Re: Jeepers Cripes
posted at 9/28/2010 12:35 PM EDT
In Response to Re: Jeepers Cripes
[QUOTE]Its really mainly the guys boat I sail on. He has always kind of hinted that he likes to take his time getting to know someone before "putting the moves on". He's awesome and we have a great time when we hang out. Just no attraction what-so-ever on my part. Just have that feeling that if he knows I am "hanging out" with someone it would change our friendship. That would bum me out. Also, I would never dump my friends for a guy. Did long time ago and learned my lesson having to make new friends all over again.
Posted by Jeepers07[/QUOTE]
Jeepers07, that is a tough position to be in... sounds like a great friend to have, and you are clear you don't have romantic feelings for him. If your current relationship, and the friendship with this guy, continues, you will probably eventually have to let the friend in on your status. Hopefully it wouldn't change the friendship too much... I don't know what I'd do, but I think I'd probably tell the guy friend, and hope he sticks around as a friend.
Switters, I think it's great when a guy knows about "girly" stuff. My bf recently admitted to me that he had watched 'Mona Lisa Smile' (a film I was watching again because I love it), and that made me love him even more. :)
diamondgirl - you sound like my friend, who has trouble keeping the guys away because they love her so much. You are a treasure, so don't let them take your shine and polish! :)
And Jeepers, it is totally from my own experiences, too, that I learned if you neglect your friendships for a romance, it will never turn out good.
Have a great day, everyone!! I'm helping with my sister's wedding so I won't be lurking on the blog for a bit... hope you all are well and enjoying the global warming. :)