In Response to Re: Not to be depressing....:
What I think of most at these times is part of a poem that Bobby Kennedy quoted often by Aeschylus "In our sleep, pain which cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart until, in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom through the awful grace of God."
Posted by bzorn22

From The Agamemnon, sort of. 1. 179 - 183 (or 185?)