Love Letters 3/26 Breakfast Club

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    yeah... I am not making this a HUGE deal lol but it happens often. I don't know why people you've dated in the past, when it's ended weirdly, still look for you on FB and other places. It's like, just go away. lol...
     
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    In Response to Re: Love Letters 3/26 Breakfast Club : Depends. Are you single and ready to mingle? Would you want to recreate some of the fire you two had burning? You could accept and continue to ignore, but then I'm assuming the invasions on your life would increase, more messages, IMs, texts, etc. You could message him first and lay your boundaries on the line. You could decline and reinforce previous ignores...
    Posted by ItDoesntMatterWhatIThink


    Good points... I liek the boundaries thing... but it just seems dumb to do it with someoen I haven't spoken to in a year HAHAHAHAHAHA
     
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    Even though  I told him no he kept emailing, calling, asking to meet up. I started ignoring him. All his calls, his attempts to hang out ,etc. So .. I felt AWFUL because I don't ignore things lol.. I'm a confrontational person (me? really?) but he just wasn't getting the hint otherwise. Well, this morning... I have a FB friend request and it's him. UGH. 1. What do I do with that?
    Posted by JazzyJtotheILL



    Can't you just ignore the FB friending request as well?
     
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    If you're not speaking to him, just keep not speaking to him. He'll fade away once he find another plaything. Maybe he is going through a drought.

     
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    IDMWIT, we should hook up! Jazzy, I think so far you have behaved like a textbook 'grown up.'  Honestly, Oldy appears to be taking things a little farther than you have indicated you are comfortable with.  I would; 1. Ignore the FB request 2. Tell him you are not comfortable hanging out anymore and would prefer to break things off. He may be a fine guy, but it appears that you two are not on the same page, so this relationship is not one that is bringing you more good than stress.
    Posted by diamondgirl


    Name the time and place, girly :-)
     
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    I can LW.. lol.. I guess I just hate ignoring and avoiding and it's been eating me for this long anyways, then to see the FB request. UGGGHH.. it's not a big deal.
     
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    In Response to Re: Love Letters 3/26 Breakfast Club : To steal one of your very own phrases: ::VBG::
    Posted by ItDoesntMatterWhatIThink



    Tee hee!
     
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    My ex used to send me naked pictures and videos of her "having fun solo".  It was kind of weird and didn't allow me to get over things at all.  Thank God that's over with.
     
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    So, when you were hanging out post-break-up, was it just platonic stuff?  Nothing physical?  If so, he may just have seen you as a friend, so when you told him about the new guy he was OK with it, and figured you'd still hang out as friends?  That might be what's going on at his end.

    But, if you were getting a different vibe then you could just ignore the FB request.  Or, you could tell him directly that you're not interested?  I don't know... Hard to say because I don't know what you did post-break-up and what kind of vibe he was giving out.

    In Response to Re: Love Letters 3/26 Breakfast Club:
    Here's one for you ladies ... I met this guy a couple of years ago, we hit it off really well. I REALLY liked him. After we "played" for a few months he told me he didn't want anything serious. As soon as I hear that I am all set. I stopped seeing him and I told him then we weren't playing anymore. We kept in touch because he was at least honest with me and didn't string me along. We hung out a couple of times and we always had a good time. Then I met someone and we started dating and I decided I wanted to be serious with new man. Well, I told Oldy and he was ok with it, but still wanted to hang out. Even though  I told him no he kept emailing, calling, asking to meet up. I started ignoring him. All his calls, his attempts to hang out ,etc.
    Posted by JazzyJtotheILL

     
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    My ex used to send me naked pictures and videos of her "having fun solo".  It was kind of weird and didn't allow me to get over things at all.  Thank God that's over with.
    Posted by Dread27


    You know Dread, that's fun when you are TOGETHER.. not so much when you aren't. I hate when people are like that. It's like she was only satisfying her own needs by gaining your attention rather than thinking about your feelings.

    Sorry bud
     
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    In Response to Re: Love Letters 3/26 Breakfast Club : You know Dread, that's fun when you are TOGETHER.. not so much when you aren't. I hate when people are like that. It's like she was only satisfying her own needs by gaining your attention rather than thinking about your feelings. Sorry bud
    Posted by JazzyJtotheILL


    Yeah I'm glad you got my point.  I think this guy is trying to do that to you.
     
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    So, when you were hanging out post-break-up, was it just platonic stuff?  Nothing physical?  If so, he may just have seen you as a friend, so when you told him about the new guy he was OK with it, and figured you'd still hang out as friends?  That might be what's going on at his end. But, if you were getting a different vibe then you could just ignore the FB request.  Or, you could tell him directly that you're not interested?  I don't know... Hard to say because I don't know what you did post-break-up and what kind of vibe he was giving out. In Response to Re: Love Letters 3/26 Breakfast Club :
    Posted by TwoCentDonation


    We did some post break up playing, but not for a long period of time.

    I'll just tell him that I'm sorry for ignoring his phone calls but that I don;t want anything more and possibly not even a friendship. I barely have time for my friends now :(
     
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    I can LW.. lol.. I guess I just hate ignoring and avoiding and it's been eating me for this long anyways, then to see the FB request. UGGGHH.. it's not a big deal.
    Posted by JazzyJtotheILL


    Jazzy, seing that he's a nice guy and all, but you're just not that into him, wouldnt it be best to just NOT friend him, and move along...

    probably would be best for the both of you...

    but i dont get it either when you've broken up with someone why would they still want to be friendswith you on FB... i find that eerily stalkerish...

    put the past in the past

    just saying


     
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    I'm looking to hang out tonight, if anyone is unbusy....
     
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    My ex used to send me naked pictures and videos of her "having fun solo".  It was kind of weird and didn't allow me to get over things at all.  Thank God that's over with.
    Posted by Dread27



    Ewwww.  And stoopid, on her part.  SERIOUSLY?  In this era when stuff like that can easily be uploaded for the whole world to see?  (Not that you would do that, Dread, but YKWIM).

    Kinda like the dumb-ass celeburetardites who make sex tapes.  Can they really be THAT stupid?
     
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    My ex used to send me naked pictures and videos of her "having fun solo".  It was kind of weird and didn't allow me to get over things at all.  Thank God that's over with.
    Posted by Dread27


    Her womany alone time?
     
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    I'm looking to hang out tonight, if anyone is unbusy....
    Posted by diamondgirl


    Where do you live Diamond?
     
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    In Response to Re: Love Letters 3/26 Breakfast Club : Ewwww.  And stoopid, on her part.  SERIOUSLY?  In this era when stuff like that can easily be uploaded for the whole world to see?  (Not that you would do that, Dread, but YKWIM). Kinda like the dumb-ass celeburetardites who make sex tapes.  Can they really be THAT stupid?
    Posted by LWhitt58


    Its rather fun to get them during a relationship.  I'm with Jazzy there.  But I think that anyone that's knows me knows that I wouldn't do that to someone.
     
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    im heading to the new Joe's on Newbury, if anyone is in the hood
     
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    My stalker used to leave his manly alone time on my voicemail.

    We should hook them up.
     
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    JP.
     
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    In Response to Re: Love Letters 3/26 Breakfast Club : Can't you just ignore the FB friending request as well?
    Posted by LWhitt58


    I agree - just block him on FB and he won't even be able to find you.
     
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    In Response to Re: Love Letters 3/26 Breakfast Club : Her womany alone time?
    Posted by ItDoesntMatterWhatIThink


    Yes.  I . . . like it.
     
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    In Response to Re: Love Letters 3/26 Breakfast Club : Its rather fun to get them during a relationship.  I'm with Jazzy there.  But I think that anyone that's knows me knows that I wouldn't do that to someone.
    Posted by Dread27



    No, I do understand that.  But I'm more talking about just making them in general.  Her computer/laptop gets stolen.

    She's SO screwed.
     
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    I would love to go out tonight!

    But speaking of FB, my friend is in the middle of an FB scandal today, and I might have to be on good-girlfriend-standby. :-p
     

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