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  • Posted 12/26/2013 09:32:10 EST

    Also, don't force religion on people. It's a touchy subject for many.

  • Posted 12/26/2013 09:31:07 EST

      Move along, nothing to see here. LW, I had a HS/college sweetheart that I dated for 5 years, (the entire time he was in college at Penn State) and when he graduated he came home. It was then we had more »

  • Posted 12/11/2013 10:44:06 EST

    For some reason the image of Regina George from "Mean Girls" popped into my head when I read this letter. Minus the chest.

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  • Posted 12/11/2013 10:41:42 EST


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  • Posted 12/11/2013 10:41:04 EST

    "I hold grudges and don't forgive. I need this to be the exception. Because we are so great and this seems petty. But I am scared." You should be afraid. You sound like a spoiled brat with a cold hear more »

  • Posted 12/11/2013 10:34:30 EST

    And why are you so quick to end a marriage? Have you tried talking to him about this calmly and not yelling at the guy? I had a former manager give me some advice years ago, "it's not always what you more »

  • Posted 12/11/2013 10:30:30 EST

    "We have what people wish they had (sorry, sounds horrible)"

    ---How is this relevant in the letter other than bragging?

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  • Posted 10/31/2013 09:37:06 EDT

    I'm tired like everyone else, so this may come off as mean. But- why would you WANT to stay with someone like that? If your gut tells you to go, go. I think you need to talk to someone who can help yo more »

  • Comment on: He's not my type

    Posted 07/16/2013 09:39:19 EDT

    If you're not into him or doubting yourself while dating him, please just let him go. He sounds like a good guy and you owe him that much. Stop stringing him along and let him go, gently. The no chemi more »

  • Posted 07/10/2013 09:43:52 EDT

    Trust me, the kids always know. Keep going to therapy for now but also talk to a lawyer, because it sounds like it's not healthy for anyone to stay in this marriage anymore. Also, please try to have h more »

  • Posted 06/18/2013 09:45:11 EDT

    She wanted to justify leaving her ex and you were it, unfortunately. Clearly she wasn't *quite* ready to leave him and is still pining away for him. Time for you to pick yourself up and leave before y more »

  • Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ...

    Posted 06/11/2013 10:53:15 EDT

    How could she even THINK about staying with man #2?

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  • Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ...

    Posted 06/11/2013 10:49:20 EDT

    I wonder how the baby daddy would feel knowing that she brought his kid around these nutjob(s)? She never did say if the kid spent time with guy #1? I had a hard time keeping #1 & #2 straight as half more »

  • Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ...

    Posted 06/11/2013 10:22:54 EDT

    Also, I'm going to throw the therapy card here. I'm going to guess you have some past issues with men that you need to work out. I don't want to be quick to judge "daddy issues", but maybe I'm correct more »

  • Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ...

    Posted 06/11/2013 10:21:34 EDT

    Thank you, Goldie. We could all use a happy kitten every now and then.

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  • Comment on: Man 1 or Man 2 ...

    Posted 06/11/2013 09:27:16 EDT

    Neither. Dump both, and work on finding someone more stable for you and for the sake of your child.

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  • Posted 05/24/2013 11:02:33 EDT

    A drunken kiss in a bathroom isn't a big deal, the bigger deal is your marriage. Stop focusing on this one (small) event and concentrate on your marriage. If you need to confide in someone, confide in more »

  • Posted 05/22/2013 09:18:52 EDT

    Embrace your big move to DC and look at it as a new chapter in your life - without this guy.

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  • Posted 04/05/2013 09:38:44 EDT

    What about a site like air b and b or couchsurfing? I've never done either but it's all about doing it on the cheap, right? 

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  • Posted 04/05/2013 08:59:13 EDT

    Clearly he's coming here with expectations and you need to tell him beforehand what is/isn't going to happen. Have the air mattress ready, but please please make sure you lay down the "ground rules" b more »

  • Comment on: Am I too doting?

    Posted 03/25/2013 09:21:19 EDT

    It sounded like it he enjoyed being on a pedestal, so to speak. He saw how kind and gracious you were and took complete advantage of you. Next time back off on the gifts, dinners, etc. Also, if you se more »

  • Posted 01/30/2013 09:51:01 EST

    If you have this many questions, it sounds like you're really doubting whether or not you can stay in this relationship. With that being said, you need to make a decision on what your next move is goi more »

  • Posted 01/25/2013 09:32:36 EST

    Wow, you've got a lot going on in that brain of yours and I think the hormones are bringing it all to the surface. I know you're pregnant but have you always been this insecure? It sounds like you hav more »

  • Posted 01/24/2013 09:40:08 EST

    You're clearly not happy in your marriage and it seems like he's not willing to put the work in, or go to counseling so perhaps it's time to end the marriage? Or take a big step back and really see wh more »

  • Posted 01/17/2013 09:49:28 EST

    Join a running club, take a cooking class, whatever interests you. If you're tired of the online dating scene you can try to meet people the old fashioned way. Just don't hide at home hoping that a ma more »

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