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  • Posted 08/12/2011 11:32:06 EDT

    Jeepers, you really make me smile sometimes! I may have to make a trip to Boston just to enjoy your barista!

  • Posted 08/03/2011 11:19:17 EDT

    HA! Thank you Lily! People invariably have different relationships with their friends. Some of my friends are ubber physical, ie put their arms around each other, play with each others hair, grab butt more »

  • Posted 08/03/2011 10:58:23 EDT

    I don’t understand all the hostility towards the girlfriend. While I concede that the relationship with the best friend is a bit inappropriate if only because he hasn’t been her "Gay" best friend more »

  • Posted 08/03/2011 10:24:25 EDT

    I really enjoyed your letter Joe; just the right amount of complexity, a bit of humor, and a mature attitude. Sort of. And to top that, you are correct. Your girlfriend is in essence, having an emotio more »

  • Posted 07/28/2011 11:49:36 EDT

    Jeeeze, now I understand this votex thing. JBar, he didnt say anything about MoVa, if I recall correctly. He made a comment about cats and posting comments about cats. You and some other regulars, mad more »

  • Posted 07/28/2011 11:23:01 EDT

    Not a Jab at all AGCT, just a fact. What is the old saying? Two wrongs dont make a right? Calling someone names, swearing at them, etc....just because you dont agree with what they said, doesnt make y more »

  • Posted 07/28/2011 11:00:50 EDT

    Hello Lily! (my apologies for not responding sooner, the continued double standard here, really irritates me)

    Obviously nothing ever changes here.

    Enjoy your day! more »

  • Posted 07/28/2011 10:57:30 EDT

    JBar, I am going to respectfully disagree with you. Someone has a disdain for cats. Others have a disdain for cheaters. Even others have a disdain for anarchists. People have a right to their opinion more »

  • Posted 07/28/2011 10:44:15 EDT

    The-Porkchop-Express wrote:
    I think midnight-toker is right, guys. It's better to be sanctimonious.

    Says the leader of the posse. Thank you for proving my point.

    more »

  • Posted 07/28/2011 10:32:16 EDT

    Right, so the best way to handle someone who made a comment about not liking cats, is to call them names and basically swear at them? And that makes you better how? I guess I would have expected more more »

  • Posted 07/28/2011 10:26:06 EDT

    Unsolicited advice from a lurker?

    Attacking someone (ie calling them names, etc....), who offers comments or opinions different than yours, is hypocritical.

    more »

  • Posted 07/28/2011 10:04:42 EDT

    I also would just like to point out that, LW, your relationship is NOT honest, true and full of acceptance. Why? Because you have not seen him at his worst yet. When he has a break down and accuses yo more »

  • Posted 07/28/2011 09:54:24 EDT

    I still lurk on occasion, but this letter drew me out behind the curtain. My dear dear LW, You tell us he is 26, but you don’t mention your age, so I am left to assume you are younger than he is, ye more »

  • Posted 07/08/2011 12:41:23 EDT

    You caught me before logging off ;) Hi Lily!!!

    Have a wonderful weekend! more »

  • Posted 07/08/2011 12:38:15 EDT

    I dont post here anymore purposely because of what transpired today. I noticed lately, things seemed a lot more peaceful and contemplated coming back. Then today happened and just kind of emphasised m more »

  • Posted 06/08/2011 11:45:07 EDT

    Dearest Burned, Had to pop in for this one. I feel for all that you have been through. Divorce is bad enough, but when its hostile and when there are children involved, seems to just elevate the compl more »

  • Posted 01/25/2011 12:21:53 EST

    Dearest EHB, with a big B here..... "I am assuming the fact that I am happily married and wish to remain that way does not preclude me from using this forum." This sentence makes me sad. Because I don more »

  • Comment on: I want kids

    Posted 01/13/2011 03:58:09 EST

    kungfugrip7 - But isnt life a gamble? You never know what cards you are going to be dealt. The LW could marry this woman tomorrow, say 20 years from now, she dies. Then not only has he lost his love, more »

  • Comment on: I want kids

    Posted 01/13/2011 03:51:55 EST

    Dearest LW Late to the game today, but along with the fantastic advice you are receiving, I would just like to add: Only YOU can decide if this compromise is worth the sacrafice. You are the only one more »

  • Posted 01/10/2011 10:55:40 EST

    Thanks Lily! I would have to say the same about you. Dear LW- I am not going to jump on the bad wagon here and say you are full of yourself etc. I think you are just stating facts, as most men are mor more »

  • Posted 01/10/2011 10:44:00 EST

    Jeepers ;) !!!! more »

  • Posted 01/10/2011 10:40:51 EST

    Lily87 wrote: Guppy - we did give advice. There's only so many ways to say: 1.) take a break from dating since you're still in love with your girlfriend 2.) stop having one night stands Read back to t more »

  • Posted 09/03/2010 03:29:48 EDT

    WOW- seems I have missed a lot of drama while on vacation. Maybe I should go back :) more »

  • Posted 09/03/2010 03:28:02 EDT

    Exactly ItDoesntMatterWhatIThink , if anything you are just going to confuse the situation even more. I just reread my post and it came out, not as I meant it, seems like I was allowing the *diddling* more »

  • Posted 09/03/2010 03:14:06 EDT

    ItDoesntMatterWhatIThink - I agree with your point, to a certain extent. But sometimes people marry very young and didnt take the time to grow up. I am not excusing the behavior by any means, but some more »