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  • Comment on: Catching Him In the Act

    Posted 04/16/2015 10:19:13 EDT

    He will bad mouth me around town? So all the other guys who are just waiting for you to break up so they can swoop and sweep you off your feet will evaporate because you are a SNOOP? Or are you concer more »

  • Comment on: She's Planning An Affair

    Posted 04/10/2015 12:59:25 EDT

    She did you a huge favor by giving you the date and time of her sexventure. When she departs, you call the locksmith, cancel all credit cards and move your money to a seperate account. Then you move h more »

  • Comment on: Not Ready to Date?

    Posted 03/19/2015 09:29:40 EDT

    Your friend is trying to re-coup some self-esteem after being dumped by her husband. That means she will do just about anything to "feel wanted" and will be easily manipulated by men or she will settl more »

  • Comment on: He Was Emotionally Unavailable

    Posted 03/18/2015 11:16:06 EDT

    Call him up and say, "Hey, changed my mind. I want a casual relationship. Whenever you are available, just give me a call and I will try to fit you in." more »

  • Comment on: Breakup Before His Birthday

    Posted 03/17/2015 10:19:53 EDT

    Yeah, all the travails and the question is the punchline. The Billerica factor aside, it was like reading a news report from the Morally Questionable Olympics. more »

  • Comment on: I'm Questioning Everything

    Posted 03/16/2015 09:50:41 EDT

    You remind me of that old bumper sticker: "If you really love someone, let him go. If he doesn't return, HUNT HIM DOWN AND KILL HIM!" more »

  • Comment on: Hooked Up With His Friend

    Posted 03/13/2015 09:19:10 EDT

    I am glad someone out there is having sex. Party on. more »

  • Comment on: My Friend Panics About My Boyfriend's Guns

    Posted 03/11/2015 09:05:34 EDT

    And my best friend is projecting her life experience onto my relationship with my boyfriend. This is a fresh and new dilemma. He is not breaking the law. He has not ever shown himself to be a threat t more »

  • Comment on: Patriots Blew It With Darrelle Revis, Plain and Simple - Obnoxious Boston Fan - Boston.com

    Posted 03/11/2015 08:11:16 EDT

    The problem with this entire column is that it rests on the premise that the Pats just had to match the Jets' offer. Woody Johnson only wins in the off season, and he had to get this win. By upping th more »

  • Comment on: He's Making Plans Without Me

    Posted 03/10/2015 10:37:39 EDT

    A couple things here - stress like this does not build character, it reveals it. LW's boyfriend is treating this like a major trauma and that has become her reality. It would be interesting to see if more »

  • Comment on: He's Making Plans Without Me

    Posted 03/10/2015 09:26:26 EDT

    That one made me wince - really, 10 days, you can put a number on that? more »

  • Comment on: He's Making Plans Without Me

    Posted 03/10/2015 09:22:39 EDT

    When people are put under stress, they are prone to doing things that are not particularly rational. It would not be unusual for him to look for a scapegoat and blame you, not directly, but just decid more »

  • Comment on: I Want a Dominant Woman

    Posted 03/06/2015 11:31:01 EST

    Women are universally rejecting this notion of yours. That is your answer, so why are you writing to us? It is like saying, if I don't shower or brush my teeth the week leading up to a date, the date more »

  • Comment on: He Doesn't Check In

    Posted 03/05/2015 09:26:08 EST

    Here we go again - the girlfriends are telling you, "Hey, you should not stand for that! He should be touching base a) hourly, b) at mealtimes, c) twice a day d) daily! BUT NOT EVERY THREE DAYS." If y more »

  • Comment on: I'm Done After a Few Months

    Posted 03/04/2015 02:08:28 EST

    I can check getting Goldie to say "YES" off my bucket list. more »

  • Comment on: How far does Red Sox’ reach go in Major League Baseball?

    Posted 03/04/2015 12:02:58 EST

    This is meaningless. There is no benchmark for comparison. Further, these are the loosest possible standards to qualify as a Red Sox. Red Sox product Lester, yes, but Crisp, no, Gonzalez no. Somebody more »

  • Comment on: I'm Done After a Few Months

    Posted 03/04/2015 10:47:39 EST

    Curious statement, because it was in the '60's and '70's the divorce laws got more liberal and half of those 1950 marriages ended. They may not have trouble finding husbands, but they sure didn't want more »

  • Comment on: I'm Done After a Few Months

    Posted 03/04/2015 10:17:21 EST

    Mid-20's, dating regularly, not finding anyone you want to settle down with. And the problem is: your friends tell you that you are not giving it enough time, your friends say you are becoming a man e more »

  • Comment on: Is He Avoiding Conflict or Did We Break Up?

    Posted 03/03/2015 09:55:39 EST

    YOU PLAY TO WIN THE GAME! Your victory is having him all to yourself - moved in, married or not. His victory is keeping things the way they are. Nobody is winning this one because you don't share the more »

  • Comment on: I Saw Her With Some Guy

    Posted 03/02/2015 09:15:56 EST

    Are you sure you are 34? more »

  • Comment on: He Disappeared

    Posted 02/20/2015 09:37:34 EST

    This letter is chalk full of distractions - we talked until we got too cold. He ran errands with me (to buy condoms, perhaps?). He canceled a date because his pet was sick. Sent him the code word for more »

  • Comment on: Autism and Marriage

    Posted 02/19/2015 09:03:36 EST

    I could write volumes about what I do NOT know about autism. So my only thought is, "how did you not see this when you were dating?" So setting aside the autism, I can only conclude you bought into th more »

  • Comment on: Cole Hamels Open to Being Traded, Would Be ‘All Ears’ in Considering Red Sox

    Posted 02/19/2015 08:02:58 EST

    The Red Sox should be shopping for a starter with the Nationals. They have a surplus of starters and they need veteran bats because they are all in for the play-offs this year. Play-off proven, vetera more »

  • Comment on: He Fears Change

    Posted 02/18/2015 09:34:51 EST

    Permission to break up granted. Yes, you made that huge commitment of moving 1,200 miles from home to be together, but that does not make a relationship. Be more afraid of spending your life wishing h more »

  • Comment on: He Has a Girlfriend

    Posted 02/17/2015 09:18:59 EST

    I would think the following would make him wholly unattractive to you: 1) He is hitting on you while he has a girlfriend 2) He says sexually provocative things in the work place 3) He is currently lyi more »