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Posted 04/18/2014 09:19:50 EDT
Stop playing victim in your own life. He can't do things to you without your consent. Stop that. Who cares why, stop participating. Don't you have other things in your life to focus on?
Posted 04/04/2014 10:49:42 EDT
yeah she needs to decouple the therapy and the BF. She needs to do the therapy for herself, not as a means to "save" the relationship. BF is just trying to let her down slowly.
Posted 04/03/2014 11:04:10 EDT
I think she knows his PW and is trying to shield us from some of her snooping antics.
Posted 04/03/2014 10:52:45 EDT
yeah, could have stopped reading after that line.
Posted 04/02/2014 09:07:25 EDT
Your friend, turned BF might be very nice. That does not mean he is right for you. You are just beginning to define for yourself what YOU want in a relationship. (and the answer is not what ever you more »
Posted 03/27/2014 09:19:43 EDT
Secret agent, well played Ray.
Posted 03/21/2014 09:35:00 EDT
You are focused on the wrong issue. You are his wife, not his mother. Stop trying to control him. He likes porn, you do not. Fact. Take a deep breath. Can you even have a rational discussion with hi more »
Posted 03/20/2014 09:31:09 EDT
I want to stick a pin in her balloon. Is she 16?
Posted 03/07/2014 09:22:27 EST
We met online while I was in a marriage with the first wife.
No need to read any more.
Posted 03/06/2014 09:30:13 EST
If you want to understand his actions you could ask HIM.
Posted 02/27/2014 09:07:51 EST
We've discussed all of this...
You've told him. He knows. Find something else to think about.
Posted 02/21/2014 10:30:36 EST
he won't change for you.
and you can't fix him.
Posted 02/13/2014 11:18:23 EST
I forget about the law of averages and get all smug about being interesting. 8)
Posted 02/13/2014 10:22:43 EST
Don't buy into what the nay sayers are selling you. If you have your act together, and are leading an interesting fulfilling life, you are going to attract men like that. Don't even consider anything more »
Posted 02/12/2014 12:08:42 EST
Uh maybe the administrators should focus on curriculum and stop being control freaks?
Posted 02/06/2014 09:46:39 EST
it's too late for that, but she should leave anyway
Posted 02/05/2014 12:39:11 EST
this note does not get sent because the receiver then replies to it pressing for details! I've sent the polite note before and received angry replies back. Not fun. I still think the disappearing act more »
Posted 02/05/2014 11:15:31 EST
the same things happens with job interviews!
Posted 02/04/2014 09:41:50 EST
you can not thrust the therapy card onto someone. he needs to reach that conclusion on his own. This is yet another letter that reads, he'll be perfect just as soon as he changes. And don't you thin more »
Posted 02/03/2014 09:21:24 EST
You dismissing your instincts at many points in this, starting with the fact that he was married when you "met". Don't do that next time.
Posted 01/30/2014 09:56:48 EST
Bzzn...long term unemployment from a well paid job has nothing to do with being lazy. One can not take a minimum wage job, when in fact unemployment pays more than that. And doing so would make you un more »
Posted 01/30/2014 09:13:17 EST
Do you have any resources available to you for employment counseling - perhaps the state unemployment office, or if he was laid off his former employer may offer outsourcing resources? It sounds like more »
Posted 01/30/2014 09:00:22 EST
The person who deserves the job is the person who can be 100% focused and dedicated to the job. That person is not Jerry.
Posted 01/29/2014 09:19:34 EST
can someone tell her she doesn't have to respond to his contacts?
Posted 01/17/2014 09:27:30 EST
pay close attention to how things are NOW. Not what they could have been or should have been or you wished they were. Today is the only day you have. How do you feel about the way he acts toward you more »