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MALE, Worcester

About Me: Work in Boston, Live in Worcester. Yeah, I know it's a long commute.

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  • Posted 05/21/2015 11:12:42 EDT

    Look. The guys hasn't found anyone in 12 years. He's desperate and at least she is cooperative.

  • Posted 05/21/2015 11:07:00 EDT

    There is always the gay card.

  • Posted 05/21/2015 10:57:52 EDT

    Wow. Nice writing. Had a lot of time to kill?

  • Posted 05/21/2015 10:50:40 EDT

    Dear Tired of Waiting
    I just don't think that there is anyone out there who will meet your lofty standards and be worthy of you. Alas, your perfection has condemned you to a lonely life.

  • Posted 05/12/2015 01:30:32 EDT

    Will you marry me?

  • Posted 05/12/2015 01:27:49 EDT

    Doing it right will take longer and he may like that.

  • Posted 05/12/2015 01:27:47 EDT

    Doing it right will take longer and he may like that.

  • Comment on: She Wants More Sex

    Posted 05/05/2015 01:13:58 EDT

    Someone prefers fresh over stale?

  • Comment on: She Wants More Sex

    Posted 05/05/2015 01:13:56 EDT

    Someone prefers fresh over stale?

  • Comment on: He Wants To Visit

    Posted 05/04/2015 08:44:59 EDT

    Why see him? You need to understand this relationship is over, and seeing him will only feed your delusions.

  • Posted 04/14/2015 02:05:42 EDT

    asking for two years and still haven't figured it out?

  • Posted 03/18/2015 11:23:44 EDT

    Ok, so you "dated" a married man (but he said you were just friends even though you met on a dating site) and did the thing with him. By now you should realize this is going nowhere.

  • Posted 01/22/2015 10:02:46 EST

    It's the fault of the people who deflated the balls.

  • Posted 01/21/2015 11:05:02 EST

    That was his FIRST daughter. What about the others?

  • Posted 01/21/2015 10:54:59 EST

    Would he believe her if she denied it?

  • Posted 01/21/2015 09:59:31 EST

    I had a friend whose parents stayed together just for the sake of the kid (my friend). It did a real number on him and it took a lot of counseling for him to come to terms with it.

  • Posted 01/21/2015 09:56:21 EST

    He wants to date Elizabeth?

  • Posted 01/21/2015 09:49:32 EST

    He imposed that sentence on all of his family

  • Posted 01/21/2015 09:41:47 EST

    I agree that the wife gets some credit here. I feel sorry for her.

  • Posted 01/21/2015 09:41:06 EST

    Dear Scared and Confused: Newsflash! Your pride is not some independent force which allows you (or doesn't allow you) to do things. At your age you should have a bit more control over your own petty p more »

  • Posted 01/21/2015 09:05:29 EST

    I wondered about that as well. more »

  • Posted 01/21/2015 08:57:50 EST

    At this point, it doesn't really matter if she had the affair. You are not attracted to her and you are not happy in the marriage. Get out of the marriage without brining up ancient history which migh more »

  • Posted 01/12/2015 03:15:35 EST

    Well, the Globe appointed her, and that's enough to write a column more »

  • Posted 01/12/2015 09:24:11 EST

    Just explain to your family that this is nothing serious, it's only because the sex is great. more »

  • Posted 01/12/2015 09:18:08 EST

    I agree that the problem is your family's expectations, and it's your job to manage that. I am surprised that you've not introduced a good number of guys since I assume you have been dating for years. more »