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  • Comment on: Was she married?

    Posted 08/27/2015 09:03:58 EDT

    because he wants to make sure she's pure?

  • Comment on: Was she married?

    Posted 08/27/2015 08:56:20 EDT

    for criminy sakes, just ask her. not like the spanish inquisition ask her, just curiously ask her. this isnt a write in type of question IMO... adults act like adults. be one. if she was? would that p more »

  • Posted 08/14/2015 09:14:44 EDT

    you absolutely did the right thing.... after 4 months and all this crapola was going dodged a bullet... continue looking ahead and no rubber-necking... happy Friday all. vacation time for me more »

  • Posted 08/13/2015 09:08:30 EDT

    she's not into you that way. plain and simple... I think you need to get back on that on-line dating train and find a woman who is truly excited about ALL that you have to offer.. Jane doesn't. don't more »

  • Posted 08/12/2015 01:46:44 EDT

    sorry CSean. my life is all good. couldn't be happier with college guy.... now others? that's another story, but it wouldn't fit under the LL category. more like loony-toon-friend-need-a-dopeslap-of-r more »

  • Posted 08/12/2015 01:31:34 EDT

    huh? what you getting at? more »

  • Posted 08/12/2015 01:11:25 EDT

    the only thing I got for this LW?

    I really really would love an update, whenever that might be....interested to know how she handles the ex and jake.. more »

  • Posted 08/03/2015 09:10:29 EDT

    social, not focial... HA more »

  • Posted 08/03/2015 09:05:36 EDT

    look, she married you and is with you. you have no other issues than a social media issue that the ex participates in... there are worse situations to be in.... her ex dumped her. no longer wanted her more »

  • Posted 07/31/2015 09:10:03 EDT

    take the plunge. period. end of story.... stop this over analyzing it....

    if its not meant to be, move out... don't have the coulda, shoulda woulda.. more »

  • Posted 07/29/2015 09:31:30 EDT

    my parents had a 14 year age gap.... mom the younger one.... running joke was she would be putting flowers on his grave long before he her.... sadly, mom passed last year. and the 94 year old dad? sti more »

  • Posted 07/29/2015 09:19:29 EDT

    stop creating problems where there is none... be thankful you have a wonderful man that loves you..... many don't have what you have.. more »

  • Posted 07/01/2015 09:21:25 EDT

    jimi - that's a good observation more »

  • Posted 07/01/2015 09:11:56 EDT

    meant to say "toss in the towel" not hang in the towel..... stupid BBBism more »

  • Posted 07/01/2015 09:03:47 EDT

    first off "Here is the problem (well, actually, there are multiple problems)" that right there alone smells of trouble then no where in the letter do you mention any of his good qualities.... why oh w more »

  • Comment on: Attached To Mike

    Posted 06/30/2015 09:04:57 EDT

    must.reread.letter...... missed that point.. more »

  • Comment on: Attached To Mike

    Posted 06/30/2015 08:59:27 EDT

    i would have your fiancé say something on a guy level... possibly your roommate can understand man-speak....whatever that is.

    I got nothing.... but I wish you the best more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 09:07:22 EDT

    you need to have another talk... if he's not willing to make compromise, and you as well, well, move on you're still young... possibly he's really just not ready for a real committed relationship... i more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 09:14:34 EDT

    i think there's more to the story on his end... best you left it the way you did.... let him go kick rocks and kick himself for being such an idiot... I think you dodged a bullet, not just once but tw more »

  • Comment on: Has He Moved On?

    Posted 06/24/2015 09:23:57 EDT

    could you imagine IF they DID have sex? he'd have to take a restraining order out against her...

    boiled bunny bonkers more »

  • Comment on: Has He Moved On?

    Posted 06/24/2015 09:20:09 EDT

    LW the way in which you handled this situation from the get-go was completed and utterly miss-handled. evidence of someone who hasn't had much experience in the dating world. you my dear must re-read more »

  • Comment on: Has He Moved On?

    Posted 06/24/2015 09:00:58 EDT

    no what? really? move on and don't make yourself look anymore pathetic than you do in this letter.... sheesh, cant you get it through your noggin?!!! you are making yourself look truly psycho..... jus more »

  • Posted 06/18/2015 09:18:18 EDT

    you want more, he's content with the way it is... either accept the way it is, or bail..... remember you DO have a choice here... remember that old adage, if you love someone let them go, if they come more »

  • Posted 06/16/2015 09:28:21 EDT

    true, very true Slim more »

  • Posted 06/16/2015 09:10:59 EDT

    no brainer LW, be the bigger person and exchange pleasantries and hold your head high, and move on to socialize with others.

    PERIOD more »

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