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  • Comment on: We Stay In Hotels

    Posted 04/24/2015 09:10:34 EDT

    Yes, he's playing games with you. And like you, he lives with someone. But it ain't a roommate. It's a live-in girlfriend, or even a wife. He's keeping you as a piece on the side. Kick him to the curb more »

  • Posted 04/16/2015 10:48:50 EDT

    Him being notified about an STD is possible. Letter Writer, get tested too. more »

  • Posted 04/16/2015 10:36:41 EDT

    Yeah, Jim, it can be a sign. Some major playahs who like it raw but don't like supporting baby mamas make sure kids don't become an issue. A guy old enough to be a grandfather is still capable of beco more »

  • Posted 04/15/2015 09:49:52 EDT

    Agree. He's guilt-tripping her. There's something wrong in this relationship, and that something wrong is him. more »

  • Posted 04/15/2015 09:47:19 EDT

    THIS. Why is his issue her problem? What gives him the right to call her shallow because she's dissatisfied with their sex life. And it's unfair he's using her family to try to pressure her into marry more »

  • Posted 04/14/2015 10:16:31 EDT

    I think she's asked him. Again and again and again. Fooling herself into thinking that if she keeps asking, eventually he will say yes. Not gonna happen. more »

  • Posted 04/13/2015 09:19:08 EDT

    Why are you always putting yourself last? That's the question you need to ask yourself, and do some serious soul searching to answer. It's OK to sometimes -- sometimes -- put others' needs ahead of yo more »

  • Posted 04/10/2015 10:06:00 EDT

    She wants to have her cake AND her beefcake. more »

  • Posted 04/10/2015 10:03:01 EDT

    ^^^ THIS. She's made past threats to leave him. It looks like she means it this time, because she's replacing him with another man. But she still wants to keep the house and the kids and the current f more »

  • Comment on: She Takes Breaks

    Posted 04/03/2015 09:12:57 EDT

    You're not her boyfriend -- you're her b o o t y call. You don't have a relationship -- you have a wreck. She's the one who doesn't 'get it'. You can do better. Time to let her go and get on with your more »

  • Posted 04/02/2015 09:51:05 EDT

    Your friends, who know you well, say you're into the conquest. You don't like the truth, so you've come here to ask a bunch of strangers to ... what ... tell you what you want to hear? What you need t more »

  • Posted 04/01/2015 09:54:01 EDT

    Talk to your doctor. Your case is clearly a combination of physical issues (such as medication) and mental issues (stress).



    The wedding is NOT the issue. It's merely the red flag. more »

  • Comment on: Single at 29

    Posted 03/30/2015 09:10:47 EDT

    I didn't know there was a get-everything-done-by-30 boat. Obviously, I missed that one. more »

  • Posted 03/27/2015 09:47:13 EDT

    MoVa nailed it! more »

  • Posted 03/27/2015 09:28:33 EDT

    He's holding a torch for her. He's still torn about leaving his religion behind. That's two strikes. You don't say anything in your letter about his family. Are they still in the fold, and is he estra more »

  • Comment on: I'm Far Away

    Posted 03/25/2015 09:16:19 EDT

    Bzzz, you do realize there's a "War on Terror" that's been going on since 9/11, don't you? And we have combat troops in Afghanistan. And contrary to popular belief, we're still embroiled in the Bush f more »

  • Comment on: I'm Far Away

    Posted 03/25/2015 09:07:10 EDT

    You claim, "I'm in no way expecting her to totally uproot her life, make this huge sacrifice for me, and abdicate herself from her responsibilities to her family anytime in the near future." Excuse, m more »

  • Comment on: She's Been Distant

    Posted 03/24/2015 11:30:57 EDT

    Ditto. This guy's put her up on some pedestal, but he barely knows her (or so he comes across in his letter). He's been flitting around her for months. Comes off as a bit weird. Not that I'm saying, L more »

  • Posted 03/23/2015 04:50:25 EDT

    I hope she doesn't mean Harvard Law School. more »

  • Posted 03/23/2015 04:47:42 EDT

    She wants to be more than friends - thus she really doesn't want to quit flirting. She came here today hoping we'd tell her it's harmless. I hope she leaves with the message she needs to give up. The more »

  • Posted 03/20/2015 01:15:25 EDT

    Good point Joerilla - the drunk could have fallen on the third rail. more »

  • Posted 03/20/2015 09:42:03 EDT

    Read this part of the letter again, Jim: "I've always dodged questions about earlier boyfriends ..."

    He's asking. more »

  • Posted 03/20/2015 09:30:58 EDT

    He might be asking you because he's kinda sure you gave him your virginity, but he'd like to know for certain it's true. He might be asking you about past boyfriends because you might have been his fi more »

  • Comment on: Not Ready to Date?

    Posted 03/19/2015 09:35:42 EDT

    What's really going on here is you want to divorce your husband. What's triggering you about your friend's situation is her dating -- it's that she already is considering the legal and financial ramif more »

  • Comment on: Not Ready to Date?

    Posted 03/19/2015 09:35:42 EDT

    What's really going on here is you want to divorce your husband. What's triggering you about your friend's situation is her dating -- it's that she already is considering the legal and financial ramif more »

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