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  • Comment on: April Updates

    Posted 04/17/2015 12:55:02 EDT

    I always prefer to be not too far from the Wang.

  • Comment on: April Updates

    Posted 04/17/2015 09:21:38 EDT

    Can we tell jokes now?

  • Posted 04/16/2015 02:05:15 EDT

    I am a fan of erring on the side of caution in such matters.

  • Posted 04/16/2015 02:03:47 EDT

    Charlie, I sang that along to the tune of "Lawyers, Guns and Money" too :)

  • Posted 04/16/2015 11:47:10 EDT

    Yeah, Gem, what's the alternative?

    Manfriend sounds...creepy.

  • Posted 04/16/2015 11:31:18 EDT

    There must be few worse fates than being badmouthed all over Poughkeepsie.

  • Posted 04/16/2015 11:29:08 EDT

    This isn't a parody review? It's....REAL?

  • Posted 04/16/2015 09:43:52 EDT

    >>If I admit to snooping and end it, he will bad mouth me around town.

    Oh, the horror. Being accused of stuff you actually DID.

  • Posted 04/16/2015 09:42:15 EDT

    >>I snooped (looked at his phone) and saw the one-minute phone call. End it. Now. You don't trust him and you are wasting everyone's time. You needn't admit to snooping. It's very possible it was a wr more »

  • Posted 04/15/2015 11:30:33 EDT

    My thoughts exactly. more »

  • Posted 04/15/2015 09:45:40 EDT

    Ok, LW. Only you get to choose whether this is a dealbreaker. If he is consistently not meeting your needs and finding ways to compensate for this perceived shortcoming (heh), this is only something t more »

  • Posted 04/14/2015 12:05:39 EDT

    I think I was misunderstood.

    I said she already knows the answer, she's just afraid to face facts. more »

  • Posted 04/14/2015 09:31:52 EDT

    LW, I think you already know the answer. He's just postponing the inevitable because he doesn't want to lose what you have. That said, can't you at least wait a month or two to bring this up again? If more »

  • Posted 04/13/2015 09:26:45 EDT

    Don't forget the calamine lotion! more »

  • Posted 04/13/2015 09:23:26 EDT

    Jeez, lady. Give yourself a break. You're adjusting to your new schedule and going through a lot of transition. Of course you might not be feeling it 24/7. It sounds like you're doing pretty well to m more »

  • Posted 04/10/2015 10:12:51 EDT

    preferring to be the submissive partner in the relationship: ok

    Doing so to the detriment of your own mental health and well-being?: not ok more »

  • Posted 04/10/2015 09:23:35 EDT

    Oh, this is just such a terrible situation. You're basically living in limbo for the sake of your children. Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do to change her mind or make her stop. She checked o more »

  • Posted 04/09/2015 11:09:55 EDT

    Well put. more »

  • Posted 04/09/2015 10:46:59 EDT

    I never get invited to hijinks and shenanigans anymore now that I'm borderline respectable. more »

  • Posted 04/09/2015 09:49:13 EDT

    If he's a "user", so is she. more »

  • Posted 04/09/2015 09:27:01 EDT

    Good lord, LW. He doesn't want you to be his serious girlfriend. He cares about you enough to want to be a friend, but he doesn't love you enough to want to build a monogamous relationship with you. I more »

  • Comment on: Where Do We Stand?

    Posted 04/08/2015 09:47:39 EDT

    OK, either way...the advice stands. more »

  • Comment on: Where Do We Stand?

    Posted 04/08/2015 09:25:44 EDT

    >>I'm really happy with where we are at now and fear pushing him away with bringing up the "where does this leave us" talk or the "marriage" talk. How do I go about bringing it up sensitively without more »

  • Posted 04/07/2015 10:35:32 EDT

    Also, I like "nimby pants". Is that short for "not in my back yard pants" more »

  • Posted 04/07/2015 10:34:48 EDT

    I would say in this particular situation that he may also be worried about burning bridges professionally. more »