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  • Posted 09/28/2011 09:14:55 EDT

    Proof that the grass isn't always greener.You thought this was going to be a long-lasting passionate love affair, because that's what you built up in your head. Unfortunately, this isn't The Office, a more »

  • Posted 09/08/2011 08:52:17 EDT

    Zeptember wrote: This is a bad way to view the sacrifices you will make throughout your relationship if you do get married and share a life together. You don't make sacrifices to have them "recognized more »

  • Posted 09/08/2011 08:47:21 EDT

    How do you know if he's not already planning on a surprise proposal? Maybe he already has a ring, and he's just waiting to give it to you in some special way? Slow your roll, lady, and chill out. His more »

  • Posted 09/06/2011 09:29:04 EDT

    "We were both immature and wanted attention in any fashion." Sounds like you STILL want attention in any fashion. If your relationship was cruddy in the past and he's in such a good place now, what ma more »

  • Comment on: He won't unpack

    Posted 08/30/2011 10:05:27 EDT

    Lily- wrote: Also StJoe's I'll bet $10 he breaks up with her before she can even move in. _______________ I'll take that bet! We all know that men just crawl back to the women who talk them out of bre more »

  • Comment on: He won't unpack

    Posted 08/30/2011 10:00:33 EDT

    I've got $10 on if LW moves in, 90% of LW's boyfriends stuff ends up in the basement. And then she'll not so lovingly refer to it as his "man-cave" during their weekly fancy martini dinner parties. An more »

  • Comment on: He won't unpack

    Posted 08/30/2011 09:54:34 EDT

    WrongestWay wrote: I think I have a glass sitting on my counter that hasn't been washed for five weeks. I wonder how aggravated the LW would be about that. ____________________ She would have just thr more »

  • Comment on: He won't unpack

    Posted 08/30/2011 09:50:43 EDT

    WrongestWay wrote:
    This guy must be regretting buying this condo.

    I bet he's regretting asking LW to be his girlfriend. I can only imagine what else she complains about. more »

  • Comment on: He won't unpack

    Posted 08/30/2011 09:45:17 EDT

    PowderGirl wrote: Why is she hanging out in his spare bedroom anyway? That's a random place to hang out at somebody's house. She's mentally decorating the entire place, so she gets annoyed when she go more »

  • Comment on: He won't unpack

    Posted 08/30/2011 09:27:43 EDT

    Uh, if he spends all of his money on the furniture, he might not have enough money left to buy you your perfect 3 carat diamond engagement ring for your pretty pretty princess day!!!! Think about it, more »

  • Comment on: He won't unpack

    Posted 08/30/2011 09:20:09 EDT

    I imagine in a few months we'll be getting the "why won't he proposeeeeeee?!!!1!!!?" letter, and then a few months after that the letter wondering why he's mad that she sets up play dates for him. more »

  • Comment on: He won't unpack

    Posted 08/30/2011 09:18:06 EDT

    You need to chillax, man. While maybe someday in the future this might be your place, it's not right now. It's his. He's the one paying the mortgage and has his name attached to a pretty substantial d more »

  • Posted 08/25/2011 09:29:44 EDT

    Twinster wrote:

    I believe that you fall in love with a person, not their gender.

    Read no further. This is a fabulous statement. more »

  • Posted 08/03/2011 09:36:49 EDT

    You said it yourself - her ex is taking your place in the emotional department, and nearly all of your place in the physical department. You aren't just a piece of male genitalia and you deserve more more »

  • Posted 07/21/2011 09:33:57 EDT

    Lack of communication, lack of sex drive, lack of a feel good attitude, not motivated to do anything? Those are all classic symptoms of someone who is suffering from depression. At 23, no, I don't thi more »

  • Posted 07/20/2011 10:02:27 EDT

    Next week's letter from Joe: Dear Mere: I really love my girlfriend, Uptight Snob (US for short). We have a great time together, have the same sense of humor, and I can picture a life together down th more »

  • Posted 07/20/2011 09:17:33 EDT

    You sound like a peach. Your family and friends have no faults, but you can't stand Joe's? Have you considered maybe Joe thinks your friends are stuck up snobs and your family is weird? Maybe Joe like more »

  • Posted 06/27/2011 03:53:36 EDT

    Sorry I'm so late on this, but how old is your niece? If she's younger, I'm an advocate for Boston Children's Hospital. My younger sister saw Dr. R. Michael Scott, their Neurosurgeon-in-Chief, about 3 more »

  • Posted 06/20/2011 11:13:19 EDT

    Next weeks letter from LW's boyfriend: Dear Mere: So, I'm a handsome Latino with a striking jawline and manly chin. I love my family and we speak daily. Usually I'm speaking spanish because it's my pa more »

  • Posted 06/20/2011 10:47:23 EDT

    I don't know about you guys, but I've never met a Spanish speaking family that has exactly one son who doesn't speak the language. I'm calling this LW a liar liar pants on fire. more »

  • Posted 06/20/2011 10:39:46 EDT

    The more I read updates, the more I want to bash my face into a wall. Think your BF's mom will pay for my new nose? I also don't hear anything in any of the updates about the LW taking any responsibil more »

  • Posted 06/20/2011 09:57:35 EDT

    I'd feel grateful if my boyfriend of a year's parents' got me a solitary Christmas gift, let alone take me on a trip with them, which would cost them mucho dinero. This almost feels like a money thing more »

  • Posted 06/08/2011 11:29:05 EDT

    Vampires are supposed to drain the life from women in a symbolically penetrative act of violence, expressing the collective terror of loss of sexual control. They aren't supposed to sparkle. _________ more »

  • Posted 06/08/2011 11:14:47 EDT

    The-Porkchop-Express wrote: I'm penning my LL email right now. Do I, or do I not, file for divorce immediately? I need real advice ----------- Yes, file immediately, move out, change your phone number more »

  • Posted 06/08/2011 10:44:59 EDT

    stjoespirit04 wrote: The-Porkchop-Express wrote: His sock habits, his intense yelling at the TV during all sports games (dude, they CAN'T HEAR YOU! There's no need to yell!), and the fact that it take more »