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  • Posted 07/27/2015 09:46:18 EDT

    Dear Mere, I am unbelievably selfish and self-involved. I do not believe I should be denied anything nor should I have to earn it. It JUST SHOULD BE GIVEN TO ME. Now my lunkhead of a husband who has b more »

  • Posted 07/27/2015 09:20:20 EDT

    I think there is a missing piece here, but there is a clue. She had a bad reaction when he asked her to consider finding a job. From that, I have to believe there was a bad moment when she said she wa more »

  • Posted 07/23/2015 09:09:37 EDT

    It is unlikely you can construct a healthy relationship with someone who is in a dysfunctional one as well. You might be wise to tell him he needs to end things with Michael once and for all. Then he more »

  • Posted 07/22/2015 10:46:22 EDT

    Take him to the local gay bar. If all the patrons greet him with a loud, "Norm!" you have your answer. more »

  • Posted 07/22/2015 09:19:54 EDT

    Doesn't sound like you two are bound by traditional values (since you live together) that would make him want to hide his sexuality. Maybe you are doubting your desire to marry him and are latching on more »

  • Posted 07/22/2015 09:19:52 EDT

    Doesn't sound like you two are bound by traditional values (since you live together) that would make him want to hide his sexuality. Maybe you are doubting your desire to marry him and are latching on more »

  • Posted 07/21/2015 09:40:10 EDT

    "I am dating you because Jen won't." "Her loss, my gain." "That's why I love you. Also, you are so understanding that we still have lunch and dinner together, text daily and mark the holidays, because more »

  • Posted 07/21/2015 09:22:39 EDT

    Jen likes the attention. Why not? What does John like? Is it giving the attention? Hmmm, that does not seem plausible because he could give that attention to you. Or does John like thinking he still h more »

  • Comment on: I'm the bad guy

    Posted 07/20/2015 09:41:49 EDT

    I wonder what the rescues were like. I am imagining her dangling him off the balcony by his feet, "You wanna die dumb-ass? Forget those pills! I will just drop you on your head from this building - sp more »

  • Comment on: I'm the bad guy

    Posted 07/20/2015 09:15:48 EDT

    It is really important that you continue to track all of his activities. Having friends who follow his posts on social media and tell you what he is doing is not enough. I really think you need to fin more »

  • Posted 07/17/2015 10:09:35 EDT

    This is one of those complicated, convoluted situations where essentially you gave him the opportunity to be a weasel. If you had never engaged with him, you never would have found out that he was jus more »

  • Posted 07/16/2015 02:59:03 EDT

    I think he really had not matured that much. It is more like he was more attentive to you, he wanted your attention and knew he needed to modify his act to get it. You took that as an indication that more »

  • Posted 07/15/2015 01:21:36 EDT

    I get it, you are new to this, you see someone who you think is really interesting and she shows interest, so your mind races forward and this is it, dating problems solved, she is the one you will ha more »

  • Posted 07/14/2015 09:15:52 EDT

    This is why test drives are so important. more »

  • Posted 07/13/2015 09:46:24 EDT

    Some people are experiential learners, I would say you are definitely not one of those. You continue to have the same experience over and over again that you don't like. Grab a self-help book, or thre more »

  • Comment on: Is She Into Me?

    Posted 07/10/2015 09:05:19 EDT

    To quote a Nike ad, "Tiger, what have you learned?" And I am thinking, not much. You have the deadly combination of overthinking and under communicating. Seems like you want to date but don't know how more »

  • Posted 07/09/2015 09:21:24 EDT

    Minus the first six months of dating, you have spent 18 months waiting for him to integrate you into his life. For 18 months he has happily not integrated you into his life. You are caught up in the c more »

  • Comment on: Boyfriend Or Baby

    Posted 07/08/2015 10:12:10 EDT

    A cauldron of angst: what to do? If you dump Matthew, how long to do you have to find someone you would consider building a life with and is willing to have children. You have had approximately two de more »

  • Posted 07/07/2015 11:51:20 EDT

    You must understand that you do not spend the night at his place because he is still haunted by his lost love and he is not willing to let you intrude in that "sacred" space. And just in case you are more »

  • Posted 07/06/2015 09:37:37 EDT

    You need to start riding a bicycle. WHOA, flashback. How about this: you sound unhappy with yourself or your situation and you believe a long last intimate relationship will change all that. The hard more »

  • Posted 07/01/2015 09:01:52 EDT

    My dear, you have become a habit, not a girlfriend. Leave him to his phone and his sarcasm and his lack of courage to share his feelings unless he is under the influence. Yes, the relationship sucks, more »

  • Comment on: Attached To Mike

    Posted 06/30/2015 09:14:01 EDT

    Didn't his girlfriend write in about his devotion to his friend/roommate a couple months ago? Seems like he is finally on the same page with her, it is time to drop Mike. Only in her letter, Mike had more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 09:09:59 EDT

    I love my boyfriend but I need to change him. Actually, forget changing him, and change boyfriends instead. more »

  • Posted 06/26/2015 09:49:39 EDT

    There is a humble part of this? I missed it. "Dear Meredith, We are enjoying a festival of orgasms. Is that normal? Sign me: Wish You Were US" more »

  • Posted 06/26/2015 09:02:39 EDT

    Normal is a setting on a washing machine. more »