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  • Comment on: I notice flaws

    Posted 12/02/2011 09:36:15 EST

    "She was attractive and all my friends reassured me." You shouldn't need reassurance from your friends that the women you date are attractive. You either a) don't find them attractive or b) you care t more »

  • Posted 03/09/2011 09:39:38 EST

     "but above all else I want him to be happy, and if that means that we're not together then so be it."  

    No, LW, above all else you should want YOU TO BE HAPPY. start with that for a change.
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  • Posted 03/07/2011 10:08:36 EST

    Start looking for jobs and apartments that suit your needs. Share the results of these searches with him. See how he reacts. Once he sees you taking ACTION, he will either do the same or not. Either w more »

  • Comment on: What is he hiding?

    Posted 09/21/2010 09:38:08 EDT

    OK whoah there little lady... so you write on and on about this sketchball (yup, he is.) and how you love him and THEN at the very end hit us with a "I have a boyfriend"? you say NOTHING about your bo more »

  • Posted 08/27/2010 09:26:44 EDT

    Dear LW I think you need to remember that there are a lot of people out there WITHOUT steady jobs, that they excel at, no less. It's a recession. He's very lucky- he's employed and doing well at work. more »

  • Posted 08/11/2010 09:39:39 EDT

    "I was feeling very mature" Look, maturity isn't a feeling. It just is. You are mature or you are not, you don't have 'feelings' of being mature every once and a while. Both of you are very, very imma more »

  • Posted 08/04/2010 09:35:52 EDT

    i'm bothered that everyone seems to define realtionships in two categories: 1. mind blowing s#x and passion, that ends with drama and heartbreak or 2. boring, nice, safe, settling but no drama hello?? more »

  • Posted 08/04/2010 09:33:01 EDT

    also, just want to remind everyone: they have only been dating a year. it's still early, in the phase when you are SUPPOSED to think everything about them is wonderful and you're all lusty and such, b more »

  • Posted 08/04/2010 09:23:56 EDT

    Yes, the lust fades, but it has to be there to begin with! You feel no passion for this man. Lust issues aside, you don't sound like you are in love with him at all. That to me, is a no brainer. We ca more »

  • Posted 07/30/2010 10:24:44 EDT

    truluv... mangina? omg i love you. more »

  • Posted 07/30/2010 10:23:09 EDT

    it's VERY clear to me that marge and jack are bonking. ever had someone be obsessed with you when you don't return the feelings? it's awkward. you don't want to be near them. UNLESS you want to bonk t more »

  • Posted 07/15/2010 12:10:38 EDT

    the comments on this post are disgustingly ignorant.
    Wrath-Fury-Vengeance you should be ashamed. You are a disgusting human being.

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  • Posted 07/14/2010 10:01:38 EDT

    disgusting waste of money, resources, and energy. more »

  • Posted 07/06/2010 10:51:46 EDT

    This sort of thing is what EVERYONE deals with when moving in with an S.O. It's part of the process and part of being in an adult relationship. It's never easy, but it is a great learning and growing more »

  • Posted 06/30/2010 03:57:36 EDT

    What a wonderful project! I'm getting my Master's in Community Arts and it makes me so happy to see projects such as this, which will have a real, concrete impact on the community, getting support and more »

  • Posted 06/30/2010 10:01:44 EDT

    Yes, you're doing it right. Don't go looking for a relationship because your family wants you too. That is just inviting bad ju-ju into your love life. Some people just can't accept that there are peo more »

  • Comment on: She's a 10

    Posted 06/16/2010 09:57:30 EDT

    What's the issue here? Date her. Dating someone sexy and attractive is the best cure for low self esteem. Honestly, you come off as quite pretentious in your letter. Why is everything always about 'pr more »

  • Posted 06/15/2010 09:41:55 EDT

    Early on in the relationship, you told him that you would not stick around should he decide to fulfill his life dream. If that happened to me, i'd be hurt inside for a long, long time, because I think more »

  • Posted 05/28/2010 09:20:10 EDT

    ugh, transcripts? no can listen at work. more »

  • Posted 05/25/2010 09:40:04 EDT

    on a more serious note, LW, I have a feeling that you are not experienced in LTRs. Every LTR reaches a lull at 9 months. It happens- you get comfortable with each other, and other priorities start to more »

  • Posted 05/25/2010 09:31:21 EDT

    I'd much rather read the letter coming from her ex-boyfriend: Dear Meredith, Help me. I was just dumped by this immature, selfish, superficial woman. I'd do anything for her to get her back. But she c more »

  • Posted 05/24/2010 09:14:04 EDT

    she's totally playing you, sorry buddy! I don't see her changing. The added excitement of having you around only adds to her sick little twisted game. Get out!

    Interesting letter today! more »

  • Posted 05/17/2010 10:24:25 EDT

    I think there are many people who are or have friends who are in this situation. One of my closest friends's boyfriend does this- and sometimes as much as one or two times a month. It's like a light s more »

  • Posted 05/05/2010 09:50:46 EDT

    oi, so I quote someone and MY comment gets deleted and not theirs? how fair. more »