I have such fond memories of Softy attempting to bully me off this forum within 2 days of being active here. I think he called me a moron like 3-4 times over nothing. It was such a warm reception. I went on to argue with him for like a year, wasting at least 100 hours of my time. I tried during that period to have a rapproachment maybe 5-6 times and on each occasion he was eventually right back at it. I came to just understand that he wasn't worth the hand I offered him. If I seem cold and calloused towards him now it is with good reason. I sincerely try to be nice to people but I will not suffer jerks like him ever again. Anything more than 3 strikes and you are out! Some people are just jerks. Eventually we learn that and adjust accordingly.