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  • Posted 01/14/2013 10:27:26 EST



  • Posted 01/14/2013 10:12:06 EST

    I might be coming across snarky today.  Some people had break-ups over the holidays and to them (me) this is just salt in the wound.

  • Posted 01/14/2013 09:44:05 EST

    Really? Are you that lady who asked my friend who just lost her husband how she was doing, and then bragged about the UGG's her husband gave her for Christmas? OMG.

  • Posted 12/21/2012 09:28:15 EST

    I wouldn't send that guy a "Happy Holidays" if he were the only email address I had.

  • Posted 12/18/2012 09:50:53 EST


  • Comment on: Morality issues

    Posted 12/17/2012 09:42:28 EST

    That made me laugh.

  • Comment on: Morality issues

    Posted 12/17/2012 09:33:26 EST

    What some people call morals, I call hangups.  But, that's just my bias.  Sorry.  Try Christian Mingle.  They must have a box you can check that says celibate.  This poor guy and you just aren't on th more »

  • Comment on: The wrong coast?

    Posted 12/12/2012 10:37:40 EST

    I may be speculating, but, is the real question "Is it smart for me to continue living with this man who hasn't married me yet, I'm getting worried?" 

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  • Posted 12/11/2012 09:56:07 EST

    Staying together for the holidays is such a bad piece of advice. How much more hurtful is it to surprise your mate after the holidays with a break-up? Talk about messing with someone's head. Yes, I wa more »

  • Posted 11/26/2012 12:59:28 EST

    I'm in a bad mood today. All I can think of is that I hope the LW gets some closure if it doesn't work out. more »

  • Posted 11/14/2012 10:33:52 EST

    I think it's a little telling that the LW talks about the "good chemistry" she had with her friend. The only thing that broke them up was "life goals." She is also writing into a love letter blog abou more »

  • Comment on: Moving too fast?

    Posted 11/12/2012 08:25:03 EST

    This better not be a spam day. Some of us have to work. more »

  • Comment on: He's far away

    Posted 11/08/2012 05:26:27 EST

    Did she ever update today?

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  • Comment on: He's far away

    Posted 11/08/2012 05:25:47 EST

    I know it's too late for a real response, but, I feel sorry for this LW.  Talk about laying yourself out on a platter...Don't do this anymore.  If they don't call, that's your answer.  I hope you have more »

  • Comment on: Her family ties

    Posted 10/31/2012 10:12:44 EDT

    This just sounds like your average southern Appalachian family with cell phone service.  If you're not into it, find another girl.

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  • Comment on: Her family ties

    Posted 10/31/2012 09:53:23 EDT


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  • Posted 10/17/2012 08:15:29 EDT

    Is this go to therapy week? LW, If your marriage needs work, work on it. If you are not sure you should be married or not, find out. You say that your marriage still "has good times." That says a lot more »

  • Posted 10/16/2012 09:15:20 EDT

    Dear LW, The car goes where the eyes go. Stop going there. The problem is, you obviously can't talk yourself out of it. Stay in therapy, maybe try a new therapist if this one isn't helping. Practice s more »

  • Comment on: I miss the sparks

    Posted 10/15/2012 06:45:02 EDT

    If this idea annoys people, I understand. It doesn't answer the person's question and seems to trivialize it. Yes, our problems are important and other people suffering doesn't make our problems go aw more »

  • Comment on: I miss the sparks

    Posted 10/15/2012 08:00:00 EDT

    This is true advice. more »

  • Comment on: I miss the sparks

    Posted 10/15/2012 07:58:24 EDT

    This is going to be a slow day. more »

  • Comment on: I want her back

    Posted 10/12/2012 10:32:09 EDT

    Randomly... Instantly... Inexplicably... Tremendously... Hastily... Vocationally... Severely... Literally... Definitely... A drama Queen. Dear LW, work on yourself a little bit more. You aren't ready more »

  • Posted 10/11/2012 02:48:20 EDT

    Blog censored like in Soviet Union.

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  • Posted 10/11/2012 12:35:10 EDT

    Is it a coincidence that this letter posted on National Coming Out Day? more »

  • Posted 10/11/2012 11:22:01 EDT

    bummed more »