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Comment on: He's ignoring me
Posted 08/29/2013 10:19:10 EDT
LW, I have a feeling you did not expect the bashing you are getting but all in all you need to hear it. Your mother and friends aren't being of any help to you and you can't seem to find any logic fo more »
Posted 08/29/2013 10:15:53 EDT
one that doesn't consider her a friend and is there with a girlfriend who happens to be a mutual friend of theirs?
Comment on: He's moving here to be with me
Posted 08/21/2013 01:15:38 EDT
HOLY COW LW! There are red flags you just can't ignore...the 3 divorces aren't so extremely horrible on there own but when you add to it that he just made some major life decisions that affect you a more »
Comment on: He's been texting his ex
Posted 08/19/2013 12:17:56 EDT
Sally, that's part of the point I was making...do you truly believe you would get the truth if asked if you were texting an ex or another man/woman? Heck no, I don't believe it for a second
Posted 08/19/2013 12:15:11 EDT
good point...she should but chances are he would not allow it cuz he's up to no good!
Posted 08/19/2013 12:09:32 EDT
I've read the first few comments and I'm not surprised by everyone roasting the LW but I have to say I think it's unfair. I think if you've got nothing to hide you wouldn't give a hoot if your signif more »
Comment on: How could she let this go?
Posted 08/06/2013 09:51:34 EDT
"I guess my question is: Do you see any hope in her response, or should I just let things go? " you answer your own question "She claims that it was unrelated to the pregnancy and that it merely made more »
Comment on: Choosing between love and Boston
Posted 07/24/2013 01:14:52 EDT
he leaves out how long they have been together...my guess it wasn't an accident...he met a girl who had just bought a house and proposed. I am willing to bet they dated about a month when he proposed more »
Comment on: What's wrong with this picture?
Posted 07/17/2013 10:29:02 EDT
You shouldn't be shocked when somone treats you nice, it's sad you are. BUT..yes there is a but. if you are feeling skeptical of his motives, you touch on the age thing and you mentiong his being pe more »
Comment on: Will he mess up again?
Posted 05/31/2013 12:04:08 EDT
he left you and you moved to another state...how do you get he cheated on you? You don't give much info here about the two of you or your relationshop but we don't really need it to asnwer the questi more »
Comment on: Will he give me another chance?
Posted 05/22/2013 10:12:07 EDT
I forgot to mention, you aren't "in limbo". He told you that you just aren't doing it for him. He let you down pretty easy as a matter of fact so let it go and move on for your sake
Posted 05/22/2013 10:07:32 EDT
Oh my LW...you spent minimal time with this guy and you got all they way to " I think he was the ONE"? When you get to DC, please don't try to get this guy to give you another shot and seek out a the more »
Comment on: He's far away but I don't want to let go
Posted 05/15/2013 10:40:37 EDT
sounds to me this was never anything important. You say you dated back in HS and recently (3 years ago) got together and were intimate. From there you say he told you because you both are so far awa more »
Comment on: He's friends with an ex
Posted 04/24/2013 10:59:17 EDT
isn't that HIS M.O. ? If she dumps him he can have TWO to linger around to screw up his next relationship if she allows herself to like the other one
Posted 04/24/2013 10:53:09 EDT
I don't know what to think of this LW. He has no trust in you and expects you to be 100% open with him and when you ask the same of him he can't do it? That is a huge red flag. If this was a recent more »
Posted 04/04/2013 09:25:54 EDT
LW, you sound young. The fact that you say you can't really identify the problem but then mention he hasn't told you he loves you makes me believe this is your issue. You are comparing yourself to h more »
Comment on: I haven't met his kids
Posted 03/29/2013 11:51:25 EDT
as much as I think he is being a bit over protective of his mostly adult age kids I hate that she is basically being a child herself in her attitude of this..one thing that strikes me other than the u more »
Posted 03/29/2013 10:48:15 EDT
I can understand wanting to hold off for a while but 5 months in and kids that aren't really kids anymore! The kids are 16 to 20! I call foul. I don't see why she can't be invited to gatherings or more »
Comment on: Should I seek intimacy ... elsewhere?
Posted 03/28/2013 11:35:59 EDT
he's a 32 year old DUDE
Posted 03/28/2013 11:34:23 EDT
he refferences an adult movie character to name his girlfriend and their relationship to Bill and Hillary Clintons OMG what a loser
Posted 03/28/2013 11:31:22 EDT
exactly outdoorchick! I believe he is using her for other reasons and that is why he wants to cheat, have his cake and eat it to so to speak. I hate this guy more and more I think about what he wrote
Posted 03/28/2013 11:23:57 EDT
But she's the ultimate life mate. She's been there for me through a number of personal and professional crises. Our views match up on almost everything (kids, money, aspirations, senses of humor) that more »
Comment on: Coping with my wife's depression
Posted 03/22/2013 10:50:23 EDT
if she can sit her butt in front of a computer all day or engross herself in her job, she can be a wife and mother. If she can do those things she is only using depression as an excuse. Junk the com more »
Comment on: I have a soul mate
Posted 03/14/2013 10:59:37 EDT
GOOD LORDS. LW, are you even 20 yet? It sure doesn't sound like it. Just reading you letter...J is this and K is that...J K J K J K made me dizzy! Most all of us believe in soul mates and destiny more »
Comment on: His family won't meet me
Posted 03/08/2013 11:12:54 EST
LW, I think his family doesn't want to meet you for serveral reasons...You are ten years older than thier son, you are divorced, you have kids and I think because of his age and your circumstances the more »
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