Octomom inks reality TV deal -- for her kids
Nadya Suleman, who in January gave birth to the world's longest-surviving set of octuplets, has agreed to have all 14 of her children star in a reality TV show.
According to the contracts with European production company Eyeworks, which are still waiting for a judge's approval, the deal will earn each child $250 a day for filming of the show over the course of three years. Filming is slated to start Sept. 1, though there's no word yet about which network will run it.
The kids, who are all younger than 8 years old, don't stand to make a bundle -- only about $250,000 all together. But they won't be working many days or long hours, either -- the first year of the show calls for just 36 days of shooting, with 21 and 14 days in the second and third years, according to the Associated Press story. Eyeworks is the company behind such gems as "Breaking Bonaduce" and "The Biggest Loser."
While I'm no fan of reality TV shows, especially ones involving kids, I kind of feel sorry for this woman. There's no point in debating whether she should or shouldn't have had the kids; they're here now, and need to be cared for. And Suleman just can't win: When she was using food stamps and state aid, she got slammed for relying on the taxpayers to take care of her kids. When, in February, she told Ann Curry on The Today Show that she would provide for her children "probably just with the student loans," there was a huge outcry. Now, she's providing fodder for reality TV, and there's speculation that maybe stardom is the real reason why she had so many kids to begin with (after all, she has said before that she was hoping for a multimillion-dollar TV deal).
But, on the other hand: She's already facing legal action over a video of her kids she allowed to be shot for a website. (That hearing started today.) Her own mom said in an interview that "The truth is Nadya's not capable of raising 14 children." And a few months ago, she fired the nurses who were providing her with free help and nanny training, claiming that the they were spying on her.
Now, with this new reality show, she'll be letting the whole world take a look. It's difficult to reserve judgement when she's the one who keeps putting herself -- and her kids -- in the public eye.
Lylah M. Alphonse is a Globe staff member and mom and stepmom to five kids. She writes about juggling career and parenthood at The 36-Hour Day and blogs at Write. Edit. Repeat. E-mail her at lalphonse@globe.com.

The article, "Reality TV continues its downward spiral of morality", published earlier this month may be of interest:
http://www.starbulletin.com/editorials/20090706_reality_tv_continues_its_downward_spiral_of_morality.html
The children are getting $250,000 in total. HOW MUCH is NADYA GETTING? The Gosselins are making $75,000 per show. How much is a day with Octomom worth? $250,000 is a drop in the bucket considering what Nadya will get. Her beauty regimen is expensive and she can't do without anything.
if no one watches the show then the network will drop it.
Anyone who thinks this is a good idea really should look up the stories of the Dionne quintuplets. They were turned into a sideshow as the first surviving quintuplets back in the 1930's, and it ruined their lives and their relationship with their parents and other siblings. They have repeatedly gone on record begging parents of multiples not to do this to their kids. I don't know how she is going to support those kids. Maybe she should have thought of that, um, before the umpteen fertility treatments. But two wrongs do not make a right, and exploiting these kids for money is just wrong.
I think all of the children should be taken away from her. She is a total unfit mother.
The state should step in and adopt those children out. What's it going to take, one of those kids dying because the mother is so completely overwhelmed?
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