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  • Posted 05/22/2015 10:36:56 EDT

    Sounds like a case of "I Love You, You're Perfect, Now Change" without the I Love You, You're Perfect,

  • Posted 05/21/2015 10:07:15 EDT

    picturing GF reading this letter today. I hope she swipes through Tinder during her lunch hour. Hope she scores herself a golden one tonight.

  • Posted 05/21/2015 09:58:12 EDT

    Have you stopped to think why you haven't had a long term relationship since college? Some possibilities: You're trying to make it with college aged girls. That ship has sailed my friend. You want not more »

  • Comment on: He Changed

    Posted 05/08/2015 10:01:01 EDT

    Sorry, I understand you thought he was The One. No walking down the aisle for you this year. He charmed you, moved in on you -- without discussion, is now a lazy mooch who is a master of learned helpl more »

  • Posted 04/16/2015 11:14:57 EDT

    She's broke and it's oke more »

  • Posted 03/27/2015 09:56:13 EDT

    What a sad puppy. He's still in the thrall of his virgin girlfriend from four years ago. By extension the sect is still controlling him and they could win him back someday. You will never be accepted more »

  • Comment on: I'm Far Away

    Posted 03/25/2015 11:01:56 EDT

    I find your letter a little confusing. Are you saying that your GF is willing to upend her whole life to be with you but that she wants to be formally engaged to you in order to seal the deal? I'm not more »

  • Posted 03/17/2015 11:34:57 EDT

    You write that the blow up was the night before Val Day. You also write that you haven't responded to him for two, count 'em, two whole days and that the party was "this weekend." The party was a mont more »

  • Posted 03/13/2015 10:26:51 EDT

    I met a boy called Frank Mills.... more »

  • Posted 03/13/2015 10:15:04 EDT

    *step away more »

  • Posted 03/13/2015 10:04:29 EDT

    You've been hung up on this almost 30y/o bad boy with a heart of gold for the umm past eight months, and all you have to show for it is unsuccessfully trying to make him jealous by "engaging" with his more »

  • Posted 03/09/2015 10:36:56 EDT

    I think what you're not admitting to yourself is that you thought this current guy was The One, but he is basically in the process of dumping you, although he's trying to do it gently. You are very ve more »

  • Posted 01/06/2015 01:06:27 EST

    should be "your restlessness and constant..." more »

  • Posted 01/06/2015 01:02:59 EST

    It's troubling that you've made "positive" changes to your appearance per his bidding, but he doesn't change his self-imposed limits to work or sociability despite your hopes for him and a good future more »

  • Posted 12/23/2014 03:33:44 EST

    This is not a relationship of any kind, LW, it is an arrangement. And a dysfunctional one-sided one at that. He is not "genuine," he is not a typical closed-off man, and he is not attracted to you. Yo more »

  • Posted 12/10/2014 12:53:36 EST

    make that "pursuing a PhD in…" (I can't chew and type at the same time.) more »

  • Posted 12/10/2014 12:50:27 EST

    I think I'm worried he'd be so afraid of such a big change in his life at his age that he'd stay married, no matter how terrible his marriage is How old is he, 102? I don't think his marriage is terri more »

  • Posted 11/10/2014 01:32:52 EST

    "He wants to leave her but doesn't want to leave his children." Baloney. He just wants to rut a 29 yr old. While you're getting off of believing yourself to be a woman who can tempt a man to leave his more »

  • Posted 11/04/2014 09:46:19 EST

    I don't want to feel like I have to give up being friends with my neighbor.
    He doesn't see you as a friend. He sees you as a neighbor, a neighbor with benefits. more »

  • Posted 10/29/2014 10:23:08 EDT

    Face it sweetie. Sam or no Sam, you don't want to be married to your husband anymore. Seek legal advice. more »

  • Posted 07/31/2014 10:22:50 EDT

    The lady doth protest too much, methinks. more »

  • Posted 07/08/2014 10:02:11 EDT

    "I am not asking you to stop watching it. I am saying I choose to want a man who does not need it. Same way you CHOOSE to watch it.

    I think you need to choose a different man. This guy wants his porn. more »

  • Posted 05/01/2014 02:47:15 EDT

    Good post. I too have concerns that he's willing to bully her into being more like him. My mother would call it "anal retentive". Eww. In the early comments someone mentioned 'roids and someone else m more »

  • Posted 03/07/2014 10:38:41 EST

    "but when I bring up her name is casual conversation..."

    You are sooooo transparent.  


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  • Posted 01/22/2014 12:56:53 EST


    LW, OlderNotWiser is one of the wisest and most articulate contributers on this blog.  She knocked it out of the part yet again. I hope you take her advice to heart. 

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