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Comment on: He has to live in LA - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
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Comment on: Dating seems gross right now - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Yep -- I like this. Don't pressure yourself; you've been through a lot, and some healing needs to take place. Sure, exercise and a good therapist...yoga might be a good alternative, too. But give i more »
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Comment on: Friday(ish) roundup: That Was the Week That Was Edition - Miss Conduct - Boston.com
I didn't know about what happened until Friday morning, when my clock radio was announcing that the MBTA was closed down. I turned on the TV, and got more information about what happened the night be more »
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Comment on: Should I miss him more? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Sounds like he's ready for a serious (potentially married) kind of relationship, and as much as you love him, I'm not sure you're at that point (at least with him). I think you've got some instincts more »
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Comment on: He's friends with an ex - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
That's what I was thinking, two cent...good call. I get an uneasy feeling about this guy, and about her willingness to go along with it...
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Comment on: Sick of the roller coaster - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I think the LW now has some pretty clear information about the character of this person...my queestion: does he really want to be around someone who can treat another person this way? She broke up w more »
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Comment on: I think he's dating a gold digger - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Yep...the guy seems pretty vulnerable; sounds like he hasn't come to grips yet with his wife's passing. Poor guy. As far as this situation is concerned, I think Meredith is on to something - ask que more »
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Comment on: Did I come on too strong? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Yep...that's what caught my eye. Not so much the couch; but the letter. Lesson: If ya have a strong emotional reaction to a situation, and you need to get some of that off your chest, then yes, *wr more »
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Comment on: Engaged ... but I still have a crush - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
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Comment on: Engaged ... but I still have a crush - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Well, i'd like to think that this is just a reaction to the reality of what marriage is - a committment, supposedly for the rest of your lives, to just one other person. The closer that seems, someti more »
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Comment on: My ex is coming for a visit - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Well, this is what can happen when there's so much passivity in the relationship. Life lesson learned. Yes, he shoulda consulted you on the specifics of his trip, but it sounds like he feels that y more »
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Comment on: What's wrong with this picture? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Well, fake or not, I do think therapy would be helpful. The LW doesn't seem to be able to clearly say what is bothering her -- and therapy could help her with that. When LW gains clarity, a talk can more »
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Forum Post: SEP IRA
In response to MASocietyofCPAs' comment: In response to Maldenlady's comment: [ My boss started an IRA for me. I'm not sure how to report that on my 1040. I'm just putting that money directly into t more »
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Forum Post: SEP IRA
My boss started an IRA for me. I'm not sure how to report that on my 1040. I'm just putting that money directly into the IRA "for the benefit of Maldenlady". No distribution involved. Do I put thi more »
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Comment on: Dealing with parental pressure - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I was kinda thinking this, too...but more from a two-years-and-no-engagement angle; not necessarily a "Yikes! She's not married yet - oh the horror" point of view. Then I remembered my older sister' more »
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Comment on: I haven't met his kids - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
It's been five months. You've already introduced him to friends/family. His divorce may have been five years ago, but it may still be smarting - especially if there are children involved (from the f more »
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Comment on: When will he propose? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Oh, boy...you've talked about children, and he seems on board with the idea of marriage and children, but have you really talked about exactly what kind of marriage you both want to have? How much in more »
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Comment on: I want to send one last email - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Much safer than playing with email! I've heard stories of unfortunate occurances as a result of write-the-email-and-delete attempts. One story I heard was about a guy who was about to be fired...and more »
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Comment on: She doesn't want me to be friends with my ex - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Yep...I was wondering if Ashley was picking up on something, maybe the LW isn't conscious of the vibes she's putting out where it comes to Jackie. I think Meredith picked up on something else importa more »
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Comment on: I fell for my friend's brother - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Should we, like, call an ambulance or something for the Kaptain? He doesn't look so good...
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Comment on: I have a soul mate - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I can't believe I did that!!
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Comment on: I have a soul mate - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
This whole "sole mates" thing can lead to big problems...As far as J is concerned, I think it's time to do a lot of talking...about being at a geographical distance; about seeing other people; about b more »
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Comment on: He disappeared - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I keep coming back to the fact that he asked you to meet his parents, but you had "other plans" for the time he suggested. I wonder if he interpreted that to mean that, despite your availability at o more »
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Comment on: I read his texts - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Classic example of what can happen if ya snoop! Look, use those talents and become a private investigator or a police woman. As far as your current relationship is concerned, I'd say come clean. Th more »
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Comment on: Still thinking about a jerk - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Yep...look at what you actually know about this guy, from his behavior. And i think one way of taking some responsibility for your actions here, is the acknowledge them, and move on. Changing phone more »
Well, it looks like your choices are: 1) acclaimate to the West Coast (if you're throwing out the 5-10 time line, that's possible); 2) both of you move back East (you'd be closer to your family, Ma more »