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Comment on: Married and thinking about the woman from the bar
Posted 09/03/2015 09:20:52 EDT
want a second opinion on what you're doing? Go talk to your father-in-law. Ask him his thoughts on what you should do next.
Comment on: How nice should I be?
Posted 08/21/2015 09:28:48 EDT
Can we assume the LW was not involved with him while he was still married? That would change the dynamics.
Comment on: Reading into a Facebook 'like'?
Posted 08/20/2015 08:47:51 EDT
Ack, you can't go forward looking in the rearview mirror. Don't do it.
Comment on: He reached out on LinkedIn
Posted 08/18/2015 10:56:32 EDT
yeah, I've friended exes on social media, I look at their profile for a minute, smile to myself for whatever it is we had at the time we had it, and then I move on to the next thing I was doing. It's more »
Comment on: Waiting for chemistry
Posted 08/13/2015 09:15:22 EDT
at 50 something Jane may not be feeling chemistry for anyone...I suggest she seek medical advice, it may be a hormone thing. more »
Comment on: My ex keeps emailing
Posted 08/12/2015 09:44:19 EDT
Do you tell your BF about other junk mail? Why do you even open it? Select block sender and move on. more »
Comment on: I want to hang out with my husband
Posted 08/07/2015 08:27:57 EDT
LW, if you'd like to go hiking, grab your backpack and go. It sounds like you have a baby at home and maybe a toddler, so either load them up to go with you, or make arrangements for child care. You d more »
Comment on: He's different with his friends
Posted 07/16/2015 09:27:16 EDT
she loves the idea of who she wants him to be. more »
Comment on: She hid her profile
Posted 07/15/2015 09:16:13 EDT
Send the second note. Nothing wrong with politely persistent. She may have had a couple dates with someone promising and turned her profile off. If that didn't work out, you could be next in line. But more »
Comment on: I'm The Backup Plan
Posted 07/13/2015 12:31:53 EDT
Craig's list of course more »
Posted 07/13/2015 09:15:56 EDT
Stop playing the victim here. A guy can't use you without your permission. more »
Comment on: Is She Into Me?
Posted 07/10/2015 09:21:51 EDT
I'm sorry we don't allow solid advice here. more »
Comment on: Red Sox rally to 4-3 win over Marlins
Posted 07/08/2015 10:18:01 EDT
He was getting called for it as an illegal pitch in the minors. http://m.mlb.com/video/topic/21753540/v73287783/miaatl-capps-hopstep-delivery-analyzed more »
Comment on: Boyfriend Or Baby
Posted 07/08/2015 09:31:24 EDT
if he is wishy washy in his desire to have a baby with you, what's going to happen when you don't get pregnant. Is he going to support you as you seek out infertility treatments? Miscarriages? Genetic more »
Comment on: How Patient Should I Be?
Posted 07/07/2015 09:01:36 EDT
Honey it's not all about him, and you waiting for him, and giving him a pass for his behavior. You don't like listening to his ex GF stories and for a good reason. Let him know what you need and don't more »
Comment on: Getting Back Out There
Posted 07/06/2015 09:34:36 EDT
and why would she know or care? She probably still talks about him on dates... more »
Comment on: My Boyfriend's Bad Attitude
Posted 07/01/2015 09:13:47 EDT
the old BF never comes back. The old one was a tale you made up about who you wished he where. What you see is what you get! more »
Posted 07/01/2015 09:11:57 EDT
What is confusing? You are not having fun. Stop calling this love. Love is much nicer. more »
Comment on: We Only See Each Other On 'Date Nights'
Posted 06/29/2015 09:12:29 EDT
Your relationship seems like a lot of work, did you know things don't have to be like that? Going to a family event solo so he can drink with his buds speaks volumes about his commitment to a partners more »
Comment on: Is Our 'Insane' Sex Life Normal?
Posted 06/26/2015 11:41:51 EDT
I wonder if the letter writer is he or she? more »
Comment on: He Doesn't Set Boundaries
Posted 06/22/2015 09:10:25 EDT
this is your idea of a great guy? more »
Comment on: Should I Move 2,000 Miles Away For Him?
Posted 06/09/2015 10:00:49 EDT
she's cheaper than a visiting nurse? more »
Posted 06/09/2015 09:59:53 EDT
Dear LW, you already know the answer, but you are afraid of what other people will think. Do what makes you feel comfortable. Remember you don't have to do a thing, don't let him or anyone else pressu more »
Comment on: He Planned A Trip Without Telling Me
Posted 06/04/2015 09:53:15 EDT
what does the ring have to do with the trip anyway? more »
Posted 06/04/2015 09:49:23 EDT
just because she talks a lot does not make her good at communicating more »
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