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  • Posted 08/28/2015 10:24:00 EDT

    Darlin' the answers to your questions are inside of you, not out here. You know yourself and are in much more control than you say. I am often amazed at how many of the things I set out to do have com more »

  • Posted 08/25/2015 10:08:06 EDT

    Dear LW, yes he is developing feelings for you, but maybe it's because he doesn't know how to be a decent boyfriend. If he can't be honest with his current gf, how will he be with you? Or if he can't more »

  • Posted 08/25/2015 10:07:06 EDT

    Dear LW, yes he is developing feelings for you, but maybe it's because he doesn't know how to be a decent boyfriend. If he can't be honest with his current gf, how will he be with you? Or if he can't more »

  • Posted 08/24/2015 11:26:00 EDT

    I'd don't know about this. Something about your letter makes me think you are the sort of woman that likes to be in control of a situation. You will probably just do what you are going to do anyway, b more »

  • Posted 08/21/2015 10:40:20 EDT

    whoops, meant wife in law. more »

  • Posted 08/21/2015 10:28:52 EDT

    Compassion is the answer here. What was the situation of the breakup? Three kids means there was a well established family. There are some issues, and points of view that it would be kind to appreciat more »

  • Posted 08/20/2015 10:55:20 EDT

    It was a sign to the LW. That's the only person to whom "a sign" as in a call to action matters. more »

  • Posted 08/20/2015 10:48:57 EDT

    People are funny. They use all sorts of small gestures to mean big things. I know that I do. I would reach out. a. You have nothing to lose and b. You guys have had enough time elapse for some decent more »

  • Posted 08/20/2015 09:51:41 EDT

    Doesn't matter. When the age is 15 it's rape. more »

  • Posted 08/19/2015 10:40:32 EDT

    Unfortunately relationships, though similar to kindergarten, don't work if you assume the role of kindergarten teacher. He was honest, and yes, he may have been missing that churning, online dating va more »

  • Posted 08/18/2015 09:50:55 EDT

    The point of making amends is not to make trouble. If you care about someone or want to support them in life then you need to support THEIR life, including their marriage and other choices. The same g more »

  • Posted 08/17/2015 08:57:26 EDT

    I think it diminishes the love between two people. more »

  • Posted 08/14/2015 01:38:41 EDT

    Um, LW, the guy was married, not "ex-married". The woman is his wife. She has the right as such to be in his life. Here is a major selfish guy, who won't take responsibility for the destruction he is more »

  • Posted 08/06/2015 07:27:16 EDT

    Yes, he has been important to you, and you love him. It's good news that he needs to know. A good ending to a relationship much, much more value than we place on it. Having good relations with someone more »

  • Posted 08/05/2015 08:23:53 EDT

    Well, this one is a drag, because what motivation does a guy have to let go of having 2 women who want him? You are in an entirely different state of having to compete for a man you shouldn't have to more »

  • Posted 08/03/2015 10:15:13 EDT

    I can see your point. It does seem disrespectful of the family. It's as though people are forcing other people to be big, rather than being compassionate and sensitive. If it makes you uncomfortable, more »

  • Posted 08/01/2015 11:00:19 EDT

    I have trouble believing that heroin is cheaper than methadone treatment. Really? I kind of think if she found the money for that, she could have found the money for the methadone. But it is really sa more »

  • Posted 08/01/2015 10:54:49 EDT

    And it sounds like it is actually cheaper than incarceration. Those "angels" have their work cut out for them, though. more »

  • Posted 07/31/2015 09:30:51 EDT

    If everything in the world but your overworked brain is leading you a certain way, then tell your brain to shut up and follow your heart. He sounds great and you love each other. more »

  • Posted 07/30/2015 09:03:54 EDT

    My word, LW, as Jennifer Aniston said, your sensitivity chip is missing. Let him go and you might miss the sinister delight of looking down on the person who has least deserved your harsh judgment for more »

  • Posted 07/29/2015 10:35:07 EDT

    Also, I think this is really his issue and he needs to be honest with himself that he will be comfortable with someone in their sixties when he is in his prime. He may be deep enough to not worry abou more »

  • Posted 07/29/2015 10:12:59 EDT

    This is a hard one as our culture is so slanted towards the opposite match up. That said, there are skin products and new biology to keep us younger biologically. I'm in a relationship with a smaller more »

  • Posted 07/28/2015 09:20:39 EDT

    California answer!!! Write down what you want in your long term relationship. Use affirmations to state that this is what you have in your life and stop feeling a victim to chance. You are not. Your d more »

  • Posted 07/27/2015 10:07:13 EDT

    I really think you should get a job just to get a reality check on life. If you are bringing in your own money you'll have a sense of how to manage it. Many people today, through no fault of their own more »

  • Posted 07/27/2015 07:43:29 EDT

    Oh how terrible, something is disclosed to the public! How dare we know anything. more »