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Comment on: Attached To Mike
Posted 06/30/2015 11:34:34 EDT
A little John Barlow seems appropriate. Time for Mike to take control of his own life, and for you to do the same. Good luck! cheers, Faring thee well now. Let your life proceed by its own design. Not more »
Comment on: We Only See Each Other On 'Date Nights'
Posted 06/29/2015 11:19:35 EDT
Guys night is what he is telling her... more »
Posted 06/29/2015 09:17:30 EDT
Your letter is a little complicated with how much time should be spent where. I just wonder if the nights he is out with the guys, if the guys girls are along as well, or is it just guys. Have you eve more »
Comment on: Is Our 'Insane' Sex Life Normal?
Posted 06/26/2015 09:34:15 EDT
This is the crux of the letter. The sex is more important than the relationship. I bet they don't talk much about difficult or serious stuff very often. more »
Posted 06/26/2015 09:30:08 EDT
he really is only thinking with one head.... more »
Posted 06/26/2015 09:28:07 EDT
this will all change when you marry and have kids, enjoy it while you can! more »
Comment on: Did I Overreact?
Posted 06/25/2015 11:53:11 EDT
This! more »
Posted 06/25/2015 11:52:15 EDT
you are fine. I am glad you didn't deliver joy to this guy on his day off. There is so much weirdness on his end that I can't grasp. more »
Comment on: Has He Moved On?
Posted 06/24/2015 09:49:05 EDT
the short of it is he wanted to be with someone more mature. more »
Posted 06/24/2015 09:46:59 EDT
It sounds like both: you hurt him and he moved on. My advice for this 18 year old? Don't rely on text to convey your true feelings, and furthermore, if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything more »
Comment on: I Kept My Problems To Myself
Posted 06/23/2015 03:07:33 EDT
I wouldn't bother with the letter - he has checked out. It was only 5 months. You may want to reconsider how you deal with stuff when you are in a relationship. He may have taken this as a sign of the more »
Comment on: Dealing With His Sister
Posted 06/19/2015 09:14:46 EDT
drama, drama, drama.... I stopped comprehending after: "My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 10 months. We live together and have been trying to start a life together" ==== yes that early. 1 more »
Comment on: He Makes Me Feel Guilty
Posted 06/17/2015 10:15:36 EDT
exactly... This guy has been operating with a list long before he met the LW. more »
Posted 06/17/2015 10:14:17 EDT
yup... my dad and his girl (now married, big age difference) spent 4/7 ths of the week at her house or together. He always paid and didn't complain about paying. He only complained that my step sister more »
Posted 06/17/2015 10:07:39 EDT
"I do my best to make him happy, and overall we have a great relationship." === No. No. No. A thousand times no. You can't live your life trying to make someone else happy. And then feel guilty when y more »
Comment on: I'll See My Ex At a Party
Posted 06/16/2015 09:26:17 EDT
Just be polite. Yes it is rude to ignore someone. I saw mine a month or so ago and just said, hey how's it going? and then he talked at me about himself for 10-15 minutes and I remembered easily why h more »
Comment on: Caught Him Checking My Phone
Posted 06/15/2015 09:11:09 EDT
oh the games people play... you played and you lost. Live and learn. Good luck. more »
Comment on: Move In Again?
Posted 06/11/2015 10:39:23 EDT
exactly.... more »
Posted 06/11/2015 09:26:34 EDT
You want more commitment, the only way to find out is to ask. It should be pretty simple: You: My landlord called and asked what I am going to do about the lease. We've talked about moving in together more »
Comment on: Should I Move 2,000 Miles Away For Him?
Posted 06/09/2015 10:02:36 EDT
I did this also. It really stunk.Yup, they are still dating - only 12 times.... more »
Posted 06/09/2015 10:00:19 EDT
agreed. more »
Posted 06/09/2015 09:58:23 EDT
It sounds like you have doubts. Its only been a year and a very long distance relationship. I think you need more information. Just because you are 60 doesn't mean you should make a rash decision and more »
Comment on: His Friend Was Flirting
Posted 06/08/2015 10:13:46 EDT
He does. more »
Posted 06/08/2015 09:31:55 EDT
"It's as if he was testing me and I failed." ++++ Test me, test me Why don't you arrest me Throw me in the jailhouse Until the sun go down.... +++ My prediction is this is one of many tests you will f more »
Comment on: Can She Get Him Back?
Posted 06/05/2015 09:56:08 EDT
" I just don't know if I ruined all of my chances at getting him back." ++ Only time will tell. I am sure you'll receive plenty of advice on how to move on from this guy who has made it perfectly clea more »
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