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Posted 04/18/2014 10:04:48 EDT
Trying to read comments on a mobile phone is even worse than the desktop experience! I wouldn't have thought this possible!! Comments are disappearing, what I type just all disappeared spontaneously.. more »
Posted 04/18/2014 10:01:33 EDT
Question! Question, not suggestion. Ugh. more »
Posted 04/18/2014 10:00:58 EDT
"My question: Why would someone do this?" I don't think this is really what you want answered. I think your suggestion is, why are you still answering the phone and reading his texts if you are doing more »
Posted 04/15/2014 11:12:40 EDT
The only way I could get to the Love Letter was by going to Meredith's twitter feed and clicking on the link there. Going to boston.com and clicking on Lifestyle, or clicking on the Love Letters link, more »
Posted 04/09/2014 09:42:33 EDT
"I've never wanted anything more in my life than a half hour alone with this guy." I guess I'm wondering what your ideal, best-case scenario is - you and he would both remain married to other people a more »
Posted 04/03/2014 10:13:10 EDT
This thread was easier to follow than the letter.
Posted 04/02/2014 11:01:01 EDT
YES. I totally disagree with Meredith's advice today, and agree with Sandwich. Walk away. Though frankly, I see the child as not so much the problem but *another* problem - with the first problem more »
Posted 03/28/2014 10:21:52 EDT
This is what worried me. Suppose you were already on board with the idea of having kids. Then you try for a year, and it's not happening - either because of you or him or both - and you go to more and more »
Posted 03/27/2014 09:54:35 EDT
"His job keeps him away often, and those times he did come home, he insisted we go for coffee to catch up on our lives -- but I always declined regretfully." Because...reality is so much uglier than more »
Posted 03/26/2014 10:30:46 EDT
This whole thread is more interesting than the letter, and I don't care that I'm spilling my beans to a bunch of people I don't know.
Posted 03/21/2014 09:31:26 EDT
I'm not convinced that revenge porn is worse than other types, although certainly it is for the person unknowingly featured in it. But the part of your letter that got me was that your husband watches more »
Posted 03/19/2014 09:31:12 EDT
Um, yeah - I'm an introverted woman in that age range, and I've initiated the first kiss a couple of times. IT'S NOT THAT HARD. Find a way to get the third date to end somewhat privately - maybe car p more »
Posted 03/13/2014 09:57:38 EDT
Please seek out some therapy for yourself - it doesn't sound as if your husband has said anything to indicate he is remembering other women when he is with you, and it sounds like you are the one who more »
Posted 03/12/2014 09:43:34 EDT
In mathematical terms: Being single and happy > Being in a relationship and unhappy and not the other way around. Also, I'd say that being single and unhappy is still > being in a relationship and unh more »
Posted 03/12/2014 09:21:54 EDT
Right now you miss having someone around, and that's preventing you from seeing things clearly. There was nothing in your letter to indicate that you'd discussed the cheating with your boyfriend and w more »
Posted 03/11/2014 09:42:33 EDT
Not to diminish Meredith's work, but I wonder how many of these letters could be answered, without being read, with "Talk to him/her." You know how to tell when you're in a good relationship? When y more »
Posted 03/03/2014 09:49:19 EST
wow, it is totally impossible to comment on my smartphone without everything going screwy.
Posted 03/03/2014 09:48:17 EST
"I will have to move in with her"
if you "have" to move in with anyone, that probably means you don't want to. Leave her alone.
Posted 02/26/2014 10:17:59 EST
Both of you are spending too much time on dating websites to be dating each other.
Posted 02/06/2014 09:15:19 EST
You're trying to convince yourself that you just have to get used to the occasional silences and dead zone, because the (few) times that he talks are worth it. Hey, I dated someone like this, too. Luc more »
Posted 01/28/2014 09:50:30 EST
It's not unreasonable to want to live your life as you want it to be without putting it off any longer. However, it is unreasonable to want a big ring (or maybe any kind of ring, depending on your fin more »
Posted 01/23/2014 09:49:21 EST
In my mind, the brother calling this guy a player is canceled out by the brother giving the guy your number in the first place. The part that makes me suspicious is the guy saying he "wasn't comforta more »
Posted 01/21/2014 10:11:26 EST
How do we read the full text of Meredith's link to the love story? I'm dying to know if it's about SmashAtoms and Gracelan! At the very least, it's got to be more interesting than today's letter, thou more »
Posted 01/14/2014 10:05:20 EST
I'm confused. Does your husband want to stay in the marriage? (If so, why???) Is he willing to work on the marriage and improve things? If the answers to both are yes, then, yeah, maybe this can be wo more »
Posted 01/14/2014 09:56:04 EST
Oh man...now I'm worried that if you divorce because he wants the divorce, he's going to ask for spousal support. In Massachusetts, you generally have to be married for ten years to be able to ask for more »