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  • Posted 05/22/2015 11:50:27 EDT

    Given the "passionate" nature of her response, Saida Grundy has furthered the division between races rather than promote a healthy conversation about racism that might move the world forward. And she more »

  • Posted 05/21/2015 09:50:41 EDT

    Walk around with the title of your letter on your shirt and see how you feel about yourself. In the meantime, let go of your girlfriend so she can find someone who is worthy of her. more »

  • Posted 05/21/2015 09:50:38 EDT

    Walk around with the title of your letter on your shirt and see how you feel about yourself. In the meantime, let go of your girlfriend so she can find someone who is worthy of her. more »

  • Posted 04/14/2015 09:33:40 EDT

    ^ This. more »

  • Posted 04/01/2015 12:50:22 EDT

    Elope. It's cheaper, less stress, more fun, and might just help the libido too..... more »

  • Posted 03/31/2015 09:03:43 EDT

    Maybe I'm just having a slow morning, but it took me a while to figure out I could get back to Boston.com by clicking on that tiny little "b" in the upper right corner.... more »

  • Posted 03/06/2015 12:54:16 EST

    Stop telling prospective partners that you're looking for a dominant woman. I fit the description you gave - unless you're looking for lifestyle and then I'm on the other end ;) - and if any guy told more »

  • Posted 02/19/2015 02:00:56 EST

    Check out the Asperger/Autism Network (www.aane.org). They provide specific resources and support for your situation. Don't assume that your husband can't learn skills to improve your marriage (althou more »

  • Posted 12/17/2014 12:53:27 EST

    New England Confectionary Company is NECCO (as in NECCO Wafers) not NECC. more »

  • Posted 12/10/2014 10:21:32 EST

    You're living with this man and you feel it is like being married, but I promise you he doesn't view it that way. This situation is really bad. I disagree with Meredith - don't ask him about the futur more »

  • Posted 11/24/2014 03:30:13 EST

    Before you spend a lot of money on therapy, perhaps you should start with an honest conversation about how you are feeling? If he cares, then maybe therapy is in order; if he doesn't care, you might a more »

  • Posted 11/24/2014 03:23:02 EST

    Because it was posted on the front page of Boston.com, I thought this article might have something insightful and interesting to say, but the only thing I've learned is that I'm glad I've never heard more »

  • Posted 09/30/2014 12:00:24 EDT

    My sister married into a family like this. It wasn't a big problem until she and her husband had kids and he followed the only parenting model he knew. It was one of many reasons that led to divorce. more »

  • Posted 08/11/2014 10:48:55 EDT

    I know how you're boyfriend is going to feel. I was independent with my own home and business and wanted neither marriage nor kids. I thought my boyfriend was the same way. I was so independent that h more »

  • Posted 07/07/2014 11:17:42 EDT

    I was where you were. I decided to give up on the marriage/kids dream and just make myself happy. Life became great and I became very happy, then I met this guy who wanted me to marry and have kids wi more »

  • Posted 02/15/2013 12:40:46 EST

    Please add Carlisle to MarieOnCape's list, especially Monument street between Concord and Carlisle where speeding cars, bicycles in groups of 25 or more and crowds of tourists crossing from their buse more »

  • Posted 01/17/2013 10:40:01 EST

    I always hated dating too. Groups like www.eventsandadventures.com organize different activities where everyone attending is single. I'm happily married, but if I wasn't, I always thought that this so more »

  • Comment on: I come from money

    Posted 11/06/2012 10:35:32 EST

    I grew up in a circumstance similar to yours and was educated through graduate school. My husband was brought up by his single mother (father was in and out of picture and not supportive financially o more »

  • Posted 11/05/2012 09:48:45 EST

    This story has no value. There are as many storries of good nannies and au pairs as there are of bad ones. (I personally have a had wonderful experiences with au pairs.) But as long as Bella English w more »

  • Posted 10/17/2012 10:19:41 EDT

    Wow, this could almost be me writing, except that I have not traded emails outside of work with my crush and, other than a sex-life thats been rendered nearly non-existent by my otherwise wonderful ki more »

  • Posted 03/22/2012 11:46:18 EDT

    Kimball's (Westford, Carlisle, etc.) has nothing on Bedford Farms --locations in Bedford and Concord MA. more »

  • Posted 04/06/2011 09:28:32 EDT

    If you broaden the argument from restaurants to any luxury item, the Groupon model can make sense when used strategically. I just purchased a groupon deal for a short helicopter ride around my neighbo more »

  • Posted 04/06/2011 09:16:05 EDT

    Skip the sanitation cost and fine her $650 for breaking the law. (Althought I agree with the comments above about the cost to the T and the disruption for travelers.) more »

  • Posted 03/30/2011 10:46:14 EDT

    As someone who was in individual therapy for a long time to address depression and anxiety, I had my SO go with me a couple of times--not because we had any issues, but because I specifically wanted h more »

  • Posted 11/23/2010 09:53:44 EST

    LW, the real problem here is that you and your SO are not on the same page. That often happens in relationships. The important question is whether or not you can get on the same page in a way that is more »