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  • Posted 07/01/2015 09:21:25 EDT

    jimi - that's a good observation

  • Posted 07/01/2015 09:11:56 EDT

    meant to say "toss in the towel" not hang in the towel..... stupid BBBism

  • Posted 07/01/2015 09:03:47 EDT

    first off "Here is the problem (well, actually, there are multiple problems)" that right there alone smells of trouble then no where in the letter do you mention any of his good qualities.... why oh w more »

  • Comment on: Attached To Mike

    Posted 06/30/2015 09:04:57 EDT

    must.reread.letter...... missed that point.. more »

  • Comment on: Attached To Mike

    Posted 06/30/2015 08:59:27 EDT

    i would have your fiancé say something on a guy level... possibly your roommate can understand man-speak....whatever that is.

    I got nothing.... but I wish you the best more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 09:07:22 EDT

    you need to have another talk... if he's not willing to make compromise, and you as well, well, move on you're still young... possibly he's really just not ready for a real committed relationship... i more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 09:14:34 EDT

    i think there's more to the story on his end... best you left it the way you did.... let him go kick rocks and kick himself for being such an idiot... I think you dodged a bullet, not just once but tw more »

  • Comment on: Has He Moved On?

    Posted 06/24/2015 09:23:57 EDT

    could you imagine IF they DID have sex? he'd have to take a restraining order out against her...

    boiled bunny bonkers more »

  • Comment on: Has He Moved On?

    Posted 06/24/2015 09:20:09 EDT

    LW the way in which you handled this situation from the get-go was completed and utterly miss-handled. evidence of someone who hasn't had much experience in the dating world. you my dear must re-read more »

  • Comment on: Has He Moved On?

    Posted 06/24/2015 09:00:58 EDT

    no what? really? move on and don't make yourself look anymore pathetic than you do in this letter.... sheesh, cant you get it through your noggin?!!! you are making yourself look truly psycho..... jus more »

  • Posted 06/18/2015 09:18:18 EDT

    you want more, he's content with the way it is... either accept the way it is, or bail..... remember you DO have a choice here... remember that old adage, if you love someone let them go, if they come more »

  • Posted 06/16/2015 09:28:21 EDT

    true, very true Slim more »

  • Posted 06/16/2015 09:10:59 EDT

    no brainer LW, be the bigger person and exchange pleasantries and hold your head high, and move on to socialize with others.

    PERIOD more »

  • Posted 06/15/2015 08:55:56 EDT

    "There is no turning back, and this relationship is over and will never be back to what it was. " ~~~~~~~~~~ THIS THIS THIS and more of THIS. look ahead, realize your mistakes and don't do them again. more »

  • Comment on: Move In Again?

    Posted 06/11/2015 09:06:31 EDT

    "can I wait another year"

    I don't know, you tell us.

    have the chat. you know it needs to be done... so do it more »

  • Posted 06/10/2015 09:02:00 EDT

    if you don't talk, you'll never know..

    please grow a pair. no one likes a wuss.

    best of luck and I hope the result you're expecting comes true more »

  • Posted 06/09/2015 10:24:55 EDT

    I was getting at more of what Alyssa & Joerilla we stating. im not diminishing the fact that some people have fears of flying or just cant due to medical reasons. I was getting at more of it seems mor more »

  • Posted 06/09/2015 08:57:01 EDT

    he wont fly? there's something not right here.... seriously NOT right here.... be where your family is... there are decent, loving men who are only a 10 minute car ride away. you DONT NEED to go 2000 more »

  • Posted 06/08/2015 09:12:55 EDT

    who do you both come home to each night? that's what I thought....

    non issue non event when adults encounter this situation. more »

  • Posted 06/05/2015 09:20:58 EDT

    that's what I meant... multi-tasking on a Friday. oh well more »

  • Posted 06/05/2015 09:09:54 EDT

    sorry sweetie, but do you need to be whack upside the head by a 2 by 4? he DOESNT WANT you back. He's clearly stated so.... grieve, mourn the loss of the relationship, but accept this outcome with dig more »

  • Posted 06/04/2015 09:05:46 EDT

    shot yourself more »

  • Posted 06/04/2015 09:05:12 EDT

    CSean, I totally agree with you!!! more »

  • Posted 06/04/2015 09:04:13 EDT

    I think the BIGGER issue is that you DONT trust him. why would ANY level headed adult be sooooo bent out of shape about a boys trip. if you WERE an adult, and I don't think you really are. this wouldn more »

  • Posted 06/04/2015 09:01:05 EDT

    Communication is definitely important and key in a relationship... but you my dear, totally OVERREACTED... you just yourself in the foot.... all on your own. good luck trying to get yourself out of th more »

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