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About Me: I ride a motorcycle, do technology stuff for a non profit. I have a daughter in college, we're best friends. I did parenting right. That's all you need to know.

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  • Posted 08/21/2015 09:28:48 EDT

    Can we assume the LW was not involved with him while he was still married? That would change the dynamics.

  • Posted 08/20/2015 08:47:51 EDT

    Ack, you can't go forward looking in the rearview mirror. Don't do it.

  • Posted 08/18/2015 10:56:32 EDT

    yeah, I've friended exes on social media, I look at their profile for a minute, smile to myself for whatever it is we had at the time we had it, and then I move on to the next thing I was doing. It's more »

  • Posted 08/13/2015 09:15:22 EDT

    at 50 something Jane may not be feeling chemistry for anyone...I suggest she seek medical advice, it may be a hormone thing. more »

  • Posted 08/12/2015 09:44:19 EDT

    Do you tell your BF about other junk mail? Why do you even open it? Select block sender and move on. more »

  • Posted 08/07/2015 08:27:57 EDT

    LW, if you'd like to go hiking, grab your backpack and go. It sounds like you have a baby at home and maybe a toddler, so either load them up to go with you, or make arrangements for child care. You d more »

  • Posted 07/16/2015 09:27:16 EDT

    she loves the idea of who she wants him to be. more »

  • Posted 07/15/2015 09:16:13 EDT

    Send the second note. Nothing wrong with politely persistent. She may have had a couple dates with someone promising and turned her profile off. If that didn't work out, you could be next in line. But more »

  • Posted 07/13/2015 12:31:53 EDT

    Craig's list of course more »

  • Posted 07/13/2015 09:15:56 EDT

    Stop playing the victim here. A guy can't use you without your permission. more »

  • Comment on: Is She Into Me?

    Posted 07/10/2015 09:21:51 EDT

    I'm sorry we don't allow solid advice here. more »

  • Posted 07/08/2015 10:18:01 EDT

    He was getting called for it as an illegal pitch in the minors. more »

  • Comment on: Boyfriend Or Baby

    Posted 07/08/2015 09:31:24 EDT

    if he is wishy washy in his desire to have a baby with you, what's going to happen when you don't get pregnant. Is he going to support you as you seek out infertility treatments? Miscarriages? Genetic more »

  • Posted 07/07/2015 09:01:36 EDT

    Honey it's not all about him, and you waiting for him, and giving him a pass for his behavior. You don't like listening to his ex GF stories and for a good reason. Let him know what you need and don't more »

  • Posted 07/06/2015 09:34:36 EDT

    and why would she know or care? She probably still talks about him on dates... more »

  • Posted 07/01/2015 09:13:47 EDT

    the old BF never comes back. The old one was a tale you made up about who you wished he where. What you see is what you get! more »

  • Posted 07/01/2015 09:11:57 EDT

    What is confusing? You are not having fun. Stop calling this love. Love is much nicer. more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 09:12:29 EDT

    Your relationship seems like a lot of work, did you know things don't have to be like that? Going to a family event solo so he can drink with his buds speaks volumes about his commitment to a partners more »

  • Posted 06/26/2015 11:41:51 EDT

    I wonder if the letter writer is he or she? more »

  • Posted 06/22/2015 09:10:25 EDT

    this is your idea of a great guy? more »

  • Posted 06/09/2015 10:00:49 EDT

    she's cheaper than a visiting nurse? more »

  • Posted 06/09/2015 09:59:53 EDT

    Dear LW, you already know the answer, but you are afraid of what other people will think. Do what makes you feel comfortable. Remember you don't have to do a thing, don't let him or anyone else pressu more »

  • Posted 06/04/2015 09:53:15 EDT

    what does the ring have to do with the trip anyway? more »

  • Posted 06/04/2015 09:49:23 EDT

    just because she talks a lot does not make her good at communicating more »

  • Posted 06/03/2015 10:55:22 EDT

    very good point about finding someone to put up with her. She should spend time thinking about who/what she wants from a relationship. She may have never considered that, thinking she is damaged goods more »