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  • Posted 07/01/2015 09:01:52 EDT

    My dear, you have become a habit, not a girlfriend. Leave him to his phone and his sarcasm and his lack of courage to share his feelings unless he is under the influence. Yes, the relationship sucks, more »

  • Comment on: Attached To Mike

    Posted 06/30/2015 09:14:01 EDT

    Didn't his girlfriend write in about his devotion to his friend/roommate a couple months ago? Seems like he is finally on the same page with her, it is time to drop Mike. Only in her letter, Mike had more »

  • Posted 06/29/2015 09:09:59 EDT

    I love my boyfriend but I need to change him. Actually, forget changing him, and change boyfriends instead. more »

  • Posted 06/26/2015 09:49:39 EDT

    There is a humble part of this? I missed it. "Dear Meredith, We are enjoying a festival of orgasms. Is that normal? Sign me: Wish You Were US" more »

  • Posted 06/26/2015 09:02:39 EDT

    Normal is a setting on a washing machine. more »

  • Comment on: Did I Overreact?

    Posted 06/25/2015 09:13:40 EDT

    You were right the first time you broke up with him. more »

  • Comment on: Has He Moved On?

    Posted 06/24/2015 10:25:46 EDT

    I cannot get past "Everything was great but we never got to hang out..." part. Where can you go from there? You mean, after weeks of texting and no actual, in the same room, verbal/visual/physical con more »

  • Posted 06/22/2015 09:24:20 EDT

    You are dating the wrong guy. more »

  • Posted 06/19/2015 10:03:20 EDT

    Agreed more »

  • Posted 06/19/2015 09:06:37 EDT

    1) Make Fist
    2) Pop sis in between the eyes
    3) Apologize, shake hands, move on
    Bullies, they only understand one thing. more »

  • Posted 06/18/2015 09:28:35 EDT

    You didn't exactly demand much on that first "meet up" before you were bumping uglies. Understand you are changing expectations, and he may not be open to them - he feels he has hit the sweet spot of more »

  • Posted 06/17/2015 03:39:43 EDT

    Yes. Maybe you can confirm if your "Man Picker being seriously askew" and "your type" are actually in alignment. more »

  • Posted 06/17/2015 03:37:25 EDT

    This turned out to be a great survey on who is a score keeper and who isn't. more »

  • Posted 06/17/2015 09:51:57 EDT

    You bring what you can to a relationship and if you find the other person lacking, then bail. Don't sit around saying, "you owe me" because no one is forcing you to invest anything - financially, emot more »

  • Posted 06/17/2015 09:11:06 EDT

    So when you argue it is not about settling your differences, it is about winning. He brings out the financial score card and starts ringing up his contributions. Here is the problem: you buy into it. more »

  • Posted 06/16/2015 09:07:41 EDT

    Something like: I found him in bed with my twin brother who was wearing a wig so he looked just like me... more »

  • Posted 06/16/2015 09:06:21 EDT

    I wish you had not spared us the details of the break up because it might have added some life to this letter. more »

  • Posted 06/15/2015 10:00:40 EDT

    Hmmm, I wonder how Johnny will react if I act like I am cheating. Ok, so he is going to snoop is he? Wwell then, I was only ACTING like I was cheating, but he was REALLY snooping, so HE IS THE BAD ONE more »

  • Posted 06/15/2015 10:00:37 EDT

    Hmmm, I wonder how Johnny will react if I act like I am cheating. Ok, so he is going to snoop is he? Wwell then, I was only ACTING like I was cheating, but he was REALLY snooping, so HE IS THE BAD ONE more »

  • Posted 06/12/2015 09:03:51 EDT

    Dear Mer, I have been a victim of cheating and I am dating a man who is a serial cheater. Wait, that is really stupid, I need to break up with him. Never mind. Thanks, Sign me "A Little Slow, Not Stup more »

  • Comment on: Move In Again?

    Posted 06/11/2015 09:07:07 EDT

    Conventional answer: If after 3.5 years you cannot figure out a way to take the next step, then the next step is to break up and move on. Or maybe this is the best case scenario for your relationship more »

  • Posted 06/11/2015 08:30:13 EDT

    Hey, look at me, I took a hammer and used it as a drill. A really dumb idea, but hey, it proves a hammer is not a drill. more »

  • Posted 06/02/2015 08:51:25 EDT

    A month: He is thinking, "I really like jello, but do I tell her? She will think I am weird. Definitely do not want to jeopardize the sex over what I like for dessert." She is thinking, "I am ready to more »

  • Posted 06/01/2015 09:33:41 EDT

    Dear Mere,

    Due to getting blindsided by my last boyfriend, do you think it wise that I do everything to drive this one off before he gets the chance to leave me?

    Desperate for Perfection more »

  • Posted 05/28/2015 09:36:45 EDT

    Permission to break up granted. If you are getting angry about his partying that means you wish he would change. He wants to change as much as you want to change, which is about zero. So move on, diff more »