I am not 1/100 of what this man is, I admit. Some fans (especially in RSN) look for every excuse imaginable to vent about him, and as a result he can never win. It's not his fault the fans voted him in, or that his 5th GG should have gone to someone else.
But, in the category of nobody's perfect, there are a few things he's done that raise an eyebrow.
1) Several yrs ago, he had a problem with the NY Dep't of Revenue due to multi-state residences; his accountants fixed it.
2) When ARod first came to the Yankees, ARod was the better SS; Bernie was already declining in CF; he could have moved there; he certainly would have figured out how to play it, and historically speaking a Yankee CFer is more glamorous than a SS. When ARod and him didn't see eye-to-eye, he could have handled it better. Although they publicly buried the hatchet, I'm guessing Jeter still can't stand him, not that I blame him.
3) Up until this yr; he gave Managers a hard time about not playing; he doesn't know when to rest. He was even upset at first about being put on the DL. And the Manager is afraid to bat him lower in the order.
4) Despite all his dalliances with the fairer gender, (which included I believe, half the MAXIM Cover Girls) he felt the need a few yrs ago to canvas universities to look for more. He may make Tiger Woods and Wilt Chamberlain look like Mother Teresa.
5) He missed Bob Sheppard's funeral, who he was supposedly so fond of.
6) A poll in the NY Post showed that 57% felt he should have gone to the ASG, and this is a NY Poll, mind you. Although I’m on the fence some about this, I actually side with him here. He’s older; he was hurt; he was under intense media scrutiny and pressure, like Maris was in ’61. Here's guessing, realizing he can't be all things to all people, he has to worry about himself, he has no regrets, and figures it'll blow over. (I'm sure hostile fans shall remind him, however, especially at the Fens.). However, he shouldn’t be seen in Miami during the ASB, but holed up somewhere locally to rest, like he claims he needed. Also, he could have donated his 500K ASG bonus to show good faith, the guy’s only worth at least a Quarter Billion $$, if not twice that.
7) He could have offered to help out this kid with the ball. Contrast this to what Maris did in ’61, who was making 40K at the time (maybe that's 200K+ now); when Sal Durante wanted to give him the ball for nothing, Maris told him to keep the ball and get his money. That bothers me.
I'm sure others will pile on; I don't care, and this is JMHO.