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  • Posted 06/29/2015 11:32:10 EDT

    She's being demanding. What's he's doing is not outlandish. It's OK for two people not to be together all the time to have a good relationship. She should take a few classes or do something constructi more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 11:30:14 EDT

    How is it being a doormat to accept that he's got interests that keep him pretty busy? more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 11:28:59 EDT

    Even kickball-cornhole leagues can be good. It's regular exercise and a sense of community. Plus, he likes it. It's good for him. Why try to take it away from him? more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 11:27:49 EDT

    Exactly... more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 11:27:15 EDT

    Don't agree. Why should he have to give up guys' nights entirely? Unreasonable. If he is in team sports, you have to be at games and practice. It's a sign he does make commitments. She sounds codepend more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 11:25:57 EDT

    I think he just has activities he likes and wants to keep them. Sports stuff has a regimented schedule and if you're on a team the team is depending on you, so... if the games are on certain nights, t more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 11:23:07 EDT

    Agree. Mistake to bring this up as a problem. He enjoys these nights. Maybe she should develop interests of her own on those nights and she won't miss him so much. BCAE has great classes in fun stuff more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 11:20:48 EDT

    Is this about missing him or keeping score/count of how much time you have vs. them. Rather than complaining and turning something he enjoys into a "problem" you might take another tack: Find positive more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 04:56:27 EDT

    He was rude. How old is he?

    A mature person leaves the party early for his previous commitment.

    To just totally forget about someone? He's either immature and rude or a candidate for AA. more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 01:05:31 EDT

    No----most people would be angry that someone made a commitment to meet and then never called. Note all the comments. He's rude. If she's a psycho its for second-guessing herself and asking if she ove more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 01:02:54 EDT

    If she was important, he would have said upon arrival, I need to leave at such o'clock because I have a commitment... He didn't, lost track of time and there you go. She's not that important to him. O more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 01:01:38 EDT

    No---rude is rude. This would be unbearably rude if it happened between friends. The behavior shows utter lack of respect. more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 01:00:44 EDT

    Self esteem issues. She is seriously considering whether she overreacted or not or whether she should talk to him again. She is wondering: did I overreact? No honey, you did not overreact. Move along more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 12:58:28 EDT

    No, he's probably gone through a number of women in that time and found that some will take his crap but eventually most won't. Someone probably dumped him again and he thought of who might be worth c more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 12:55:05 EDT

    ^^ This more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 12:54:47 EDT

    ^^This

    LW should not apologize for her tone or have anything else to do with this oaf (my mother's era vocabulary, but it suits him). Don't second guess yourself. Just move on. more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 12:52:19 EDT

    Calling him a flake is kind. He's rude and inconsiderate and doesn't honor commitments. If she was important to him, he would have remembered the commitment and called. This says he doestn't respect h more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 12:49:18 EDT

    What he did shows no respect, no manners, no consideration of your feelings or respect for your time.... So immature and rude. Would you accept this from a regular friend? If you make plans with someo more »

  • Posted 06/22/2015 12:44:56 EDT

    Disrespectful for anyone to ogle others while on a date with someone. Everyone notices attractive people but there's noticing and there's noticing. Men who make a big deal about a hottie walking throu more »

  • Posted 06/22/2015 12:36:14 EDT

    Exactly! Why is he so sure he's going to get dumped? more »

  • Posted 06/03/2015 06:06:04 EDT

    I think she is jumping the gun. Too soon. He may turn out to be not such a great guy after a few more months. One month is still best behavior territory. more »

  • Posted 06/03/2015 06:05:06 EDT

    One month isn't a long time to know someone. more »

  • Posted 05/27/2015 10:01:53 EDT

    He's a deadbeat. That's the issue. more »

  • Posted 05/27/2015 10:00:49 EDT

    Also raises the question: what else doesn't she know about? ...and why does the ex not want anything to do with him? I'm guessing he's hiding a lot more than just the fact he's got a kid that he's not more »

  • Posted 05/27/2015 09:59:50 EDT

    ^^ This more »

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