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  • Posted 03/31/2015 11:12:56 EDT

    Haven't posted a comment in a long time. Thumbs up on the new design. Are commenters from the old group still around? Is Sally still giving us her bon mots? I remember being super excited to meet her more »

  • Posted 07/31/2013 09:18:27 EDT

    Frustrated, do you like being strung along?? That's the only reason I can think of why you would go back to him for a THIRD time. Instead of being disappointed of the relationship not working out,  yo more »

  • Posted 07/24/2013 09:28:52 EDT

    If I knew that my long term boyfriend and I had seriously discussed marriage and the future, then that would definitely impact whether or not a house purchase in the current location (not in Boston) w more »

  • Posted 07/17/2013 09:28:31 EDT

    I was 28 and my boyfriend 37 when we met. We also come from two different cultures. I was a bit concerned about the age difference as well (9 yrs vs. your 8 yrs), but it was clear from the beginning t more »

  • Posted 07/15/2013 09:07:57 EDT

    I'd be curious to hear who initiated couples counseling. Because if it was you, then it seems that you're doing it only to appease your "fiance." I'm totally confused why your last sentence is about h more »

  • Posted 07/11/2013 09:26:12 EDT

    I suspect what you're looking for when you mention "closure" is a detailed explanation of what was going inside Kyle's head and his reasoning for breaking up with you. Trust me, you won't get it. Not more »

  • Posted 03/31/2011 08:51:53 EDT

    LW, I think the guy has too many strikes against him to make it worth your while (both time and mental space) to establish contact again. Don't get sucked in with the drama again because you're at a p more »

  • Posted 03/11/2011 08:10:16 EST

    LW, That first true broken heart is a toughie. It really is. You do need to give yourself time to grieve and bawl your eyes out and feel that tight feeling in your chest. But the really intense grievi more »

  • Posted 03/07/2011 08:41:47 EST

    Yikes - the fact that you're tying your whole future to a man who hasn't given any firm commitment to you while you are in your early 20's - Red Flags all around! If the two of you truly love each oth more »

  • Posted 03/03/2011 08:43:54 EST

    LW, Even if he does eventually say it to you, you might have get used to the fact that he's someone that just doesn't say those words very often. With my boyfriend, I say "I love you" maybe 10-15x a d more »

  • Posted 02/03/2011 08:48:16 EST

    LW, It seems you already know that this guy is bad news for you. But somehow, you get sucked into the "toxic roller coaster" again and again. Solution = you need to make a firm commitment to avoid any more »

  • Posted 01/04/2011 08:20:38 EST

    You're scared of breaking up with her because she has become the Crazy Angry Girlfriend (CAG). You need to break up with her stat. Think of it like a bandaid - the quicker you do it, the better. Don't more »

  • Comment on: Why the rush?

    Posted 12/01/2010 08:20:35 EST

    LW, Awesome that you have a loving boyfriend who is so willing to make a commitment to you. However, I like it that you're not swept up by the romantic fervor of getting engaged to see your relationsh more »

  • Posted 11/23/2010 09:57:12 EST

    I'm of the opinion that a wedding does not necessarily equal commitment, or even a marriage for that matter. What's the statistics on divorces nowadays? I think a good number of people before have com more »

  • Posted 11/17/2010 09:44:43 EST

    Long time lurker, first time poster. LW, I will agree with some of the previous posters and say that you know whether or not this is in line with how he communicates on other important issues: health, more »

  • Posted 02/12/2008 11:01:21 EST

    revengeofswimmah, I'm going to assume that you were just making an inflammatory remark, trying to bait people into getting in an argument with your obviously ignorant and sexist remark. If not, then I more »