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  • Posted 05/16/2015 04:56:58 EDT

    I've been doing the on-line thing for a while... If you're using a pay site (eH, Match) - know that their sites are TOTALLY geared to SOLELY paying members. On eH, they can't see pictures. On Match, t more »

  • Comment on: He Changed

    Posted 05/08/2015 12:34:47 EDT

    I've been there, and it is NOT fun. Your home should be a sanctuary / where you decompress. This PTSD leech has taken that away from her. Where does she go to relax? Her family's or friend's place? more »

  • Comment on: He Changed

    Posted 05/08/2015 12:33:16 EDT

    Totally, Gemini. When I kicked my nutt-job ex-GF out of my house, I had my 6'0", 235# brother here with me. more »

  • Comment on: She Wants More Sex

    Posted 05/05/2015 11:43:22 EDT

    Wow... There have been times I've been tired, and a GF has needed to coerce me to have sex - but I don't think I've ever flat-out said "No." The two of you are NOT compatible... From my experience, yo more »

  • Comment on: I Text My Ex

    Posted 04/27/2015 11:20:53 EDT

    "And if you and your ex have some fantasy of hanging out with your current BF and GF on some big happy double date situation where you all become best of friends and have a great time together, then y more »

  • Posted 04/22/2015 09:41:05 EDT

    Ugh. Not for me. Is she on meds? Is she willing to TAKE meds, to better herself, and make the lows not so low? Is she seeing a counselor for her depression? I've dated a couple of women who either cou more »

  • Posted 04/06/2015 11:54:09 EDT

    Don't let your boss dip his pen in the company ink . Aka, don't -shit where you eat! more »

  • Comment on: Single at 29

    Posted 03/30/2015 11:32:29 EDT

    Agreed. After graduating from undergrad, I had the silly idea that I'd meet someone and be married by age 25, with children shortly thereafter. Did I even have a girlfriend after relocating to MA from more »

  • Posted 03/26/2015 11:21:31 EDT

    Women like this LW make me gag. They are PERFECTLY HAPPY .. but continue to wonder if they can find someone EVEN BETTER!!! Better, how? More attractive? More income? More intelligence? You're young, s more »

  • Posted 03/18/2015 10:49:36 EDT

    Yeah, that was a CLASSIC side-comment! more »

  • Posted 03/18/2015 10:48:43 EDT

    Exactly. LW - get some self respect!!! more »

  • Posted 03/18/2015 10:43:27 EDT

    Agreed. I saw a personal ad I think last Fall, from a woman who was going through a divorce. I clicked "close window" faster than you could bat an eyelash! more »

  • Posted 03/16/2015 11:33:04 EDT

    OMG... I'd have run for the hills. Around the six-month mark, you should have an idea if your partner has long-term possibilities, or not. Her response definitely put her in the N-O-T category! more »

  • Posted 03/13/2015 11:51:34 EDT

    OMG, LW - you're a hot mess. Do you WANT to live the biker-GF life-style??? I'm guessing not. Drop both. more »

  • Posted 03/06/2015 12:19:43 EST

    Agreed, Dan. Surprised the LW hasn't hit yet! more »

  • Posted 03/03/2015 11:05:01 EST

    LW: you are at an impasse. You want him to divorce his wife. He says he isn't in a financial position to do so, so he stopped the process. *I* would have called it quits after going through a holiday more »

  • Posted 03/02/2015 11:34:36 EST

    Uh, from the LW's description, I'm thinking Stephanie was playing tonsil-hockey with another dude. more »

  • Posted 03/02/2015 11:33:28 EST

    Exactly. The LW said they've had three dates. So, I'm guessing they haven't done the horizontal mambo. Unless you've had the "exclusive discussion," in this day and age with Tinder - NEVER make that a more »

  • Comment on: Am I Overthinking?

    Posted 02/23/2015 11:57:21 EST

    OMG... Typical female, ACTIVELY SEARCHING, PROBABLY EVEN PRAYING, to find a reason to bail on a PERFECTLY FINE RELATIONSHIP... Everything is going well - there M-U-S-T be something wrong!!! more »

  • Comment on: He Fears Change

    Posted 02/18/2015 11:49:56 EST

    ash - you beat me to it! I was going to post the same thing! :-) more »

  • Posted 02/17/2015 11:12:27 EST

    "Also his compliments stopped being nice and friendly and started to become more sexual (telling me that the way I look makes his mouth water)." // You know what? His mouth will be watering when he is more »

  • Posted 02/12/2015 07:02:30 EST

    What is the deal with all the suggestions that the LW seek out her friends' friends for dating? That can get old real fast. And what happens if the friends' guy likes the LW, but she doesn't like the more »

  • Posted 02/12/2015 07:01:16 EST

    My ex-GF used to find a water glass, or water bottle, and "sp!t it out!" Like the old Whitesnake song. ;-) more »

  • Posted 02/12/2015 06:54:21 EST

    Totally agree, even from a male's point of view. Can't count the number of first dates I've had over the years, on various sites. Have had a handful of second dates. A few third and beyond dates. Inte more »

  • Posted 02/11/2015 11:29:21 EST

    You two obviously haven't dated many women aged 45-plus. more »