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Comment on: In New York with no race to run - News - Boston.com
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Comment on: In New York with no race to run - News - Boston.com
They seriously needed someone to make an announcement that it was cancelled? They couldn't use good old fashinoned common sense that would tell them that in the wake of a natural disaster, when homes more »
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Comment on: He's a dud in the bedroom - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more#readerComm
You have to decide if sex is more important than an intelligent, caring partner who supports you unconditionally and ia a great friend. I personally think the sex issue is an asinine reason to break u more »
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Comment on: He says he's finally ready - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
A man who thinks you might be 'the one' does not try to end the relationship several times b/c the timing is not right. Dump the ex. Dump the new guy too. It's apparent that you aren't that into him. more »
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Comment on: She's chatting with someone she dated - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Sorry, maybe I'm old fashioned but one does not 'test boundaries' when one has agreed to marry someone or even to be in a monogmous relationship. If you've committed, you've committed and you don't ch more »
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Comment on: She doesn't want a fake wedding - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I hate to point out the obvious, but: they do perform wedding ceremonies in Great Britain. Have a proper wedding there, then process your visa paperwork and move to hte states. If she is from there, I more »
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Comment on: 'Credit card use frustrates cabdrivers'
Cab drivers' complaints about this is ridiculous. Even the woman who has a kiosk selling earrings at the mall can handle debit and credit cards. I have to use a specific credit card for all transporta more »
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Comment on: Should I move with him? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I'm guessing by a 'land job' she means 'shore duty' and that he's in the Navy. The fact that he does not have sea duty now does not mean that he's not going to deploy. Find out where he is on the IA l more »
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Comment on: Should I move with him? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Military wife here. What is his rank and what branch is he in. It is extremely weird that he asked you to move with him but did not ask you to marry him. Military is very pro-marriage. My now husband more »
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Comment on: Did%20I%20ruin%20it%20with%20March%20Madness%3F
The OP messed up. You told the guy 'a few weeks of games are more important than you. I'll see you in a few weeks after the games are done'. And you wonder why he's upset? This is not the same as a di more »
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Comment on: Monday%20question%3A%20Babes%20in%20arms
Isn't the whole point of Girl's Weekend to get away w/ the girls, get away from your daily responsibilities and just have fun? So, duh!, of course it means you leave the baby at home. Are people reall more »
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Comment on: I can't marry the military - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Seriously: marriage is scary. Okayyyyyy. No, it's not. If you think it is, then that should be a clue that you might want to get your vendor deposits back. Secondly, why are you bothering to write in more »
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Comment on: I can't marry the military - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Really? THIS is your concern? How to bring something up that he is probably wondering why it's never been raised before. My husband raised the entire military issue w/in the first month of dating - th more »
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Comment on: I can't marry the military - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I don't understand why it is a problem that he didn't discuss re-enlisting w/ her first. It was not a surprise that he is in the military and considers it a career choice. It's also not surprising for more »
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Comment on: I can't marry the military - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I've only read a few of the comments. However, I am a military wife. I also got married when I was mid 30s and had an established profession that required a LOT of advanced education and professional more »
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Comment on: Is%20there%20any%20reason%20to%20stay%3F
Yes, you are wasting your time. You know you are wasting your time but you are hoping against hope that readers are going to tell you otherwise. He has made no bones about the fact that he doesn't wan more »
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Comment on: I%26%2339%3Bm%20one%20of%20many
You haven't figured out that your GF is a prostitute yet? Seriously? Never mind about issuing ultimatums. Change your phone number and beat feet as fast as you can. Sales my butt! She's in "sales" alr more »
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Comment on: We're taking it too slow - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I think 2 key questions are 1. how old are her kids and 2. what does she do for work. If her kids are under 5, she works odd hours [anything other than 9-5] or travels a lot for business, then I think more »
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Comment on: The%20rules%20of%20the%20game
The man is not acting shy. He's just not that into you. A shy man will let you make the first move and then, once he knows you are interested in dating him, will, if he is interested in dating you, st more »
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Comment on: Made out with a co-worker - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
It is ALWAYS a bad idea to drink too much at holiday work parties. Basically, anything more than 3 drinks over the course of the evening is too much for a work event, no matter what you are able to pu more »
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Comment on: A%20medical%20problem
Sorry, he's just not that in to you. No matter how busy someone is, if they are interested, they will find the time to call you and get together. Doctors, in general, are pretty arrogant people. They more »
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Comment on: I%20dislike%20her%20friends
Are you attached at the hip? Assuming your GF is in her early 30s/mid 20s, I would estimate that your GF sees these people a few times a month. I would think you can smile and make polite conversation more »
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Comment on: When%20does%20the%20honeymoon%20end%3F
You asked a woman how long she expected to date someone before getting engaged and you now wonder why she and her girlfriends are waiting for you to propose?! Hello! Once you raise the subject of marr more »
So much for editing. It ate half of my post. People are without power, heat, food and adequate sanitation, and other people want to go to NYC, not to help with the relief effort, but to RUN A RACE. more »