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About Me: Living the dream. Walking the walk. Wait, where am I? I'm funny. I'm lame.

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  • Comment on: Should She Ask Him Out Again?

    Posted 05/11/2015 01:29:28 EDT

    I don't know. My brother is 36 and I see him being single into his 40s, if he ever does get with anybody. He's not gay (but he also doesn't send out Xmas cards). He's mostly just lazy and is only attr more »

  • Comment on: Should She Ask Him Out Again?

    Posted 05/11/2015 01:12:03 EDT

    Most people are not skeptical enough about separated people. And they should be. more »

  • Comment on: He Changed

    Posted 05/08/2015 12:55:05 EDT

    Yes to YS....the real question from the LW, is how do I safely get this guy out of my house? I don't think he'll go easy. more »

  • Comment on: Two Guys = One Good Relationship?

    Posted 05/06/2015 12:39:21 EDT

    It only took me 35 years to figure this out. more »

  • Comment on: When will Mass. make it illegal to sic a SWAT team on a stranger?

    Posted 05/06/2015 12:32:11 EDT

    Only in the US would you have the inclination to do this...where other country's folks are fighting for their lives, to have enough food, we have morons wasting valuable resources and potentially putt more »

  • Comment on: When will Mass. make it illegal to sic a SWAT team on a stranger?

    Posted 05/06/2015 12:32:10 EDT

    Only in the US would you have the inclination to do this...where other country's folks are fighting for their lives, to have enough food, we have morons wasting valuable resources and potentially putt more »

  • Comment on: They Want Open Relationships

    Posted 05/04/2015 12:48:41 EDT

    My gay friends had met their life partner/now husband by the time they were in their mid-20s. I have no idea how...so I think it depends. That person is out there, who wants what you want! Just take a more »

  • Comment on: He's a Crier

    Posted 04/21/2015 01:43:26 EDT

    Without sleep, the body/mind starts to lose the ability to emotionally regulate. Agree with your advice. She is not living in his world, nor can she understand it. more »

  • Comment on: How I Live on a Burger King Salary

    Posted 04/17/2015 12:20:29 EDT

    People can point out the obvious, which is that fast food work is not a career unless you get to a managerial position and maybe not even then. So while I can empathize with the man's problems, he obv more »

  • Comment on: He Doesn't Want to Mess Up the Friendship

    Posted 04/16/2015 11:39:30 EDT

    Married. more »

  • Comment on: Catching Him In the Act

    Posted 04/16/2015 11:31:46 EDT

    An STD phone call would probably take more than a minute. It was probably just a wrong number. The only reason she came to her conclusion was the complete lack of trust, so yeah send out the dump truc more »

  • Comment on: I Need to Know Whether He Wants Kids

    Posted 04/15/2015 01:07:05 EDT

    Any guy who watches his 38 year old gf freeze her eggs is the biggest DB I can think of. He might as well be saying, "well, at least she'll get a chance at a kid after I waste her life." I've watched more »

  • Comment on: I Need to Know Whether He Wants Kids

    Posted 04/15/2015 01:04:46 EDT

    Any guy who watches his 38 year old gf freeze her eggs is the biggest DB I can think of. He might as well be saying, "well, at least she'll get a chance at a kid after I waste her life." more »

  • Comment on: Our Sex Life is Lackluster

    Posted 04/15/2015 12:34:01 EDT

    I had questions about this guy being a one hit wonder myself. Doesn't round 2 take longer? And I disagree with your LAST sentence. Sex can get better with time for many. more »

  • Comment on: Preserving Our Sex Life

    Posted 04/13/2015 12:30:20 EDT

    Go out for a hike and do it in the woods; take a class together on tantric massage and listen to Sting the whole time. more »

  • Comment on: Preserving Our Sex Life

    Posted 04/13/2015 12:27:12 EDT

    I keep telling my husband that there must be such a thing as b*ll flicking and he says no. But there is every other filthy disgusting thing out there. There's got to be some masochists that are into i more »

  • Comment on: Freaking Out About Moving In

    Posted 03/26/2015 12:01:06 EDT

    I think she should try imagining living without him. If she doesn't shudder at it, and even hypothetically really miss him in her life, then she ain't with the right guy, even though he is so great. more »

  • Comment on: How Do I Stop the Flirting?

    Posted 03/23/2015 12:05:23 EDT

    This guy wants the attention, otherwise, he would have announced he wasn't single earlier. more »

  • Comment on: Should You Weigh Yourself Daily? - Nutrition and You! - Boston.com

    Posted 03/19/2015 11:57:42 EDT

    I weigh myself every day or other day or so. It does cause me to freak out whenever the weight goes up, but I don't gain 5 or 10 pounds without realizing it either. more »

  • Comment on: Not Ready to Date?

    Posted 03/19/2015 11:44:15 EDT

    I think she is looking for validation that she is not wrong for being alone for 4 years. more »

  • Comment on: Not Ready to Date?

    Posted 03/19/2015 11:35:44 EDT

    Simply dating while being separated for 4 years (and are upfront)? Yes. Dating after leaving your husband of many years within months or within a year or so? No. more »

  • Comment on: He Was Emotionally Unavailable

    Posted 03/18/2015 11:39:38 EDT

    She could drag it on for years, which is what I have witnessed with my friends (and I fell victim to it too). Run for the hills! more »

  • Comment on: I Haven't Had a Boyfriend in Five Years

    Posted 03/12/2015 12:18:07 EDT

    Don't meet someone in a few years? Like she should think about throwing in the towel by 35? I like your advice but some people just don't meet the right person until later. It's not awesome fertility- more »

  • Comment on: My Friend Panics About My Boyfriend's Guns

    Posted 03/11/2015 12:05:38 EDT

    She is co-dependent with her friend, and thus cannot draw boundaries. LW likely needs to seek therapy to even see this. more »

  • Comment on: He's Making Plans Without Me

    Posted 03/10/2015 11:27:08 EDT

    I think the guy is grasping at straws as to what his options are...I get that her feelings may be hurt...but he's probably just in his own little world of "what about me...it isn't fair. I don't have more »

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