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Posted 07/31/2014 10:22:50 EDT
The lady doth protest too much, methinks.
Posted 07/08/2014 10:02:11 EDT
"I am not asking you to stop watching it. I am saying I choose to want a man who does not need it. Same way you CHOOSE to watch it.I think you need to choose a different man. This guy wants his porn.
Posted 05/01/2014 02:47:15 EDT
Good post. I too have concerns that he's willing to bully her into being more like him. My mother would call it "anal retentive". Eww. In the early comments someone mentioned 'roids and someone else m more »
Posted 03/07/2014 10:38:41 EST
"but when I bring up her name is casual conversation..."
You are sooooo transparent.
Posted 01/22/2014 12:56:53 EST
LW, OlderNotWiser is one of the wisest and most articulate contributers on this blog. She knocked it out of the part yet again. I hope you take her advice to heart.
Posted 01/17/2014 10:44:16 EST
You mentioned that previous exes didn't like traveling even an hour to see you, so I gather you've already had your share of heartbreaks, thus this latest disappointment has you really deflated. I ge more »
Posted 12/23/2013 10:14:29 EST
I'm trying to work up some empathy LW because it appears you are emotionally fragile yet anxious (desperate!) to have a relationship and a family. What you did was stupid, cruel, and it all backfire more »
Posted 12/03/2013 12:27:56 EST
Tech0000 mentioned Crossing Delancy.
Posted 11/04/2013 10:16:29 EST
I actually do understand your attitude, LZ. Either you are insecure due to being rejected and dumped in the past, were ridiculed too often when you were a child, or are full of petulant pride -- born more »
Posted 11/04/2013 09:56:10 EST
Scarlett O'Hara syndrome.
Posted 10/23/2013 10:30:52 EDT
bangs head on monitor.
I was replying to softpatina.
I'm done! (posting, that is.)
Posted 10/23/2013 10:26:17 EDT
agree! I'm trying to like the "chill out" advice some are saying, but he's the one that "wanted to have a talk..." and talk he did. I think at this point he's staying mostly for the sex.
Posted 10/23/2013 10:10:24 EDT
my comment above was supposed to be a reply to TheColdDeadHaddockOfReality. (Having a lot of trouble navigating this blog lately.)
Posted 10/23/2013 10:07:55 EDT
Speaking of hygiene and haddock did you know there's a chain of furniture stores in the southeast called Badcock?
Posted 10/23/2013 09:54:24 EDT
So tempting to tell him to fish or cut bait, but I suggest you do the bait-cutting. Throw him back to the sea or whatever.
Posted 10/01/2013 10:52:42 EDT
As you can see LW, people take their Christmas Day very seriously. Just as you take your High Holiday very seriously. A lot of times it's not about religious theology, it's more about familly exerti more »
Posted 09/09/2013 10:21:16 EDT
If I got the timeline and math right, you were 18 or 19 when you met Frank. Well, that's how those early grand passion relationships usually play out. I'm concerned, however, that you still have th more »
Posted 08/26/2013 12:59:30 EDT
"He has some bad debt (at no fault of his own) and I want to address it head on. He wants to kill me when I bring it up." Did he lend money to a relative who wanted to start a business or something? more »
Posted 07/11/2013 12:27:49 EDT
unless you're on a crowded train and ate too many at lunch. Oh wait.
Posted 07/11/2013 12:20:24 EDT
"He was a summer fling, almost every summer; the kind that gets overly romanticized to the point where I was building him up in my head to be something which, as I later found out, was obviously inacc more »
Posted 05/03/2013 10:28:13 EDT
My suggestion is that you visit your family for several weeks this summer. Take some deep breaths, talk to your family about your future homesickness fears and ask them if they'll be amenable to comin more »
Posted 04/23/2013 09:26:02 EDT
Her "step back" was just a gentle way of saying she essentially wants to break up totally. "Have the possibility of seeing other people" means she has the hots for someone else. And not being intimat more »
Posted 04/22/2013 09:46:55 EDT
I don't think it's a question of nausea, I think it's a question of jealousy. Yes, you are jealous that your friend is having her cake and eating it too AND is the star of this ongoing soap opera. " more »
Posted 03/20/2013 11:03:51 EDT
there-back, There's something to be said of his idea of 2013 (September maybe) versus her idea 2013 (Feb 1!), but just shutting the proverbial door in her face and not checking in all these weeks to s more »
Posted 03/20/2013 10:48:07 EDT
She should absolutely get the dog. I wish I thought of it first!
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