrible for her to have the reminder...and how even more awful for her to have to explain to innocent inquirers.[/Quote]
Wouldn't people just think it was because she's MOH? Or, at least, couldn't she say that?
I am with Missy, though - it would help to see the dress. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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The dress is GORGEOUS. However, I cannot see it working on anyone who's pregnant and showing at all. :( -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
- WhirledPeasPlease
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Missy, I was thinking the opposite--I'm small (5' and about 100 lbs) and there's no way I could rock that dress; definitely don't have the chest for it! I think it'd look good on a curvy girl, though. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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Sorry, didn't see your post before I posted...stupid BDC...since you don't want to change the dresses for everyone, if your friend is happy with that dress, then ordering a size bigger and altering it sounds like the way to go. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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Oct. I looked at the link you posted and in my opinion, that dress will only look flattering on a very thin bridesmaid.
If you think she will be preggo, I would strongly advise letting the girls each choose different dresses since she is not the moh. I know you may like that style, but, the girls are the ones buying the dress and wearing the dress. It is a hefty price to pay for a dress they will only wear once. I would want them to be comfortable in it. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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That's a very beautiful dress. Is that the color you are going with?
In my opinion, I don't know if that style would look good on someone who "could be" 6 months pregnant at the time. Might be uncomfortable, too. -
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[Quote]It's a nice idea, but if you go with that, how about choosing different styles for all the girls - same color/dress manufacturer. If you single her out and she doesn't become pregnant, how terrible for her to have the reminder...and how even more awful for her to have to explain to innocent inquirers.[/Quote]
I am definitely not changing the dress for everyone. We've decided to wait until May 1 and it's her choice whether she either gets a different style, waits to order from a different dye lot, or orders a couple sizes bigger.
I don't know how to post pictures on here, but it's Watters style 3733. http://watters.com/dress_popup.php?showid=889&id=0 -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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kar, I don't think she's the MOH. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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Then it might just be a situation that you'll deal with when the time comes closer. I really don't think that style would look nice and comfortable on a pregnant woman. It looks rather tight around the mid section.
What are you going to do if she ends up getting pregnant, and doesn't want to wear it? -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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[Quote]lol, I think we all made up that she's the MOH. IMO, different dresses on BMs look nice--it highlights their individuality and they'll feel much more confident and in the merry-making mood when they're in dresses that complement their body types.
You could do same designer, but different styles of dresses. If the color and fabric are the same, it'd look very nice. What're your colors?[/Quote]
I started searching for a bridesmaid dress months ago. I even looked everywhere for this style dress for the best price. I am not choosing different styles for different bridesmaids. I ordered the dresses and put a deposit down for all the girls to offset the cost of the dress. Everyone responded and said the love it. She responded with her concerns which I totally understand. All I can do now is wait and see what happens.
My bridesmaid dress color is chocolate brown. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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Oct, that is a tough situation! I know there have already been tons of posts, but I agree with those posters who have recommended for the BM to get the same dress in couple sizes larger... it looks like one that could be taken in to fit her perfectly, baby bump or not. If she likes the dress to begin with, then that might be the best option.
(p.s. it's gorgeous! Are all of your BMs tall?) -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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October,
This dress is beautiful! As someone who design and sew some of my own dresses - I honestly do not think you have to worry. Order your BF's dress a couple of sizes larger - and have it taken in to fit her - pregnant or not - when the time comes. The rouching can be taken in or out to fit her baby tummy - if she has one. In fact I think it is and ideal dress to deal with. And the dark color will hide lots. Good choice. Best of luck to you both. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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Haha! Kar - they didn't rock much for me. After carefully measuring myself - I sent for one.
It came and I tried to try it on. Oh my God - I couldn't press myself into the darn thing. Had to ask hubby to help me out of it. We were both laughing so hard that our tears were rolling down our cheeks. And I am quite a normal size - not a 2/4 as you, but more like a 12/14. What's the secret? - Pingo
[Quote]Yeah, Spanx rock. I'm a size 2/4, and they make me nice and smooth under anything, jeans to gowns. I don't need to look smaller, but they are smoothing and shaping, and after I eat I don't have to suck in to look the same as pre-dessert.[/Quote] -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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[Quote]Let's hear a big chear for Spanx, ladies!!![/Quote]
I've never tried them. Are they good? -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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Thanks Missy. Sorry if my post was misleading I didn't think my possibly pregnant bridesmaid would wear spanx with the dress. And, just so you know everyone of my bridesmaids is a size 6 or smaller. And, they all love the dress. I was in every single one of their weddings and loved the dress that we wore. And, even if I didn't, I would have smiled and wore it anyway.
I have never once said I am forcing her to wear the dress. It is ultimately her decision what dress she chooses to get so that she will be comfortable. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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It doesn't trust me. I've put on 20+lbs and it hides all my problem areas because of the ruching. And, God created Spanx for a reason. Last year I had to wear a BM dress that was fitted and satin and that dress showed everything.[/Quote]
I dont really think your pregnant bm will be wearing spanx
why are you so opposed to letting them each where a dress in the same color that fits their body shapes? Why dont you want them to be comfortable? Youre not wearing it, they are. Imagine being pregnant in an incomfortable dress for that amount of time. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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[Quote]Oct, that is a tough situation! I know there have already been tons of posts, but I agree with those posters who have recommended for the BM to get the same dress in couple sizes larger... it looks like one that could be taken in to fit her perfectly, baby bump or not. If she likes the dress to begin with, then that might be the best option.
(p.s. it's gorgeous! Are all of your BMs tall?)[/Quote]
One is 5'5, the rest are my height so about 5'7 and one is 5'9 -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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I had to wear an ivory, heavy satin bridesmaid dress once. I was fine, but I was certainly sucking it in all day that day.
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yeah. I'm sure that is what I am going to be doing in my own wedding dress if I don't start busting my butt at the gym, -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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Well, it's her call. She can either go with that dress or go with a different style. The other style is a two piece so probably more comfortable and easier to get altered for someone who is pregnant.[/Quote]
That might be a better choice for her. Just imagine not being pregnant, but putting on some weight and having to wear that dress. It seems to show everything. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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I think it's a beautiful gown and that style of ruching does wonders in creating an hourglass shape on almost any body type. I'd love to wear it!
But I'm not sure it would look right on someone who was pregnant and showing. -
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posted at 4/7/2009 12:27 PM EDT
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I had to wear an ivory, heavy satin bridesmaid dress once. I was fine, but I was certainly sucking it in all day that day.