IDMWIT and RDG – You are welcome to your own views, but I think you are both missing the point about the “b-word.” It’s a pornographic term, and Boston.com has therefore banned it from the comments. Rather than leave you all puzzling over why the comments were removed, and why the word got through one day but didn’t the next, I decided to explain it to you in the hope that you would all stop trying to circumvent the word filters.
I’m sure you could Google around and find the reference that I read many months ago when we banned the word, but I don’t suggest doing so at work, especially if your boss might see your computer screen. The pictures are quite graphic.
I wonder if you are using the word to refer to a one-on-one experience, but if so, then you are not reading the same Urban Dictionary that I am. It is a group practice, and is generally used to humiliate women. That is the comparison I was trying to make between bukkake and gang-rape and stoning.
I don’t think it’s something you want to be joking about. In any event, it’s not allowed on Boston.com, and that’s why the comments were removed.