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About Me: Work in Boston, Live in Worcester. Yeah, I know it's a long commute.
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Comment on: After a loss, she's pushing me away - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
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Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ... - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
If that is what happened, the mature thing for man #2 would have been to just walk away.
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Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ... - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Kids catch on faster than you think
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Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ... - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
"Being a highly-selective, unusual person myself" Well, LW. You are unusual, and you seem to be selecting men who are long distance away and not likely to be good candidates in the long run. I assum more »
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Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ... - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I agree that the child appears to be an afterthought here. Time to focus on the kid and get away from both of the men.
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Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ... - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I agree that the real issue here is whether or not you want to be with #2. I don't think people change all that much, and having tension in the house isn't good for children either. Time to split up more »
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Comment on: She's 'pulling herself together' - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
"What is the purpose of leading someone on when you know you don't want to see them again?"
It's nice to be wanted by someone. But that's not the same as being with someone.
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
you never know. He might love it.
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
The British would have countered with super giant British Blue cats
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Wow, I had another Success !!! This blog just keeps on giving and giving!
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I am not sure about the friendship part. I have a good friend who is an ex lover. Unusual, yes, but it is possible. Of course, it was necessary that we both had moved on in relationships.
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Dear Letter Writer: Call him and say: "If only I could tell you...., If only I could tell you....," and then hang up. When he calls back, tell him how irritated you are by this call. The next day more »
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
You are absolutely gorgeous, Just-Another-Bostonian, but I am not going to talk to you anymore.
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I find these "success" pop-ups irritating.
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Ah yes, the last word.
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
This was for an associate degree
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Earthquake monitor
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
She probably finds him irritating as well
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I agree. Friendship requires communication. Bet she doesn't have a real boyfriend either.
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Given their lack of communication, I would hardly call them friends.
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Comment on: He's asking what-ifs - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I find this LW very irritating. There is little or no emotion in the letter and I suspect that she has little emotion for the guy. LW, you need to tell him to stop wasting his time.
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Comment on: It fell apart after four months - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
If she did, she wouldn't have wanted to do it again
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Comment on: It fell apart after four months - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I wondered about that also... going through an old black book....
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Comment on: It fell apart after four months - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
As the Rolling Stones once sang in Indian Girl:
"Lesson number one that you learn while you're young
Life just goes on and on getting harder and harder"
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Comment on: It fell apart after four months - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
When I was going through a divorce my lawyer suggested that I NOT communicate with the ex. My guess is that he was trying to make the wife jealous with his new girlfriend, and we don't have enough i more »
Go ahead and give her the space she needs and wants. But realize that this may also be the end of the relationship.