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JAR-VT

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About Me: Living the dream. Walking the walk. Wait, where am I? I'm funny. I'm lame.

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  • Posted 06/26/2015 03:34:44 EDT

    Is that ok?

  • Posted 06/16/2015 11:30:31 EDT

    My brilliant response to the issue is: Talk to him within a short period of seeing him, just a quick "yes, we are the same room as each other," then forget all about him. That way she won't be dreadin more »

  • Posted 06/16/2015 11:26:34 EDT

    You can be over it for all intents and purposes, but still anxious about seeing the person. more »

  • Comment on: Move In Again?

    Posted 06/11/2015 12:26:53 EDT

    This X at least 5. Why waste your time living with someone unless the end is marriage? (if you want to get married). Just living together prolongs the break up process if you actually aren't meant to more »

  • Posted 06/09/2015 11:09:37 EDT

    He also doesn't bus, train, or drive apparently. more »

  • Posted 06/09/2015 11:04:24 EDT

    Best advice on here today. more »

  • Posted 05/11/2015 01:29:28 EDT

    I don't know. My brother is 36 and I see him being single into his 40s, if he ever does get with anybody. He's not gay (but he also doesn't send out Xmas cards). He's mostly just lazy and is only attr more »

  • Posted 05/11/2015 01:12:03 EDT

    Most people are not skeptical enough about separated people. And they should be. more »

  • Comment on: He Changed

    Posted 05/08/2015 12:55:05 EDT

    Yes to YS....the real question from the LW, is how do I safely get this guy out of my house? I don't think he'll go easy. more »

  • Posted 05/06/2015 12:39:21 EDT

    It only took me 35 years to figure this out. more »

  • Posted 05/06/2015 12:32:11 EDT

    Only in the US would you have the inclination to do this...where other country's folks are fighting for their lives, to have enough food, we have morons wasting valuable resources and potentially putt more »

  • Posted 05/06/2015 12:32:10 EDT

    Only in the US would you have the inclination to do this...where other country's folks are fighting for their lives, to have enough food, we have morons wasting valuable resources and potentially putt more »

  • Posted 05/04/2015 12:48:41 EDT

    My gay friends had met their life partner/now husband by the time they were in their mid-20s. I have no idea how...so I think it depends. That person is out there, who wants what you want! Just take a more »

  • Comment on: He's a Crier

    Posted 04/21/2015 01:43:26 EDT

    Without sleep, the body/mind starts to lose the ability to emotionally regulate. Agree with your advice. She is not living in his world, nor can she understand it. more »

  • Posted 04/17/2015 12:20:29 EDT

    People can point out the obvious, which is that fast food work is not a career unless you get to a managerial position and maybe not even then. So while I can empathize with the man's problems, he obv more »

  • Posted 04/16/2015 11:39:30 EDT

    Married. more »

  • Posted 04/16/2015 11:31:46 EDT

    An STD phone call would probably take more than a minute. It was probably just a wrong number. The only reason she came to her conclusion was the complete lack of trust, so yeah send out the dump truc more »

  • Posted 04/15/2015 01:07:05 EDT

    Any guy who watches his 38 year old gf freeze her eggs is the biggest DB I can think of. He might as well be saying, "well, at least she'll get a chance at a kid after I waste her life." I've watched more »

  • Posted 04/15/2015 01:04:46 EDT

    Any guy who watches his 38 year old gf freeze her eggs is the biggest DB I can think of. He might as well be saying, "well, at least she'll get a chance at a kid after I waste her life." more »

  • Posted 04/15/2015 12:34:01 EDT

    I had questions about this guy being a one hit wonder myself. Doesn't round 2 take longer? And I disagree with your LAST sentence. Sex can get better with time for many. more »

  • Posted 04/13/2015 12:30:20 EDT

    Go out for a hike and do it in the woods; take a class together on tantric massage and listen to Sting the whole time. more »

  • Posted 04/13/2015 12:27:12 EDT

    I keep telling my husband that there must be such a thing as b*ll flicking and he says no. But there is every other filthy disgusting thing out there. There's got to be some masochists that are into i more »

  • Posted 03/26/2015 12:01:06 EDT

    I think she should try imagining living without him. If she doesn't shudder at it, and even hypothetically really miss him in her life, then she ain't with the right guy, even though he is so great. more »

  • Posted 03/23/2015 12:05:23 EDT

    This guy wants the attention, otherwise, he would have announced he wasn't single earlier. more »

  • Posted 03/19/2015 11:57:42 EDT

    I weigh myself every day or other day or so. It does cause me to freak out whenever the weight goes up, but I don't gain 5 or 10 pounds without realizing it either. more »

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