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About Me: Work in Boston, Live in Worcester. Yeah, I know it's a long commute.

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  • Forum Post: Do I stay or go

    Posted 10/26/2012 09:53:46 EDT

    In response to BzznAlong's comment: What now?   Seriously, what in hell are you waiting for. If you are not out by Christmas then I have to conclude that you are one of the women who enjoys being abus more »

  • Forum Post: How long...

    Posted 01/23/2012 12:27:52 EST

    Maybe the LW is dating the guy who is supposed to fix the comment box. more »

  • Forum Post: Bouncing between two exes - Comment box alternative

    Posted 01/23/2012 10:38:52 EST

    you are interested in drama and attention.  You are obviously not capable to forming a real relationship with anyone.  You are the type of person guys should use for b**ty calls and nothing else. more »

  • Forum Post: Age and Ageing - Dating

    Posted 10/28/2011 01:46:18 EDT

    My cousin married a woman 17 years older than he was.  Of course, everyone assumed that he would die first, but it didn't work out that way.  There are no certainties in life. more »

  • Forum Post: Soul Mates. Do you believe?

    Posted 10/28/2011 01:43:45 EDT

    I sued to be3lieve in soul mates, but that was when I was about 20.  Since then I have had a few of what you might call soul mates.  For various reasons the connection wasn't final, but at the time... more »

  • Forum Post: Age and Ageing - Dating

    Posted 10/28/2011 01:41:40 EDT

    Out of curiosity, would you have dated much older? I haven't dated anyone much older, but I would not exclude the possibility.  If she were fun to be with, etc.... But then you mention "wife" and I am more »

  • Forum Post: Age and Ageing - Dating

    Posted 10/26/2011 11:26:00 EDT

    Age itself doesn't matter so much.  I have dated women close to my age but also a couple who were twenty years younger. I have found that a lot of women who are "older" are neither active, engaged in more »

  • Forum Post: Books

    Posted 10/21/2011 01:49:12 EDT

    thanks, reindeergirl . I will remember the warning.  The woman I am dating right now has simple tastes (for the moment) more »

  • Forum Post: Books

    Posted 10/20/2011 01:24:27 EDT

    When you are saying that he must read "the good stuff" I am lost.  I mean, almost everyone thinks they read "the good stuff". That's why they are reading it.  But to me, yes, someone who is knows abou more »

  • Forum Post: Book Smart versus Street Smart

    Posted 10/13/2011 01:13:47 EDT

    I find that a lot of young people are very trusting these days. They expect that everything is safe and warm.  Unfortunately, a lot of them will have some rude awakenings. Then again, maybe she was ju more »

  • Forum Post: Why is he looking at online dating sites?

    Posted 10/03/2011 10:51:11 EDT

    There is nothing wrong with friending people on a site such as this one, or FB.  However, looking around on a site designed to find dates shouldn't happen if a guy is in a commited relationship.  So, more »

  • Forum Post: Selling a wedding dress

    Posted 09/22/2011 02:48:29 EDT

    Thanks, but I'll pass on it

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  • Forum Post: Tip Question

    Posted 09/15/2011 10:11:12 EDT

    I would think that $20 or $30 per waitstaff would be adequate. more »

  • Forum Post: Facebook Nonsense

    Posted 09/14/2011 12:25:35 EDT

    "The intense happiness of our union is derived in a high degree from the perfect freedom with which we each follow and declare our own impressions." - George Eliot

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  • Forum Post: Facebook Nonsense

    Posted 09/12/2011 10:47:50 EDT

    I enjoy flirting and I do it shamelessly.  And women flirt back.  When it's in person, it is easier to recognize that flirting is all that it is... and nothing more.  On the internet, those visual cue more »

  • Forum Post: suicidal spouse

    Posted 09/09/2011 05:54:10 EDT

    I've been in a relationship where the significant other was suicidal.  It was tough, and fortunately she went to therapy and dealt with some things from long ago. (Years later, she is fine now). Relat more »

  • Forum Post: Facebook Nonsense

    Posted 09/08/2011 03:21:26 EDT

    Dear reindeergirl You have a really, really nice voice. Just thought I would tell you that. I pretty much stopped reading when you said: "He asked me almost nothing about myself".  That was the clue. more »

  • Forum Post: Ultimatums

    Posted 09/08/2011 03:16:05 EDT

    A friend of mine got married when his girlfriend issued an ultimatum, and they have now been married for ten years.  They are unhappy, indeed, miserable, but they are married. more »