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  • Comment on: I want to downsize

    Posted 10/09/2015 09:14:06 EDT

    have you asked him specifically WHY he needs to keep all those books? ok, i bet you have d one that already... I really didnt think this was over books, when you started out...but being that it may, i more »

  • Posted 10/08/2015 09:17:02 EDT

    she'll change her tune. more »

  • Posted 10/07/2015 09:09:47 EDT

    I was in a 6 year relationship in my 20's, that was wrought with deceit...what he told me and what his actions were showing were 2 different things... I finally cut the cord and never looked back... d more »

  • Posted 10/05/2015 09:06:33 EDT

    you've already checked out in so many ways in this relationship... full steam ahead, and dont look back... you never once said you "love" him. i dont think this will ever, could ever go the distance.. more »

  • Posted 10/02/2015 08:25:03 EDT

    i think the BF should move on. more »

  • Posted 10/01/2015 09:08:23 EDT

    THIS more »

  • Posted 10/01/2015 09:00:39 EDT

    My goodness, he's told you he cannot commit right now.... plain and simple... NOW ITS YOUR TURN TO DO WHAT YOU THINK IS BEST FOR YOU!!! if you cannot wait, then don't. if you think that he's all that more »

  • Comment on: Her ex died

    Posted 09/30/2015 09:12:07 EDT

    giver her time and let her grieve. she's need time to process all this... she's dating you, isnt she? well, be supportive right now... in time things will heal and get back to normal.... and if not, t more »

  • Posted 09/29/2015 09:01:30 EDT

    possibly you need the help of an outsider who can give you non-biased opinions/suggestions/ideas of where and what you're doing wrong... possibly you are giving off negative vibes. possibly a "life co more »

  • Posted 09/28/2015 09:01:19 EDT

    you dont confront him, as he'll make up some excuse and try to ward you off on the path to you telling Marissa. be honest. be sincere, be supportive. but let her know what you know... period... then t more »

  • Posted 09/25/2015 09:06:51 EDT

    if this man really means THAT much to you. you need to pick your battles and let things go, like the 'whatever happened" birthday incident. we need to make compromises and learn to adapt...and i think more »

  • Posted 09/23/2015 08:54:38 EDT

    move on.

    see, that wasn't so hard now was it? more »

  • Posted 09/22/2015 09:06:49 EDT

    either you have a real honest talk and make compromises or don't EVEN think about moving in with him.... if you do move in and don't make compromises, then this will go south VERY quickly and you'll b more »

  • Posted 09/21/2015 09:09:06 EDT

    He's NOT respecting you. and stroking his ego, all the while... ask him how'd he like it if you were doing the same to him as he to you? don't think he'd like it.... plain and simple - he's NOT respec more »

  • Posted 09/18/2015 09:02:28 EDT

    look, be lucky you had wonderful times and still have wonderful memories of a great relationship...i think he needs to experience life as a single guy. count yourself lucky that albeit you didnt see t more »

  • Posted 09/14/2015 09:07:41 EDT

    how can you make things better? by dumping him... he doesn't see you as his girlfriend in the slightest.... more »

  • Posted 09/09/2015 09:12:52 EDT

    this guy will be just one on a long list of suitors.... move on, lesson learned and cherish the good memories... she's young and should enjoy life and not be a doormat to any guy... go out and have fu more »

  • Posted 09/03/2015 08:50:13 EDT

    oh shoe on other foot scenario.... how would you like it if your wife was considering doing the same with some hot hunk she met while at her weekly yoga class??? wait a minute, possibly she already ha more »

  • Posted 09/03/2015 08:47:13 EDT

    you mention NOTHING about your relationship with your wife, and with that im guessing its not all rosy at home... if THAT is the case, then i think you should think of seeing a counselor to iron out w more »

  • Posted 09/02/2015 09:07:19 EDT

    my 94 yo father has hated both the "ya/you know" & "you guys" and "like" phrase for years. anytime i would say "you know", he'd say, "no, i dont know" or when i'd say im like going to like a go to the more »

  • Posted 08/31/2015 09:08:12 EDT

    oh so funny you are Rick. more »

  • Posted 08/31/2015 09:01:03 EDT

    doormat. how do you like her using you like that... :::::wet noodle upside the head::::: ::::clueby4::::::::: LW, is it really THAT hard to understand that she's USING you, and YOU ARE allowing it.... more »

  • Comment on: Was she married?

    Posted 08/27/2015 09:03:58 EDT

    because he wants to make sure she's pure? more »

  • Comment on: Was she married?

    Posted 08/27/2015 08:56:20 EDT

    for criminy sakes, just ask her. not like the spanish inquisition ask her, just curiously ask her. this isnt a write in type of question IMO... adults act like adults. be one. if she was? would that p more »

  • Posted 08/14/2015 09:14:44 EDT

    you absolutely did the right thing.... after 4 months and all this crapola was going dodged a bullet... continue looking ahead and no rubber-necking... happy Friday all. vacation time for me more »

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