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  • Posted 04/16/2015 10:26:31 EDT

    Well, hard as it is, stop snooping. People can always hide stuff, it's not worth it. Guess what? You can't control him, and you really can't control anybody. I was in a similar position and was ready more »

  • Posted 04/15/2015 09:51:06 EDT

    Dunno, but sharing this issue with allus strangers seems odd. What if he reads this and recognizes himself? (you should have given him a fake name). It just sounds odd to have love and sex considered more »

  • Posted 04/14/2015 10:24:51 EDT

    That, too. more »

  • Posted 04/14/2015 10:10:46 EDT

    Well, you make this having kids thing sound so warm and loving! And you paint your relationship as very loving. Not! Why not just love him and the situation as it is. No one put a gun to your head and more »

  • Posted 04/13/2015 04:29:56 EDT

    Well, LW, sex should be a stress reliever, not additional stress. How about forgetting what HE wants out of sex and making it about you. Enjoy it and see if you can get what YOU want to make it fun. E more »

  • Posted 04/10/2015 10:42:21 EDT

    FYi I don't know if this is ok to mention, but I found Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel. He deals very well with this exact issue of infidelity. This saved our marriage from this same kind of thing. more »

  • Posted 04/10/2015 10:42:10 EDT

    FYi I don't know if this is ok to mention, but I found Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel. He deals very well with this exact issue of infidelity. This saved our marriage from this same kind of thing. more »

  • Posted 04/10/2015 10:42:09 EDT

    FYi I don't know if this is ok to mention, but I found Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel. He deals very well with this exact issue of infidelity. This saved our marriage from this same kind of thing. more »

  • Posted 04/10/2015 10:41:55 EDT

    FYi I don't know if this is ok to mention, but I found Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel. He deals very well with this exact issue of infidelity. This saved our marriage from this same kind of thing. more »

  • Posted 04/10/2015 10:41:19 EDT

    FYi I don't know if this is ok to mention, but I found Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel. He deals very well with this exact issue of infidelity. This saved our marriage from this same kind of thing. more »

  • Posted 04/10/2015 09:49:28 EDT

    LW, that is terrible. There are studies that show that this kind of pain is every bit as physical as being kicked in the head. I have been in a similar position and it was the worst time in my life. A more »

  • Posted 04/09/2015 03:58:18 EDT

    Something is odd, LW, because you do sound like good friends. Could he be married or something? This sounds like it should be going forward on all accounts, not backwards, especially based on his comm more »

  • Posted 04/09/2015 03:58:15 EDT

    Something is odd, LW, because you do sound like good friends. Could he be married or something? This sounds like it should be going forward on all accounts, not backwards, especially based on his comm more »

  • Comment on: Where Do We Stand?

    Posted 04/08/2015 10:05:41 EDT

    Get the "am I going with him thing?" out of the way. Of course you are going with him! You could even say it as a joke, if you are afraid to sound silly bringing it up. Then enjoy the shared adventure more »

  • Posted 04/06/2015 11:40:48 EDT

    Well, she surely will be continuing the self delusion that is a characteristic of practicing alcoholics.  And it can also be her Sex and Love Addicts 9th Step as well. more »

  • Posted 04/06/2015 11:40:45 EDT

    Well, she surely will be continuing the self delusion that is a characteristic of practicing alcoholics.  And it can also be her Sex and Love Addicts 9th Step as well. more »

  • Posted 04/06/2015 11:38:43 EDT

    I wouldn't say "feeling threatened".  I don't regret my real relationships in my 20s and 30s and do regret my affairs.  None of them turned out well, and don't have enough good feeling in them for fon more »

  • Posted 04/06/2015 11:12:45 EDT

    LW, the action that will make your life better is to return the inappropriate gifts.  This boss is surely a few steps ahead in his mind and these steps make you a home wrecking skank, not a "confused more »

  • Comment on: She Takes Breaks

    Posted 04/03/2015 11:14:45 EDT

    Sounds like she wants to be the one to control the relationship.  Partnership seems like a state of being with which she has some trouble.  I'd be very firm about your vision.  If she truly wants to b more »

  • Posted 03/13/2015 09:49:58 EDT

    Dear LW, this certainly is an issue worthy of a kind response. Sounds like Nick has some serious ethics issues, and may not have the moral fiber you desire, so dropping him sounded wise. Derek on the more »

  • Posted 03/12/2015 11:41:29 EDT

    Listen up, LW & posters! Our team won the World Series last year, so I know of what I speak. Yes, here in California we use affirmations and prayers, and they do work! The trick is ya gotta want it! A more »

  • Posted 03/11/2015 10:09:17 EDT

    Your description of your friendship, LW, seemed a bit cozy. It's your life and close friends are great, but your main and best friend is your mate. After all that's who you spend your sleeping hours w more »

  • Posted 03/10/2015 10:02:53 EDT

    Hey LW, you are probably both in fear a bit. I would work on how you feel for at least a good sit-down with yourself. This may impact your finances, career etc. as well. He may just fear having to wor more »

  • Posted 03/09/2015 04:00:58 EDT

    I do believe it! It works on sunny days out here. And it works on relationships. I just hadn't tried this one yet, and am feeling dumb in not thinking of it until now. The LW is reminding me to do thi more »

  • Posted 03/09/2015 11:38:42 EDT

    California answer here. Pray for a monogamous relationship--do it as an affirmation--"I have a great monogamous relationship". Then either the guy will realize what a dork he sounds like or a new grea more »

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