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  • Posted 08/21/2015 09:39:34 EDT

    Most important in my mind. Never, ever bash the ex in front of the kids no matter how justified you may feel you are.

  • Posted 07/29/2015 11:23:59 EDT

    Thanks a lot, LW. "55-year-old (eek!)." With all due respect, although I'm not quite there yet, there's a whole lot of awesome going on. Just sayin'.

  • Posted 07/29/2015 11:23:56 EDT

    Thanks a lot, LW. "55-year-old (eek!)." With all due respect, although I'm not quite there yet, there's a whole lot of awesome going on. Just sayin'.

  • Posted 07/27/2015 09:14:39 EDT

    My husband racked up $60,000 in debt without my knowledge. I found him a lawyer and he declared bankruptcy. It was very hard but we managed through it. If as Meredith says you have a strong enough fou more »

  • Posted 07/22/2015 09:23:15 EDT

    All you need to care about is your sex life. If it's fine, then you have no worries. Bodies are interesting and there's nothing wrong with a casual interest in those of both sexes. more »

  • Posted 07/16/2015 09:14:01 EDT

    I think the obnoxiousness/snarkiness could get better over time as he and his friends mature, but the red flag for me is the drinking. Age and maturity level have no correlation to alcohol consumption more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 09:41:45 EDT

    My girlfriend dated someone like this. Bad news. more »

  • Posted 06/18/2015 10:43:50 EDT

    Neither is fat, drunk and stupid. more »

  • Posted 06/18/2015 10:10:02 EDT

    Actually, my husband of 23 years proposed to me right after. more »

  • Posted 06/16/2015 10:12:54 EDT

    Why isn't the new boyfriend going? I'd bring him for support. more »

  • Posted 06/09/2015 09:26:18 EDT

    I know a woman who flew after 20 years to see a dying aunt. Her doctor gave her lots of meds and guess what? She was totally fine. It can be done if you really want to. more »

  • Posted 06/02/2015 09:17:22 EDT

    I've been married 23 years also and never had the talk, so I guess it's a generation thing. more »

  • Posted 06/02/2015 09:03:41 EDT

    Is "the talk" a new thing? I don't ever remember having it with any of my boyfriends, including my now husband. To me, "the talk" was about moving in together. more »

  • Posted 06/01/2015 09:43:02 EDT

    Have you ever seen the Crazy-Hot Matrix: A Man's Guide to Women?
    It's freakin' hilarious and I'm a woman. more »

  • Posted 05/21/2015 09:15:16 EDT

    "Me too" more »

  • Comment on: She Wants More Sex

    Posted 05/05/2015 09:23:32 EDT

    I can attest to a certain resurgence. more »

  • Comment on: I'm Far Away

    Posted 03/25/2015 09:39:26 EDT

    You're dissing Cape May? Awesome town. more »

  • Posted 03/05/2015 10:41:45 EST

    I was shocked when I read that you're in your 50s. I would have guessed WAY younger. more »

  • Posted 01/30/2015 09:32:36 EST

    Easier to say than to do, I know, but you do need to end it. In a way that is right for you, but it needs to be done. The fact that you are sometimes more lonely with him than alone speaks volumes. An more »

  • Posted 01/06/2015 09:31:21 EST

    My husband could stand to lose a few pounds. Would I tell him that? No. That's for his doctor to tell him. Sometimes he could use a breath mint. Do I tell him? Yes, because he would be mortified if he more »

  • Comment on: Sex After 50?

    Posted 12/29/2014 11:37:45 EST

    I'm in my 50s and I find that weird. There's something going on. more »

  • Posted 10/31/2014 09:57:28 EDT

    I was assuming it was herpes, which can be dormant. But I agree only her doctor should be giving her medical info. more »

  • Posted 10/28/2014 12:03:54 EDT

    I'm sorry Abby, but you are wrong. Any rescue group that brings dogs from the South makes you apply and pay first, and then they bring you the dog. You can decide to return it, but then you've been br more »

  • Posted 10/28/2014 09:36:50 EDT

    Do you know how hard it is to adopt a rescue dog? Let me tell you, it's insane. If you have young kids, don't have a fenced in yard, or any number of other reasons they will deny you in a second. Oh, more »

  • Posted 10/17/2014 09:33:13 EDT

    There's also a difference between asking her to convert and asking her if it's OK to raise the kids Jewish. Personally, I'd be fine with the latter but not the former. Also, I think even non-religious more »