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Once a pick-up-artist, always a pick-up-artist?

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    Once a pick-up-artist, always a pick-up-artist?

    As requested by IDMWIT
     
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    Re: Once a pick-up-artist, always a pick-up-artist?

    I do feel PUAs can change, but not be "reformed by the love of a good woman," as the culture used to say about gay men. Hence. I voted for "Sure. We all have pasts. Maybe you can reform him?"
     
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    Re: Once a pick-up-artist, always a pick-up-artist?

    Is it worth dating a parking lot attendant, or a short-order cook or a Wall Street guy or an actor or a democrat?

    We're all adults and we all make choices that others will question.
     
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    Re: Once a pick-up-artist, always a pick-up-artist?

    I don't think you can change a person unless they want to change.  I voted - he knows how to have a good time; just don't get invested.
     
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    Re: Once a pick-up-artist, always a pick-up-artist?

    We don't get invested until we are ready.

    I apologize to many for this - but being truthful from the start can't be a bad thing.
     
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