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Comment on: Watertown Condo Prices Signal Shift in Market
Posted 10/31/2014 01:06:52 EDT
"A poor man's opportunity"? One million dollars?? Wow.
Comment on: New Dog Comforts Victims in Suffolk DAâs Office
Posted 09/19/2014 09:45:17 EDT
Can a donation be made to Canine Companions, to support extending his stay?
Comment on: Pit Bull Injures Man, Kills Border Collie at Quincy Beach
Posted 06/27/2014 10:56:21 EDT
I see people riding their bikes, skateboards, roller blades with a dog on a leash. Not a good idea; you can't really be in control. I wish people wouldn't do that...As far as pit bulls are concerned, more »
Comment on: Tiny âShoeboxâ Apartment in London Costs $1,200 Per Month
Posted 06/04/2014 01:13:19 EDT
Just curious: In what part of London is this apartment located? more »
Comment on: He hasn't kissed me yet
Posted 03/19/2014 09:39:22 EDT
OK, 40's, never married, introverted, "not good at reading signals". I'm just going to throw this out there...maybe it's completely off base. I have a friend who dated someone like this, and it turn more »
Comment on: Obsessed with his past - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 03/13/2014 09:33:42 EDT
Although I think Meredith makes some good observations here, I would wonder why this other woman felt that she had to drop this information about your husband on you? Why would she barge into your pe more »
Comment on: Report: Oil rig worker tells employer he saw Malaysia airliner go down - The Source - Latest news and updates from Boston.com
Posted 03/12/2014 01:18:32 EDT
If this is a hoax, I hope the people involved are caught, and are called to account for a very heartless act.
Comment on: Is this going anywhere? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 03/11/2014 09:34:37 EDT
True enough. She doesn't know unless/until she actually has the conversation with him. I think that this is a good example of the dangers of asking a friend -- even a well-intentioned friend -- abou more »
Comment on: Just the two of us ... and her sister - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 03/10/2014 10:27:18 EDT
The way this situation is going, it's not healthy for any of you. If you really want to be with this person, and are thinking in terms of the rest of your life, you've got to fight for it. I had a f more »
Comment on: He can't keep a job - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 02/28/2014 09:06:21 EST
Well, if he's not trying, then you've got to take care of yourself. You don't say exactly why these other jobs didn't work out, but at this point -- since you've talked to him about it, and it's stil more »
Comment on: I don't need a fancy ring - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 02/27/2014 09:22:31 EST
It might not be a really expensive event that he has in mind. He knows you, and he probably realizes that something expensive wouldn't be your style. You can have a very special, very personalized p more »
Comment on: Caught him on dating websites - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 02/26/2014 10:03:53 EST
Yep, "the trust is kind of gone". That's the most important sentence in the letter. You have great times together, but if trust isn't there, what kind of a relationship is it, really?
Comment on: Boy accidentally shot and wounded in Mattapan, Boston police say - News Local Massachusetts - Boston.com
Posted 02/07/2014 02:09:18 EST
This is horrible. I grieve for this family -- I can't begin to imagine. To all those gun owners out there: Is your gun and ammo safely secured, right now? Do you know where the key is to the cabine more »
Comment on: Doctor diagnoses man with help from TV's 'House' - Europe news - Boston.com
Posted 02/07/2014 12:44:20 EST
In regards to the title: "madest thou look! Here endeth the trick!"
Comment on: He struggles at work - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 02/04/2014 09:09:45 EST
OK, I knew someone like this...*talking* about therapy (it's "under consideration") isn't going to help. It doesn't sound like laziness to me. Therapy, maybe some antianxiety medication may help. I more »
Comment on: We're both unemployed - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 01/30/2014 12:38:42 EST
You raise a good point, Jim. I don't know if there really is a way to keep someone who is hearing "compromise on your principles and go kiss some (rear end) to find a job". I think most, if not all, more »
Posted 01/30/2014 10:21:54 EST
I have been going through the 2014 What Color is Your Parachute, (Bolles, 10 Speed Press), and it is excellent -- he says basically what's being said here. Networking is *very* important, and that co more »
Comment on: I want to get married now - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 01/28/2014 09:27:50 EST
Consider yourself very, very lucky that you've got a supportive mate. It sounds like he's rebounding from unemployment in a way that shows good character, even if it means a (temporary?) pay cut. Do more »
Comment on: He might be a player - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 01/23/2014 10:06:32 EST
I think it would have been better if the brother had told her that this guy had asked for her number, and had let her know -- in advance -- of his reputation. Then, let *her* decide whether she wants more »
Comment on: My husband says I don't have the qualities to raise children - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 01/14/2014 10:08:02 EST
Yep...This is what I was thinking. He thinks she's career-driven, so won't commit fully to a child? I'm guessing here...Having said that, what kind of a father would *he* be, if he can make statemen more »
Comment on: She was still on Match ... - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 01/03/2014 09:54:32 EST
Well, I think she reacted appropriately; I agree with Meredith on that. You say you've been exclusive "for weeks"...if I recently had a conversation about exclusivity with someone, taking down my pro more »
Comment on: I can't trust him anymore - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Posted 01/02/2014 09:13:00 EST
OK, you don't trust him (and there's a good reason for that), and that's driven you to snoop. Do you need any more information than that?
Comment on: He's reevaluating his marriage
Posted 12/31/2013 09:27:58 EST
Look, you're vulnerable; going through a divorce. These things happen. But look at what he said: he's "reevaluating" his marriage. You don't say in your letter whether he's told you that he has se more »
Comment on: Is he marriage material?
Posted 12/26/2013 01:08:11 EST
I think my arteries just clogged...
Posted 12/26/2013 09:34:16 EST
When you say "confronted", do you mean you challenged him in his beliefs, or do you mean you just talked to him? I'm hoping you just talked to him. If he is not interested in Church and that's "a hu more »
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