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Rich1273

MALE, e.g. Boston, MA

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  • Comment on: He Wants To Visit

    Posted 05/04/2015 09:36:49 EDT

    If she was a sea turtle, this wouldn't be as big of a deal.

  • Comment on: He Wants To Visit

    Posted 05/04/2015 09:35:53 EDT

    I wrote him an e-mail last year saying I didn't want to hear from him or receive half-baked overtures.
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    You sent a breakup email last year to someone you broke up with ten years ago?

  • Comment on: He Wants To Visit

    Posted 05/04/2015 09:25:59 EDT

    He said he wanted to make up for never visiting me before.
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    He just loves dangling that carrot in front of your face.

  • Comment on: He Wants To Visit

    Posted 05/04/2015 09:20:38 EDT

    Usually when I mention him to my friends and family, they roll their eyes. ---------------- Because they realize you are wasting your time and energy hoping for something that will never happen. They more »

  • Comment on: He Wants To Visit

    Posted 05/04/2015 09:12:37 EDT

    I am not sure how to mentally prepare for his visit ----------------- Sexy underwear, proper grooming, make sureyour cardio is good, some snacks because you can get hungry after a sex marathon. The us more »

  • Comment on: He Wants To Visit

    Posted 05/04/2015 09:02:45 EDT

    I've never completely gotten over him... He knows, by the way, that I won't sleep with him unless we're in a relationship. --------------- He knows you've never gotten over him. He will use that to hi more »

  • Comment on: He Wants To Visit

    Posted 05/04/2015 08:59:33 EDT

    My first response was to interpret this as opening the door again, but I also can see that this might just be wishful thinking. -------------- You know that in the back of your mind you are hoping his more »

  • Comment on: He Wants To Visit

    Posted 05/04/2015 08:56:10 EDT

    I am not sure how to mentally prepare for his visit, and whether I should recommend that he stay in a hotel ----------------- Are you sure he didn't contact you to avoid staying at a hotel? Mentally p more »

  • Comment on: They Want Open Relationships

    Posted 05/01/2015 09:42:36 EDT

    Am I expecting too much?
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    I'm not sure. Are you used to dating in the black community? more »

  • Comment on: They Want Open Relationships

    Posted 05/01/2015 09:28:41 EDT

    it's kinda a buzz killer for wanting the relationship to develop further --------------- All you can do is be open and honest about what you're looking for. If you let people know from the beginning w more »

  • Comment on: They Want Open Relationships

    Posted 05/01/2015 09:08:13 EDT

    and feel like I have been on a hamster wheel of short term relationships ------------------ If you're lucky, you'll go from a hamster wheel of short term relationships to spending more time on xhamste more »

  • Comment on: They Want Open Relationships

    Posted 05/01/2015 09:04:25 EDT

    The one thing that has been bothering me lately is the rise in guys
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    Not a fan of the human towel rack? more »

  • Comment on: They Want Open Relationships

    Posted 05/01/2015 09:00:27 EDT

    It seems ironic to me that at a time when we are nearing full marriage equality, my large group of gay friends aren't interested in what I thought marriage was all about. -------------- Weird how hund more »

  • Comment on: They Want Open Relationships

    Posted 05/01/2015 08:55:01 EDT

    The one thing that has been bothering me lately is the rise in guys I have been with who either talk about or want non-monogamous, open relationships. ----------------- At least they are being honest more »

  • Comment on: Fell For a Married Woman

    Posted 04/30/2015 10:18:20 EDT

    I sat on a bench with a co-worker who began to tell me of her broken marriage. ------------------ Just be glad that it wasn't a male co-worker that sat down next to you telling you about his broken ma more »

  • Comment on: Fell For a Married Woman

    Posted 04/30/2015 10:05:50 EDT

    I know the easy advice (and the easy move) is to tell her to make up her mind, set an ultimatum, and let that be it. ---------------- She'll never set an ultimatum. If things were as bad as she says a more »

  • Comment on: Fell For a Married Woman

    Posted 04/30/2015 09:54:50 EDT

    Hopelessly in love with the wrong person ------------------ The thing about being in love is that there is usually some level of trust involved to make it work. Do you know her well enough to say that more »

  • Comment on: Fell For a Married Woman

    Posted 04/30/2015 09:47:25 EDT

    the fact that we work fairly closely together and I can't just say I'm going to stop seeing her. ---------------- Have you thought at all about being in a relationship, or married, with someone you wo more »

  • Comment on: Fell For a Married Woman

    Posted 04/30/2015 09:39:14 EDT

    As for me, I'm losing my mind. ---------- Why? You're an escape for her. Something fun to take her mind off of her possibly shitty marriage. You should be thinking of her the same way. Do you really w more »

  • Comment on: Fell For a Married Woman

    Posted 04/30/2015 09:31:54 EDT

    he turns around and spends his nights playing video games again. -------------- Sorry, I forgot that you spend your nights at the soup kitchen reading stories to all the homeless children. In between more »

  • Comment on: Fell For a Married Woman

    Posted 04/30/2015 09:27:38 EDT

    Her marriage has not improved
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    So banging a co-worker doesn't improve your marriage? I guess you learn something new every day. more »

  • Comment on: Fell For a Married Woman

    Posted 04/30/2015 09:25:01 EDT

    I never believed that I would be able to love those children as much as I would my own. However, this situation has completely turned me around on that idea. ------------------- I'm sure your relation more »

  • Comment on: Fell For a Married Woman

    Posted 04/30/2015 09:22:02 EDT

    Sometime in February, things became physical. ----------------- To be fair, along with conjugal visit sex, adultery sex is pretty great. Do you always go to confession right afterwards, or do you just more »

  • Comment on: Fell For a Married Woman

    Posted 04/30/2015 09:16:51 EDT

    I'm no Prince Valiant, but it just didn't seem right at the time. ------------------ You were right not to make a move right away. It's best to go through a couple of weeks of sexting with a married p more »

  • Comment on: Fell For a Married Woman

    Posted 04/30/2015 09:14:21 EDT

    That night I drove her home, and though there were obvious strong feelings on both sides, I resisted any physical hookup. --------------------- I think at the next Adulterer Awards (AA's) you should a more »

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