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  • Posted 08/05/2010 07:14:17 EDT

    I've got no personal experience to share, but I think if I get married I'd want it to feel like this: Does the thought of more »

  • Posted 07/30/2010 09:58:15 EDT

    Show her this letter. Well, you might not want to send her the URL to this letter, but tell her exactly what you told us, including that you trust her 100% but you still feel uncomfortable. Ask her wh more »

  • Posted 07/27/2010 09:58:59 EDT

    Find out your company's sexual harassment policy first. Given the power differential between you two, you would definitely be considered the aggressor. more »

  • Posted 07/07/2010 09:58:43 EDT

    As I said before, the details aren't really important, what's important is that you're unhappy. But I'm intrigued and curious, so whatever. How much alone time DO you get with the bf? If you are home more »

  • Posted 07/07/2010 09:50:36 EDT

    Look at it as two separate issues. Are you happy with the relationship now? And where is the relationship going in the future? Then tackle each one separately. You're not happy with the way the relati more »

  • Posted 07/06/2010 11:13:57 EDT

    Bossse, gotta disagree with you about the definition of responsibility. The LW can be responsible without getting a second job just so she can spend the money on a temporary apartment. Wouldn't the mo more »

  • Posted 07/06/2010 11:04:07 EDT

    I think this is a great opportunity for you and your boyfriend. A lot of couples move in under less-than-ideal circumstances-- "ack my I need to get away from my psycho roommate and my rent's going up more »

  • Posted 07/06/2010 08:35:24 EDT

    CommonSense114, cut Meredith some slack. Love Letters gets holiday Mondays off. more »

  • Comment on: Missing my fiance

    Posted 07/02/2010 09:53:53 EDT

    If your friend really cared about you as much as he says he does, he wouldn't have slept with you. He must have had some inkling of all the internal turmoil this would have caused you, and he should h more »

  • Posted 07/01/2010 09:46:10 EDT

    So you could drink a case of him, LW, and you would still be on your feet, you would still be on your feet? While you're doing the remodel, at some low-stress moment when you're together, broach the t more »

  • Posted 06/30/2010 11:41:18 EDT

    The LW needs to tell her friends and family to stop being such buthecks with the unsolicited advice. more »

  • Posted 06/30/2010 10:01:42 EDT

    Can we talk about age for a second here? When exactly is too young to be in a serious relationship? When is too old not to be in one? I bring it up because today's LW seems to be an example of a situa more »

  • Posted 06/30/2010 09:36:46 EDT

    Redpatbrutics, best LL mashup response ever. more »

  • Posted 06/30/2010 09:31:57 EDT

    I believe that the LW is asking us for permission to ignore the well-meaning loved ones. Permission granted. When I was in my early 20's I lived in a socially conservative area and got "Why don't you more »

  • Posted 06/30/2010 09:20:26 EDT

    LW, you're right. There's nothing wrong with you. To those who bug you about not being in a relationship, just smile politely and say "I'm waiting for the right person to come along." You don't HAVE t more »

  • Comment on: She's a 10

    Posted 06/16/2010 09:54:15 EDT

    Hmm, crushes on letter writers are mysterious things. Both this guy and Vanilla Biscotti girl have somewhat pretentious writing styles, yet everyone is super nice to this guy when they raked Vanilla B more »

  • Comment on: She's a 10

    Posted 06/16/2010 09:51:33 EDT

    It sounds like today's Pi Guy might hit it off with the Vanilla Biscotti Girl. more »

  • Comment on: She's a 10

    Posted 06/16/2010 09:48:16 EDT

    Imagine it from her perspective: she's a 10 but probably thinks she's an 8. The only guys who hit on her are 3's who think they're at least an 11. She is probably sick of attractive but arrogant guys more »

  • Posted 06/10/2010 10:02:17 EDT

    LW, I think you knew that everyone was going to tell you to break up with the guy, and I think you don't want to have to do the dirty work of ending it. So I'll suggest a compromise: You're allowed to more »

  • Posted 06/03/2010 10:14:42 EDT

    "Of course, you could just delete certain facts from your Facebook profile." No, you can't. Even if you delete them, Facebook still remembers them. When Facebook gave me the ultimatum that I had to ma more »

  • Posted 06/03/2010 09:55:25 EDT

    To disagree with so many of you... there is nothing "fundamentally" wrong with living with one's parents! He is NOT necessarily a loser. As a bunch of us have pointed out, if his reasons for living wi more »

  • Posted 06/03/2010 09:43:12 EDT

    Being an adult and still living with his parents does not necessarily make him lazy. Sure, he may enjoy living rent free because he's a slacker. But he may be with his parents because he's responsible more »

  • Posted 05/28/2010 11:04:57 EDT

    To Love Limbo, apparently, if you have to ask, he's not the one. Ask your boyfriend why he wants to get married. Take him out to dinner and have a long chat about what marriage means to both of you an more »

  • Posted 05/28/2010 10:59:38 EDT

    Vampire's bride: Manny's right. Talk to your husband. In the evening. It sounds like you guys really need to talk after that ultimatum you gave him. I wonder how your husband felt when you were in gra more »

  • Posted 05/28/2010 10:48:35 EDT

    Manny's right that Weight a Minute REALLY needs to tread lightly around telling his wife she's fat. (Well, Manny said he can't do it at all.) Manny and many of the commenters have assumed that WaM and more »