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Posted 01/31/2015 10:42:14 EST
Interesting article, with a funny ending, thanks!
Posted 01/29/2015 11:21:17 EST
She seems to be taking it in stride without complaint, and 6 times a week is pretty great. Stop complaining and analyzing, appreciate what you have.
Posted 01/26/2015 10:10:14 EST
Stay where you are. Let him go. When\if he misses you enough to want a real marriage, and you still want that, you can join him then.
Posted 12/18/2014 10:10:29 EST
Related topic: Since U.S. veterans are a diverse group celebrating Christmas, Kwanza, Hanukkah, Divoli, etc., it would be nice if VFW's displayed token symbols of the non-Christian religions in Decemb more »
Posted 12/02/2014 10:03:48 EST
Yes, you are allowed, just one more time. Just say "In case you happened to change your mind, I'd love to go out together soon." If she turns you down again, drop it permanently. more »
Posted 11/11/2014 02:04:37 EST
I am very glad to see from many of the replies that male and female roles are expected to be closer than they were in my generation. My mother always worked out of necessity since my father got sick, more »
Posted 11/03/2014 10:36:22 EST
Save your bad feelings for when you bump into him wheeling his kid's baby carriage with another woman in time. I'm sure he'll say he changed his mind again. more »
Posted 10/29/2014 03:45:07 EDT
Your mind is playing tricks on you. Sam is not that great, but problems in your marriage trick you into thinking Sam is great. It would not work out with Sam, even if you now think it will. You will m more »
Posted 10/27/2014 03:42:58 EDT
When I was young I met a nice Greek guy who took me to meet his family after 3 dates. His father cooked a nice dinner for us, and then told him that I will never stay with him because he can't read! I more »
Posted 10/17/2014 10:23:38 EDT
Be more open to your own race and see if that improves things. more »
Posted 10/17/2014 10:19:08 EDT
She will feel more comfortable in a Reform Temple if you get married than in Orthodox or Conservative. There will be more intermarried couples in a Reform Temple that you can both befriend and celebra more »
Posted 10/15/2014 10:17:16 EDT
If marriage is super important to him, get an iron-clad prenuptual agreement, and a contract which spells out how any divorce would proceed, and keep all finances and ownership separate in the marriag more »
Posted 10/09/2014 10:36:50 EDT
Get a divorce. It will only get worse. Do not be a part of this. Be glad you don't have kids yet. And he's got a lot of nerve bringing his friend into your house and bedroom. In the future he won't ev more »
Posted 10/03/2014 04:25:41 EDT
I would start dating other people, and tell him you want to meet someone who feels stronger about you. Maybe he'll say the Love word then, or maybe you'll find someone who's not afraid to say it. Ther more »
Posted 10/01/2014 11:22:01 EDT
Get a good divorce lawyer. He is probably staying in the house so that you will settle for less child support\alimony just to get rid of him.Don't fall for his game. Hang in there and take your experi more »
Posted 10/01/2014 11:06:38 EDT
When I read the comment "Holds true for adults too" I took that to mean adult siblings. Instead, other comments agreed and referenced workplace adults, which is another issue. Unfortunately, there are more »
Posted 08/06/2014 05:14:49 EDT
About my last comment: The pictures match the towns now, perhaps it got fixed. more »
Posted 08/06/2014 05:11:59 EDT
I guess whoever posted the town pictures is not from any of the "Smart towns," since a couple of the wrong pictures were placed with the wrong towns. more »
Posted 03/19/2014 09:57:21 EDT
Posted 03/13/2014 10:57:04 EDT
The wife of his friend had no business opening her mouth about this. I question her motives. And I wouldn't believe every detail she says anyhow, although I agree with the others that he won't feel he more »
Posted 11/28/2013 04:21:08 EST
The most memorable letter for me was the one you yourself wrote after your parent died. You have been so wise and compassionate in your answers to others, that it was an honor to empathize with what y more »
Posted 10/21/2013 09:44:17 EDT
Tell him to give up Fantasy Football and spend that time with you, since the rest of his time is occupied.
Posted 08/05/2013 09:26:14 EDT
Your own kids you might have someday might turn out to be more trouble than hers.
Posted 07/25/2013 11:52:02 EDT
I accidentally spilled a couple of drops of water on my one year old MacBook, and pretty soon afterwards approximately 5 keys on the laptop stopped working and part of the screen had a strange pattern more »
Posted 07/12/2013 01:43:22 EDT
Look into the legal aspects with a brief visit to a lawyer. If she doesn't pay her share, refuses to move out if you want her to move out, needs money to resettle, palimony, etc. If you feel good abou more »
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