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Comment on: Does he want to see me? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
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Comment on: He's grieving, but I'm in love - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Ding, ding, ding. Right Answer.
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Comment on: He's grieving, but I'm in love - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Entire letter: I know what I SHOULD do, but I really DON'T want to. Please give me permission to jump him.
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Comment on: After a loss, she's pushing me away - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Arrogant, yes, but he is in pain and he wants to fix it. What he has to understand is he cannot fix it.
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Comment on: After a loss, she's pushing me away - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Whether she is in her "right mind" or not, you cannot influence how she feels. Asserting that you can help heal her will make no difference. If this loss has shaken her world, you may end up being los more »
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Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ... - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
This does have the strong stench of addiction. I know a woman who dumped her family for an abusive guy (twice divorced) she admitted she was afriad of BUT just cannot break up with...'cause, they part more »
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Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ... - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
What I cannot figure out is Man #1. He is in his early 20's and he fits all the criteria for this highly selective woman - looks, intellect, sense of humor...Great, for her, it is a post divorce boy t more »
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Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ... - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Once you self-identify as "unusual" you are actually saying, "self-important, full of myself."
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Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ... - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
It is really hard to understand the allure of the abusive relationship. Must be all that drama - considering that you have a child with mystery man from a previous life - this kind of personal upheava more »
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Comment on: She's 'pulling herself together' - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Do not over think it. For some reason she decided she wanted to get out of the relationship with you and she constructed this excuse. Now she is poorly managing it. She is a dope, don't become a dope more »
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Comment on: Campbell's recipe of determination helps define the Bruins - Boston Sports Blog - Boston.com
This whole commentary would only make sense if Campbell went back out on the ice with his broken leg. But why didn't he? Because he would have been ineffective, same reason the other athletes are pull more »
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Comment on: It fell apart after four months - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Stinking pile of hooey. Combine that with her going with him to file the divorce papers and there is something off with this guy.
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Comment on: He takes advantage of women - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
And one can afford a tattoo. I think instead of getting mad at John, LW should go visit these women and teach them how to better spend their money.
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Comment on: He takes advantage of women - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I am still puzzling out how these impoverished women are Skyping with him. The rest is just mind your own business blather I really have no comment. Yup, just pondering the no food, no clothes, no pro more »
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Comment on: Should I confess my feelings ... again? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Hmmm, once police arrived to break it up. Later, you could only get your true feelings out during an alcohol fueled evening. I am trying to figure out what you are trying to salvage here - the roller more »
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Comment on: I looked up his ex - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Some itches should not be scratched. Just because you can reach them, doesn't mean you should. When you do that or start searching your partner's email and cell phone, just say to yourself, "I can do more »
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Comment on: Will he mess up again? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Letting him back into your life means you will always be concerned about him leaving again. This is not a formula for success. He had his chance, he blew it. Be strong. Find a man who is more respectf more »
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Comment on: How to get over it - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
"Perhaps it's all relative, but people will say this is typical". Better? Nope, still incomprehensible. I thinks it is a haiku that is beyond our comprehension.
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Comment on: How to get over it - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Great advice - avoid surrendering to rage and definitely don't wallow. Also, please don't forecast your future - you will drive yourself crazy trying to create something out of nothing. Let life come more »
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Comment on: Will she ever change? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Since jealousy fuels his interest in her, this is essential to keeping their relationship going. As a matter of fact, that is why she is working on number 14 right now.
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Comment on: Will she ever change? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
If you need to ask her to change a habit to be with you, then the relationship is doomed. That is at the core of your problems. Successful couples merge values through compromise, not through demands. more »
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Comment on: After two years, he wants me back - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I should have added, "they just reopened." My bad...but I agree, the restaurant is a much better bet.
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Comment on: After two years, he wants me back - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Dear Mer, I went to this restaurant, had an 18 course meal over one evening. It WAS AMAZING, I thought I will never go to another restaurant in my life. Then I got home and endured the worst food pois more »
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Comment on: Do I tell him about the kiss? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
You are wracked with guilt over a drunken impulse with someone you just met and have not seen again. Is it out of fear of an over reaction by your anger challenged husband? Is it because you believe y more »
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Comment on: Texting makes people weird - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I think you are looking at this backwards. The guys screw it up before you actually meet them - a fair amount of time and energy is spared. Yes, it is a pain when you set aside time and then he does n more »
"He is indirect! Help me figure him out!" And now we have the speculation Olympics with "you have been used" grabbing the gold. Just call him and say, "What is going on? Was it a one night stand or do more »